FrankR

Not true - a properly fitted mask provides protection and have demonstrates the ability to slow, even prevent, the spread. The CDC says that you should wear the most protective mask possible that you'll wear regularly and that fits. Respirators such as nonsurgical N95s give the most protection. KN95s and medical masks provide the next highest level of protection. Cloth masks provide less protection. The CDC says that surgical N95 masks should be reserved for health care providers.

Here is his other profile: https://rentmasseur.com/Rafael_BR Perhaps he is one of those guys who keeps changing his profile name?

Seems to be a dizzying number of options out there. And quite expensive too. https://www.nytimes.com/wirecutter/reviews/best-air-fryer/amp/ They also sound like a hassle to clean.

I am sure grandma Ellie wouldnt approve. Her advice for fried chicken and sun burnt chicken legs (in my case) was always the same: put some Crisco on it! 😆

That would be when you are old enough to stop lying about your age and start bragging about it!! 😉

He retired a dozen years ago. Now married with children - last update put him in the Czech Republic. Deleted all his social media accounts.

Yes, after my morning run and again before I go to bed in the evening. 🚿

In other words “I am pretty to look at but sure to disappoint if you expect an erotic massage…”

Well, since I have never had sex with a woman I do qualify as a virgin, right?? 😉 And I do step out of the shower, fresh as a daisy, twice a day!! 😂

All N95 masks I have seen and owned had straps going around the head. It was hard for me to find one that fit well - I finally did, at a hardware store; found a model that is used by construction workers. Not particularly comfortable, but at least it fit. Because of the discomfort, I switched to KN95 as my daily go to since they have straps going behind the ears. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08JQN25FR/ref=ox_sc_saved_image_9?smid=A3M1QDT641ZGEO&th=1

In fairness, I dont think most non-New Yorkers understand what these street closures mean and how it impacts city residents and workers. The day before the funeral a 15 block section (from 42nd to 56th) is closed for traffic, usually from 11am until 8pm for the wake. The day of the funeral a 20+ block section (from 34th to 56th) is closed for traffic from 6am to 2pm - and make no mistake; when I say traffic it also impacts pedestrians. That includes public transit, emergency vehicles, sanitation etc. It is no small thing.

“I think I’ll take a picture of your penis and enlarge it.”

There is no short answer to this. It depends on the site you are looking at. Your best bet is to look at the profile and see what the masseur wrote about himself and his services. Maybe reach out and ask. Escorts that advertise as “masseurs”, in my experience, are not really masseurs but rather available for massage as foreplay. Masseurs that indicate “erotic massage” are usually okay to get naked, enjoy mutual touch and you will probably get a happy ending. “Sensual massage” is the wild card - there may be no getting naked, no mutual touch and no happy ending. You have to be discreet and ask. If you assume you will likely be disappointed.

Wait…Consultants? Buddy, a consultant is someone who knows 99 ways to make love but doesnt have any lovers. Best avoid them!

The uninformed? Or truly desperate? 🙊

Agreed. Ive seen him on Grindr a couple of times, appeared to be looking for partners for OnlyFans video production.

How about proficientproviders.com? Or informedindividual.com? 🤓

My hourly fee structure includes both quantatative and qualitative factors. I have a set fee for pushing you around the block in a wheel barrow. Are you surprised that I have a higher fee for pushing you and your spouse around the same block in the same wheel barrow?

I started it back in 2018 and am quite proud of it. Hmmmm...sorry about your gears but I am not really sorry! 😆

I admit I usually roll my eyes when the profile includes words like "new" and "fresh". Like this beauty: A NEW FRESH MEAT with my MagicTouch! I totally get that for some providers English is not their first language, but I hope it isn't Google Translate that is leading them down the wrong path! https://rentmasseur.com/NYCHotAsianBoy

I have no skin in the game here. Have not met him, have no plans to meet him (i mainly hire masseurs) and have no more knowledge than what I got from reading this thread. But when a brand new member starts off by making unsubstantiated allegations and then disappear… I feel like I have to caution our community against repeating these rumors. Known, established and trusted members like @Hung_Cody, @littlenut and @JTtorretto (amongst others) have met him in person during the past two years. Their comments should carry far more weight. I am sure they will give us a heads-up if they were threatened due to interaction with Jay.

The search box at the top of the page is your friend - learn to use it. Existing thread with discussion by those who have met him here: https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/118166-distortman-based-in-wilmington-de/

Until I see something more substantial or hear from a trusted member on the forum these alleged blackmailing charges will remain doubtful in my mind. More likely it is somebody just trying to smear his reputation or get back at him for some reason.

I find this hard to believe. So many members have spoken well of him. Please provide a link to an outside source that confirms your allegation of these charges.

True - the "language" used is part of the game we have to play. I do admit I enjoy reading profiles, especially those for the newbies - they come up with the funniest things! (At least, it is funny in my head!)