FrankR

It’s called a “shawty”. Will get the provider removed from my christmas card list in a hurry. ?

Mentioned earlier here: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-brmas-wilker-lopez-visiting-philly-aka-leojacob.148929/ No one has vouched for him as far as I can see. Name changing is always a red flag in my book... ?

You’ve mentioned it before here on the forum. I do wonder if this happened when they first started the site, to get some traction. ? Not something I approve of or would endorse, but sometimes folks make bad decision when they are inexperienced. None of the guys I approached from the site indicated surprise about their profile on the site - I always mention where I found their contact details. That makes me a satisfied customer, I guess.? I also agree that a bit of competition for Rentmen/Rentmasseur is a good thing. ? @Hadakanbo appears to be correct - the NYC list is very diverse. Which is definitely a good thing! ??

Do tell us the brand and model! Very few of them are FDA approved...and those that are, are pretty expensive. (A little off topic, but inquiring minds want to know!) ?

I can certainly see why concierge service would be beneficial to some. As I age and my needs for easier and longer access to a physician increases, I will certainly consider the cost/benefit as it will likely lead to better outcomes - more time and attention when needed can certainly beneficial. Same is probably true for those that suffer from chronic illness. ?

His Rentmen ad reads like the ad of an escort. It mentions his preferences.

You should check out the dollar menu! ? (I know, that was so in poor taste...)

You absolutely should! Corporate reads all customer complaints, even those on social media. But dont let it get to you! My grandmother used to say: Jealousy makes you nasty! He was probably jealous. ?

It’s been known to happen. We’ve seen some chatter about it here on the forum from time to time. Happened to me a few times of the years, usually when I am on vacation overseas. I feel like I should caution against sharing too much detail here as it could impact the livelihood of a licensed masseur. And in this case the experience may be very different from person to person. Your mileage may vary (YMMV) probably doesnt cover it. ?

To each his own! In this thread folks discussed the other side of the coin... https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/things-you-learn-about-yourself-through-this-hobby.150421/

His ad is a little quirky. Good to know there is gold in them thar hills!

Every pot has a lid. Or as my grandma used to say: if you go looking for trouble, you will surely find it! ?

You may have more luck in the Deli section if you are looking for assured extras. Including a location can help too. Perhaps a thread titles: Recs for muscled 20 year old with massage skills in Atlanta...

An Adam4Adam profile is probably a good start! ? Dont forget to add the link to to your A4A profile to your account profile here on the forum.

You have an exhibitionist streak in ya, don’t you!?!? ???

You may find this thread helpful: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/dumb-question-posting-pictures-from-hardrive-in-new-forum.127906/

Yes! A few weeks ago I had the great experience of seeing Dana Winner in concert - I know she isn’t known in the USA, but she knocked my socks off! The kind of thing you rarely see and always remember... ?

Oh never fear young man! Most of us will never be confused for Mormons or Jehovah’s witnesses! ??

You may be surprised! I joined AARP at the ripe old age of...36! A small price to pay for some of the discounts I receive through my membership! ?

I would never be comfortable using my employer’s wifi for Grindr... That is why I pay T-Mobile for an ‘all you can eat’ data plan! ?

I only spend time with guys that respect my boundaries, just as I respect theirs. Sometimes I have to remind them of those boundaries in the excitement of the moment. ? Perhaps a quote from that great philosopher, Van Wilder will help reinforce your willpower: “Don’t be a fool, wrap your tool!” ?

This surprised me during my first trip to Europe many moons ago. I had to learn to adapt to it; “embrace the suck” as my military brat buddies are fond of saying. Nowadays, when I head over there for work, I insist on staying at a hotel from a large chain (Hyatt, Marriott etc) as they are good at having ‘proper’ heat/air available. ?

This thread is so sad to read. Life is HARD and when you add the “easy escape” that drugs appear to provide, along with the expectations of those around us (either real or perceived) - I can understand why folks choose that path. Then glitz and glamour that goes with certain industries also appear to exacerbate this. My grandma used to say that God knows the name of every bird, the color of every flower and exactly how broad your shoulders are - he will never give you more than you can carry. If only that was true....

Bargain of the week folks - currently offering $0 for 60 minute incall. ? I assume that is a typo that will be corrected soon... https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/29119/

I don't go into a massage session at a spa expecting more than a good massage. Perfectly happy to take a breath, relax and enjoy the massage. I will admit I go into the session hoping that there will be chemistry but it is not an expectation. Also read the body language of the masseur. Sometimes touching is invited. Or not - if there is lots of chatter about his husband or boyfriend, I will likely refrain. When I go for a massage outside of a spa environment, I usually discuss my expectations of the session with the provider ahead of time to make sure the masseur is comfortable with my requests. (Granted, my needs appear to be pretty vanilla compared with most so that discussion is usually pretty easy!)