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    + JEC got a reaction from Danny-Darko in Breeding Mares and Bulls?   
    AND, film the entire thing?
  2. Party
    + JEC got a reaction from + Axiom2001 in Breeding Mares and Bulls?   
    I like the breeding mares concept, I love bottoms for whom dick is their oxygen.  Like they come alive once you plug in.  Eyes-rolled-back-goose-bumps-on-their-ass.  Throw in an anal orgasm or cumming hands-free and I will be a client for life.
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    + JEC got a reaction from BuzzLiteQueer in Anyone Taken A Chance On This New Guy In DC? RyanFigureskater   
    If this is the same guy (can't tell without face pic) I saw him a few times, a few years ago.   He was a student then, and yes also a figure skater.  I had an amazing session with him, he was all bottom bunk....and "finished" hands free which is a huge turn on for me.  Very sweet young man, I hope he is doing well
  4. Haha
    + JEC got a reaction from BonVivant in Rounds NYC and Gaiety   
    I went to Rounds once in my 20's (mid 80s?), it was my first time to NYC as a young single man (and I was terrified LOL).
    I met a hot guy who was a dancer, complete with dancer legs and a dancer's ass. 
    He took me back to his apartment, where I drilled his perky butt.....and stayed the night.
    I was way too naive then to know that Rounds was a hustler bar 🙄
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    + JEC got a reaction from Quincy_7 in Income to hire regularly   
    A couple of buds on this board I know go to Brazil once or twice per year for an all-out, weeklong pigfest. 
    The cost of providers is 10% of US, and so many hot Latin boys to choose from!  They will usually hire one or 2 for the entire week, and supplement with others.
    Now that's what I call a Value Proposition!
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    + JEC got a reaction from Luv2play in Rounds NYC and Gaiety   
    I went to Rounds once in my 20's (mid 80s?), it was my first time to NYC as a young single man (and I was terrified LOL).
    I met a hot guy who was a dancer, complete with dancer legs and a dancer's ass. 
    He took me back to his apartment, where I drilled his perky butt.....and stayed the night.
    I was way too naive then to know that Rounds was a hustler bar 🙄
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    + JEC got a reaction from + bashful in Chicken Marsala   
    Recipes are a guide.   If you can't tolerate (or don't like) salt or any other ingredient, leave it out, and substitute something else!   One good thing about this recipe - the chicken is not breaded and fried, making it lighter than many Chicken Marsala recipes.
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    + JEC got a reaction from Danny-Darko in Rounds NYC and Gaiety   
    I went to Rounds once in my 20's (mid 80s?), it was my first time to NYC as a young single man (and I was terrified LOL).
    I met a hot guy who was a dancer, complete with dancer legs and a dancer's ass. 
    He took me back to his apartment, where I drilled his perky butt.....and stayed the night.
    I was way too naive then to know that Rounds was a hustler bar 🙄
  9. Like
    + JEC got a reaction from + bashful in Rounds NYC and Gaiety   
    I went to Rounds once in my 20's (mid 80s?), it was my first time to NYC as a young single man (and I was terrified LOL).
    I met a hot guy who was a dancer, complete with dancer legs and a dancer's ass. 
    He took me back to his apartment, where I drilled his perky butt.....and stayed the night.
    I was way too naive then to know that Rounds was a hustler bar 🙄
  10. Haha
    + JEC reacted to PileDriver in Rounds NYC and Gaiety   
    Yep!! The Gaiety!!! With HoJo's downstairs. Magical combination.
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    + JEC got a reaction from + azdr0710 in SpendThrift Adult Sibling w/ self destructive behaviors   
    The way you describe your siblings, they seem to have some level of mental illness (addictions, etc.).  Does not change your course of action, but this is more complex than someone just making bad choices and acting like a teenager.  I lost my brother 2 years ago to a lifelong battle with alcoholism, and I had similar struggles over the years with him (not about money, there was none....just about his behavior and how that impacted his life and the family).  Still, with addiction there is literally nothing you can do until the person is willing and able to help themselves.  
    My father too had some sort of difficulty with money.  He had a successful career and a generous retirement, but he never had any money - ran up credit cards, payday loans, and asked me for money a few times.  I think he had a gambling addiction, the closest I ever got to an admission was that he played the lottery.  The last time he asked me for money I said no but offered to help in other ways (like set up a budget, hire a financial advisor, etc).   I did this after drawing up a "contract with myself" of what my baseline principles were for helping, and what I was and was not willing to do.   For example, I would not allow my parents to be homeless or hungry.   I also would not put my own money/retirement at risk.  I would not enable my father's destructive behavior.  I did buy my dad a used car (10k) and put it in my name so he could not borrow against it to ensure he had transportation.   I also helped twice with refinancing of their mortgage to provide some relief with monthly expenses (just helped with the paperwork, dad was in his 80's by then).
    I hope the mental illness angle allows you to come at the situation with some compassion, while not sacrificing your principles.  Consider writing up that "contract with yourself" - it will provide you clarity as you face decisions over time.  If you have some flexibility with how the trust is administered, you may be able to set up structures which pay for basic needs and nothing more - ensuring he will never be homeless or hungry, while protecting your assets.  
    Good luck, this is a difficult situation and I hope you find a pathway to peace.
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    + JEC reacted to + glutes in NYC Newbie: Spartacuz   
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    + JEC reacted to dutchal in NYC Newbie: Spartacuz   
    https://rentmen.eu/Spartacuz
    Good looking guy.
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    + JEC got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in Rates on the Rise??   
    If you were paying 300 10 years ago, cost of living adjustments alone would get you to $400 over 10 years, that doesn't include the wage and cost inflation and we have experienced due to COVID (I used an average COLI of 2.5%):

