FrankR

Sounds like you are looking for an escort and not a masseur. Skip the massage unless you want a bit of that as foreplay. Rentmen is the website with the most comprehensive list of escorts. There is a “position” menu where you can select that you want a “top” and it should narrow the field down to escorts that are into that. Search this site for experience once you have a list. I usually recommend meeting in a public place (Starbucks etc) if it is the first time so you can get a feel for the guy before you spend time behind closed doors. Take it slow - find the right guy and then make sure you are prepared. Know your limits. Be safe out there young man! 🤓

Would you recommend? How was the experience? 🤓

You will find him if you run a search here: https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/126185-411-on-ayrton/

Bryan Knight visits NYC often. Well spoken of here on the forum. https://rentmasseur.com/BryanKnight

“A-yup” does seem to go a long way in that part of the world! 😂

Learn to use the search box - will save you a lot of time and trouble... He has been discussed quite a bit. https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/101426-411-jean-in-nyc/ Don't expect to hear back - and he is still using the same pics as 5 years ago. Buyer beware.

Supply and demand is a beautiful thing. You get to vote with your wallet. If there is no demand at a certain price per hour, the price will likely come down. Which leads me to conclude that they are seeing business at that price point. Insert “folks are flush with stimulus cash” joke here. 🤓 Vent if you must, but it is unlikely to fix the situation or make you any happier. 😏

He is using a well known porn star’s pics. Search instagram for jacobvpeterson. You will find some of the same pics. Cannot say of it is legit. It may be. If you want to hire, I highly recommend a video call to validate it is him 🤓

In the winter, I surely agree. In the summer, in short sleeves you can pretty much tell right away... But your proposal is acceptable! 😉

Sounds kinky! Do you charge extra for that?? 😋😋

My advice is to tread carefully. His profile description says …nothing. Don’t pay upfront. Meet in a public place where you can walk away if he is using fake/borrowed pics. Be careful but clear in your communications.

You asked about him before on a different thread and received some interesting comments. Appears to use borrowed pics. https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/123014-411-on-masseurnyc/ The search box is your friend.

I have to admit your experience beats my life experience. So far nobody has offered to be my ... "pimp"? 😆😆

Previously discussed under a different name - I recognize the pictures.

Take a look here - recommendations from well known forum members. https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/125215-411-on-nick_ch/?tab=comments#comment-1789929

True - but the risk of transmission is highly reduced. False - as @KeepItReal pointed out above, condoms are a trusted and proven safety measure. True - it is possible but the risk of transmission is highly reduced. False - Herpes, for example, can be transmitted by skin to skin contact without anything sexual happening. False - most of my providers do not use condoms because they are afraid. They use it because they care and don't wish to contract OR spread STDs in the community. Those of us who pay attention are aware that STD rates have been rising - mainly due to people no longer using condoms. In the words of that great philosopher, Van Wilder: Don't be a fool! Wrap your tool!! https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2018/08/why-are-stds-on-the-rise-if-people-are-having-less-sex/568909/

Did you run a search? He has been discussed before. https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/115671-matsmart-in-nyc-411/

Great memory you have @EVdude Exactly the same experience. Pictures are out of date. He had developed a bit of a tummy when I saw him in 2017. Nice guy, but massage was just okay. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-some-new-nyc-listings.127118/

Just like everyone else who is not vaccinated and tested positive: he came into contact with the virus by kissing he aunt. ? The vaccine is not 100% effective when it comes to preventing infection - breakthrough infections of those already vaccinated were expected. The difference is that Bill Maher tweeted that he feels fine despite having caught the virus, has no symptoms and will self isolate until he tests negative. Without the vaccine he would not be that lucky.

I am more concerned with the fact that I will have to start wearing makeup again! ? In all seriousness, I will keep wearing the mask until I am good and ready!

The fact that there are so few breakthrough cases actually gives me a greater sense of security. We are missing a key piece of information; To date, California has not released any information on post-vaccination hospitalizations or the severity of any known breakthrough cases. I suspect that when we see how impactful the vaccine is on the severity of those that do get the virus, we will sleep a lot better. Maskless. And without showering in hand sanitizer before bed! ?

I believe @Benjamin_Nicholas and @KeepItReal are talking about the same app. Just be aware that there are some restrictions on what you can send via the Burner app - some picture file formats and video formats are not supported so you have to have a profile somewhere (like rentmen) with all the media you plan to share.

In my experience, most people don’t pay attention to their personal finance - they just coast through life basically paycheck to paycheck. So in that regard you are ahead in the game! 1) Make the time, every two weeks to punch some numbers into a spreadsheet -one side of the sheet is what money you have coming in, the other side of the sheet is where your money is going. Know your spending. 2) Do keep your expenses down as much as possible. 3) Do keep a reasonable emergency fund for unexpected expenses - a high yield savings account is great for this purpose. 4) Dont invest money you will need in the next few years - keep it in a high yield savings account instead as a market crash would require some recovery time you may not have in the short term. 5) Do go to med school - but apply for scholarships and try to stay out of debt. Study hard and keep your grades up as high as you possibly can. This will help you gain more scholarships and support. 6) Do find a mentor - preferable an old rich guy/gal that has some wisdom to share 7) Get Dave Ramsey’s “The Total Money Makeover” from your local library and read it. It is great for budgeting and savings goals (I dont like his investing approach - see next item) 8) Listen to the “moneyguy” podcast or youtube channel - great advice for investing Good luck to you!

Providers that have a playbook to help them detect and avoid danger would be foolish to share it here in full public view.