FrankR

There is no short answer to this. It depends on the site you are looking at. Your best bet is to look at the profile and see what the masseur wrote about himself and his services. Maybe reach out and ask. Escorts that advertise as “masseurs”, in my experience, are not really masseurs but rather available for massage as foreplay. Masseurs that indicate “erotic massage” are usually okay to get naked, enjoy mutual touch and you will probably get a happy ending. “Sensual massage” is the wild card - there may be no getting naked, no mutual touch and no happy ending. You have to be discreet and ask. If you assume you will likely be disappointed.

Wait…Consultants? Buddy, a consultant is someone who knows 99 ways to make love but doesnt have any lovers. Best avoid them!

The uninformed? Or truly desperate? 🙊

Agreed. Ive seen him on Grindr a couple of times, appeared to be looking for partners for OnlyFans video production.

How about proficientproviders.com? Or informedindividual.com? 🤓

My hourly fee structure includes both quantatative and qualitative factors. I have a set fee for pushing you around the block in a wheel barrow. Are you surprised that I have a higher fee for pushing you and your spouse around the same block in the same wheel barrow?

I started it back in 2018 and am quite proud of it. Hmmmm...sorry about your gears but I am not really sorry! 😆

I admit I usually roll my eyes when the profile includes words like "new" and "fresh". Like this beauty: A NEW FRESH MEAT with my MagicTouch! I totally get that for some providers English is not their first language, but I hope it isn't Google Translate that is leading them down the wrong path! https://rentmasseur.com/NYCHotAsianBoy

I have no skin in the game here. Have not met him, have no plans to meet him (i mainly hire masseurs) and have no more knowledge than what I got from reading this thread. But when a brand new member starts off by making unsubstantiated allegations and then disappear… I feel like I have to caution our community against repeating these rumors. Known, established and trusted members like @Hung_Cody, @littlenut and @JTtorretto (amongst others) have met him in person during the past two years. Their comments should carry far more weight. I am sure they will give us a heads-up if they were threatened due to interaction with Jay.

The search box at the top of the page is your friend - learn to use it. Existing thread with discussion by those who have met him here: https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/118166-distortman-based-in-wilmington-de/

Until I see something more substantial or hear from a trusted member on the forum these alleged blackmailing charges will remain doubtful in my mind. More likely it is somebody just trying to smear his reputation or get back at him for some reason.

I find this hard to believe. So many members have spoken well of him. Please provide a link to an outside source that confirms your allegation of these charges.

True - the "language" used is part of the game we have to play. I do admit I enjoy reading profiles, especially those for the newbies - they come up with the funniest things! (At least, it is funny in my head!)

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I got mine at Walmart. Was able to use my medical savings account (HSA) too.

I do - I appreciate them and they can also expect a nice holiday bonus. 😉

I had to google that!

Pretty epic! Looks like they got locked in at Party City overnight, by accident, and then just said: “Screw that - let’s just go with it!” 🤣

Probably best to think it through and start slow. Maybe a trial run - can I volunteer to be your test subject? 😉

I dont mind being outnumbered but 4 dudes…is taking it way beyond the mark! Too many sticks and berries…or should I go with a carrots analogy? 😂

Maicon - definitely discussed before. There was also a daddies review. Link is inactive but here is a screen shot.

I’ve said it before and I will say it again!

Holy trinity! I hope not - I can feel the spirit moving me! 😉

Was he responsive?

The real thing does feel better, but there are some of the silicone dildos that arent a bad approximation. It goes without saying: get a good training set of various sizes. Start small and work your way up. Be generous with the lube. 🙂