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    + JEC got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in SpendThrift Adult Sibling w/ self destructive behaviors   
    The way you describe your siblings, they seem to have some level of mental illness (addictions, etc.).  Does not change your course of action, but this is more complex than someone just making bad choices and acting like a teenager.  I lost my brother 2 years ago to a lifelong battle with alcoholism, and I had similar struggles over the years with him (not about money, there was none....just about his behavior and how that impacted his life and the family).  Still, with addiction there is literally nothing you can do until the person is willing and able to help themselves.  
    My father too had some sort of difficulty with money.  He had a successful career and a generous retirement, but he never had any money - ran up credit cards, payday loans, and asked me for money a few times.  I think he had a gambling addiction, the closest I ever got to an admission was that he played the lottery.  The last time he asked me for money I said no but offered to help in other ways (like set up a budget, hire a financial advisor, etc).   I did this after drawing up a "contract with myself" of what my baseline principles were for helping, and what I was and was not willing to do.   For example, I would not allow my parents to be homeless or hungry.   I also would not put my own money/retirement at risk.  I would not enable my father's destructive behavior.  I did buy my dad a used car (10k) and put it in my name so he could not borrow against it to ensure he had transportation.   I also helped twice with refinancing of their mortgage to provide some relief with monthly expenses (just helped with the paperwork, dad was in his 80's by then).
    I hope the mental illness angle allows you to come at the situation with some compassion, while not sacrificing your principles.  Consider writing up that "contract with yourself" - it will provide you clarity as you face decisions over time.  If you have some flexibility with how the trust is administered, you may be able to set up structures which pay for basic needs and nothing more - ensuring he will never be homeless or hungry, while protecting your assets.  
    Good luck, this is a difficult situation and I hope you find a pathway to peace.
  16. Thanks
    + JEC got a reaction from thomas in SpendThrift Adult Sibling w/ self destructive behaviors   
    The way you describe your siblings, they seem to have some level of mental illness (addictions, etc.).  Does not change your course of action, but this is more complex than someone just making bad choices and acting like a teenager.  I lost my brother 2 years ago to a lifelong battle with alcoholism, and I had similar struggles over the years with him (not about money, there was none....just about his behavior and how that impacted his life and the family).  Still, with addiction there is literally nothing you can do until the person is willing and able to help themselves.  
    My father too had some sort of difficulty with money.  He had a successful career and a generous retirement, but he never had any money - ran up credit cards, payday loans, and asked me for money a few times.  I think he had a gambling addiction, the closest I ever got to an admission was that he played the lottery.  The last time he asked me for money I said no but offered to help in other ways (like set up a budget, hire a financial advisor, etc).   I did this after drawing up a "contract with myself" of what my baseline principles were for helping, and what I was and was not willing to do.   For example, I would not allow my parents to be homeless or hungry.   I also would not put my own money/retirement at risk.  I would not enable my father's destructive behavior.  I did buy my dad a used car (10k) and put it in my name so he could not borrow against it to ensure he had transportation.   I also helped twice with refinancing of their mortgage to provide some relief with monthly expenses (just helped with the paperwork, dad was in his 80's by then).
    I hope the mental illness angle allows you to come at the situation with some compassion, while not sacrificing your principles.  Consider writing up that "contract with yourself" - it will provide you clarity as you face decisions over time.  If you have some flexibility with how the trust is administered, you may be able to set up structures which pay for basic needs and nothing more - ensuring he will never be homeless or hungry, while protecting your assets.  
    Good luck, this is a difficult situation and I hope you find a pathway to peace.
  17. Agree
    + JEC got a reaction from marylander1940 in Rates on the Rise??   
    If you were paying 300 10 years ago, cost of living adjustments alone would get you to $400 over 10 years, that doesn't include the wage and cost inflation and we have experienced due to COVID (I used an average COLI of 2.5%):

  18. Surprised
    + JEC reacted to Danny-Darko in Porn stars I wish I could hire   
    Oliver Flynn - He makes straight porn but did make a few gay videos early in his career as "Timothy" with Corbin Fisher. 🤪

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    + JEC reacted to Luv2play in Porn stars I wish I could hire   
    I am rather attracted to Tim Krueger of Timtales. He's a hunky daddy type.
     
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    + JEC reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Rates on the Rise??   
  21. Applause
    + JEC got a reaction from musclvr in 411 on Scott Riley   
    aren't we all 🙄
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    + JEC got a reaction from + FreshFluff in Furnace Thermostat Setting   
    67 during the day, and 62 at night.  We have a Pellet stove in our kitchen/dining area which we will sometimes turn on for ambiance and to take the chill off.  I prefer sleeping in a cold room with blankets.   Live in MA here.
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    + JEC got a reaction from TonyDown in Furnace Thermostat Setting   
    67 during the day, and 62 at night.  We have a Pellet stove in our kitchen/dining area which we will sometimes turn on for ambiance and to take the chill off.  I prefer sleeping in a cold room with blankets.   Live in MA here.
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    + JEC reacted to Penn7 in Rjprxxx, Frat Boy Bottom in DC   
    Anyone met him?
    https://rentmen.eu/Rjprxxx
     
  25. Haha
    + JEC got a reaction from + Charlie in Thought of the Day   
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