FrankR

I thought you were speaking figuratively until I noticed the reference to photos!

True!

Oh boy, thanks for the trip down memory lane! Ive seen these pics before - he used to advertise in NYC on craigslst. So he has been around for a while. From what I recall his rates were outside of my price range.

Here is a review by @KeepItReal. https://www.daddysreviews.com/search/Active/Victor/victor_philly I met him socially. He seemed like a nice guy and was very attractive. I follow him on instagram. He is on my list of people to meet in Philly...

You may have more luck asking your question in the “The Deli” section of the forum. Have not met him, but as a rule I avoid anybody that uses an honorific like Lord, Prince, King or God...

The response that comes to my mind is along the lines of: “That is Mr typical faggot to you, pip squeak. I hope your day is as nice as you are.” Then again, really not worth your time to respond to somebody like that.

Were you exercising caution because you did not know how he defined ‘erotic massage’ or was the erotic part never mentioned when you set up the appointment? Sensual is always the tricky one for me, but erotic seems a little more direct.

Were you exercising caution because you did not know how he defined ‘erotic massage’ or was the erotic part never mentioned when you set up the appointment? Sensual is always the tricky one for me, but erotic seems a little more direct.

Were you exercising caution because you did not know how he defined ‘erotic massage’ or was the erotic part never mentioned when you set up the appointment? Sensual is always the tricky one for me, but erotic seems a little more direct.

Any update from recent experience would be appreciated...

Thanks. Too gay...this I have to see!!

LOL! Yes, I was looking towards the upcoming summer months. In the winter time I keep all my precious bits well covered!

I suppose that makes me a 12 year old. ? Or to say it in a different way: Sex is a soup...and I am a fork. ?

Looking for a recommendation for a resort close by NYC - outside the city, maybe something with a view of nature (river etc). Spa/swimming pool facilities and light exercise like biking would be welcome. Food and beverages on site. Clothing optional and gay friendly. Thanks!

A search did not produce anything. Anybody have experience with this guy? https://m.adam4adam.com/profile/view/Sebs_SteelNYC

The Rentmasseur ad indicates that he does not offer erotic massage, I guess that is kinda, sorta consistent with your experience? ??‍♂️

Welcome! I am sorry to hear that you had this experience. It is disrespectful of clients to treat a provider this way. The golden rule should always apply: treat others as you would want to be treated. Only once over the past 3 years have I cancelled an appointment on short notice. I sent the provider his fee via Google Pay because it was the right thing to do. He has since become a repeat provider. There is no real way for you to call out these members here on the forum as they will likely report you for “attacking a member of the forum”. So my advice is “let it go”. Now if they ask for a 2nd chance to meet, you would be within your rights to ask for a deposit. They can 1. Agree. 2. Decline and skulk off - you dodged a bullet in that case or 3. Decline and post about it here on the forum. In case of 3. you can private message them and remind them that they cancelled on you thus the deposit request - ask them to include that info in their post or if they dont, reply to their post stating your policy of deposit after a cancellation, do it in such a way that it is factual and cant be seen as attacking a member. Reality is that it will take you some time to build up a customer base of repeat customers. They are worth having! ?

I was thinking exactly the same thing. My risk meter wont be ignored when I read this...

Amen!

Amen!

I understand the importance of the mind when it comes to sex and a fantasy can be a powerful aphrodisiac. As a top, I cant help but worry about how prepared the str8 guy is, in terms of hygiene. I had one experience where a str8 guy came on to me, and when we got there, he wasnt ready at all, despite saying that he was. And then he kept hitting me up for weeks after to repeat! LOL!!! If you are just into oral or a bttm, you may have an easier time with the str8 boys (or those that claim to be!) Me? I’ll go with the home team every time!

I understand the importance of the mind when it comes to sex and a fantasy can be a powerful aphrodisiac. As a top, I cant help but worry about how prepared the str8 guy is, in terms of hygiene. I had one experience where a str8 guy came on to me, and when we got there, he wasnt ready at all, despite saying that he was. And then he kept hitting me up for weeks after to repeat! LOL!!! If you are just into oral or a bttm, you may have an easier time with the str8 boys (or those that claim to be!) Me? I’ll go with the home team every time!

Would you mind sharing the source of these maps? Would like to compare a few others... As to your question, if I had to choose, I would likely take your fiance’s approach. :-)

Would you mind sharing the source of these maps? Would like to compare a few others... As to your question, if I had to choose, I would likely take your fiance’s approach. :-)