FrankR

A search did not produce anything. Anybody have experience with this guy? https://m.adam4adam.com/profile/view/Sebs_SteelNYC

The Rentmasseur ad indicates that he does not offer erotic massage, I guess that is kinda, sorta consistent with your experience? ??‍♂️

Welcome! I am sorry to hear that you had this experience. It is disrespectful of clients to treat a provider this way. The golden rule should always apply: treat others as you would want to be treated. Only once over the past 3 years have I cancelled an appointment on short notice. I sent the provider his fee via Google Pay because it was the right thing to do. He has since become a repeat provider. There is no real way for you to call out these members here on the forum as they will likely report you for “attacking a member of the forum”. So my advice is “let it go”. Now if they ask for a 2nd chance to meet, you would be within your rights to ask for a deposit. They can 1. Agree. 2. Decline and skulk off - you dodged a bullet in that case or 3. Decline and post about it here on the forum. In case of 3. you can private message them and remind them that they cancelled on you thus the deposit request - ask them to include that info in their post or if they dont, reply to their post stating your policy of deposit after a cancellation, do it in such a way that it is factual and cant be seen as attacking a member. Reality is that it will take you some time to build up a customer base of repeat customers. They are worth having! ?

I was thinking exactly the same thing. My risk meter wont be ignored when I read this...

Amen!

Amen!

I understand the importance of the mind when it comes to sex and a fantasy can be a powerful aphrodisiac. As a top, I cant help but worry about how prepared the str8 guy is, in terms of hygiene. I had one experience where a str8 guy came on to me, and when we got there, he wasnt ready at all, despite saying that he was. And then he kept hitting me up for weeks after to repeat! LOL!!! If you are just into oral or a bttm, you may have an easier time with the str8 boys (or those that claim to be!) Me? I’ll go with the home team every time!

I understand the importance of the mind when it comes to sex and a fantasy can be a powerful aphrodisiac. As a top, I cant help but worry about how prepared the str8 guy is, in terms of hygiene. I had one experience where a str8 guy came on to me, and when we got there, he wasnt ready at all, despite saying that he was. And then he kept hitting me up for weeks after to repeat! LOL!!! If you are just into oral or a bttm, you may have an easier time with the str8 boys (or those that claim to be!) Me? I’ll go with the home team every time!

Would you mind sharing the source of these maps? Would like to compare a few others... As to your question, if I had to choose, I would likely take your fiance’s approach. :-)

Would you mind sharing the source of these maps? Would like to compare a few others... As to your question, if I had to choose, I would likely take your fiance’s approach. :-)

Not sure I buy this either - data analysts can mold data to support so many suppositions. I see it every day when I watch the news. As Warren Buffett is fond of saying: Beware of geeks bearing formulas. He was referring to financial instruments, but the logic applies here. Did the analysis account for the fact that men of a minority class is...a minority on these sites? Did it take into account age and other parameters?

You are living the dream my friend! That is a lot of man to manhandle! :-)

Agree with LA and NYC. Miami and DC are hot spots for visiting masseurs too, if that is your thing.

Hell no, you didn't!

That is interesting... I guess YMMV. Can you recall if you requested an erotic massage? I am usually very clear on expectations.

Sure there are. For example: https://rent.men/Masculine_stud and https://friendboy.pro/boys/Lion_NY Both have favorable reviews on Daddy’s...

Danny has my vote too. Mostly folks here seem to take issue with the fact that he doesnt get naked, but that has never impaired his ability to give a great massage in my experience.

By the modern super hero standard we all have to lose weight! Compare Adam West in his role as Batman in the 60s with Ben Affleck a few years ago. Adam was a handsome but ordinary guy...not ripped like a ticket stub!

There are a number of threads that mention him. All positive feedback from what I can tell. Here is on example. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/tim-nyc-is-a-find.124239/

Wait, isn't Manhattan in NYC? What am I missing??

Come to think of it, he is from Utah, maybe I can offer to be an “anchor” for other fellas from Utah like @VictorPowers and @BrianStrowkes; could be my ‘niche’!!

You may be fishing in an empty barrel. The best i can do is suggest you review this link... https://www.travelgayasia.com/seoul-gay-massage-spas/

My experience is that my regulars are happy with $250 for their time (that includes tip). These are the guys I hang out with once or twice a month. I give them a little extra over the holidays or around their birthdays. I have another ‘regular’ that travels. When he comes to town, about every six months, he stays overnight for $500. I provide dinner and breakfast, gym and laundry facilities etc. He likes the arrangement because he gets to avoid paying $300 (or more!) for a hotel for that night, gets free meals and can take care of his gym and laundry needs.

Wow! Way too adventurous for me, I admit. My risk meter just blew a fuse - sounds like a good way to get your teeth knocked out...