JBrian72

https://rentmasseur.com/KenzoNYC
 
(last posted link is buried somewhere upthread)

I am a legs / ass lover so yes, I do like seeing it. At the very least, I can see whether the crack is smooth or hairy. Does it have a tight appearance or is it a cauliflower head? All of that matters to me.

Depends. Some guy have beautiful, tight, smooth holes. For example, I've seen Sean Cody's Blake get plowed by two guys with big cocks, but when the camera pulled out his smooth, shaved tight hole looked downright virginal. Those holes turn me on. Other guys, however, have loose, bumpy holes that look like a semi has driven through them. Those are boner killers

Depends. Some guy have beautiful, tight, smooth holes. For example, I've seen Sean Cody's Blake get plowed by two guys with big cocks, but when the camera pulled out his smooth, shaved tight hole looked downright virginal. Those holes turn me on. Other guys, however, have loose, bumpy holes that look like a semi has driven through them. Those are boner killers

Seeing the hole doesn't bother me. Sometimes it can be helpful, either to see if they have a super loose hole or if they have a nice hairless ass crack for rimming.

I sleep wearing only a t-shirt, nothing else, nothing. 

I've started wearing jockstraps instead of underwear. I really enjoy the little racy feeling I get from a jock strap. I bought a couple packages of four black ones on Amazon just recently.

Straight and a contemporary dancer?
 

I believe @marylander1940 meant me.
 
For the continuation of this conversation, I would prefer PMs or across text (whichever you prefer), but it was a matter of not being sure of how to price the service - truthfully, you're the first person who's ever reached out to me that had an interest in self-release.
 
I generally consider there to be two modes for massage (traditional and erotic) and I used to price out things like being nude during the massage, whether mutual touch was allowed, etc. I found people to dislike that model (and so did I), so instead I bundled everything together and picked a price that I felt comfortable with. The 160 price is a holdover from the most-often selected 'package' of me being nude, with mutual touch, with no intention of there being a release. RentMasseur doesn't offer the kind of specificity necessary to price out different services - and even if it offered the description of packages that MasseurFinder offers, it wouldn't let you discuss sexual acts anyways. I think I'll be able to avoid situations like this in the future by taking down my prices entirely. I believe that results in them being set to "Ask me", though I imagine there's a group of people who would be annoyed by that as well.
 
I don't know how to put this gingerly, but I wasn't sure how well I'd be able to perform at this midway point, especially if NO sex was up on your list of don'ts. I've had a number of experiences where I felt like other people took things too far sexually - it left me feeling disgusted with myself, and would feel extraordinarily guilty if I overstepped any of your boundaries.
 
I realized that I had flubbed things as soon as I sent the reply, but it felt like it would be a losing battle to try and work out the specifics - what counts as 'sex' for everyone is different. I also tend to over-deliver. That is, I'm far happier going further toward sex and sexual things, even during a massage, than the opposite.
 
You gave a vague impression that you were busy or would prefer to discuss things at a different time, so I figured that needling you for details would probably only further get on your nerves.
 

 
I feel like Balthazar sums up my point quite succinctly, but I wanted to provide context and details.
 
Edit: In case it isn't clear, I do hope you can recognize that my tone is meant to be conciliatory and not condescending. I often worry that that might be the case. ?

That Blake is something. There was a 3-way where he got pounded hard and his hole looked virgin after the guy pulled out. Incredibly hot!

As you can tell, this is fairly common. Every hobby has a dark side and this is it for us.
1) Disengaging is important. You may feel like you are “dating” but you are not. Don’t keep texting the guy. Don’t meet with him in person to “break up”.
2) If he keeps texting you (why wouldn’t he - you are a paying client) be respectful but clear: I have other commitments and cannot see you. That is not a lie - your commitment is to yourself and your own mental wellbeing. Get your priorities straight.
3) Make it stick. It is not a negotiation. Be polite but resolute. Even if it breaks your heart and wants to make you cry.
Block his number if you have to.
4) Learn from the experience. Professionals (doctors, lawyers, auditors) all learn how to grow a thicker skin and to maintain an emotional distance. You can do that too.
 
My comments probably make me sound like a heartless person. I assure you that is not the case. I care for many of the guys I have met. Experience is the hardest teacher... Good luck! ?

Cut bait and run.
 
This hobby can be fun, but like all fun things there is a dark side.
Keeping a healthy perspective can be difficult and kudos to you
for realizing that you may be in over your head. If he’s a true professional
he’ll understand and help you depart gracefully with your dignity intact.
 
Although I have occasionally developed strong feelings, I’ve never fallen
in love with an escort. If I ever did realize I was starting to develop deeper
feelings I would disclose that to the escort and then stop seeing them.
 
Its hard to do, but like ripping off a bandaid, it’s less painful in the long run.

I have seen him twice in the past and would do so again. However, at that time he was doing incalls and his rate was significantly less. While he may not be an LMT, he has a good knowledge of the body, and provides a unique massage experience that incorporates elements from Thai massage, yoga, and other modalities. The massage was done on a futon/mat on the floor, and he used some props during the massage. PM for more details, but I would definitely repeat.

For whatever reason, masseurfinder has a (kinda new ?) policy of not displaying contact info in the late, late / early, early morning hours....in your own time zone, contact info should be displayed again around 6am local time....

Certainly looks like someone that I would like to have massaging me:)

One of the best in the business, hands down

In college when I worked at a car dealership, this is what we would call a tire kicker. They talk a lot and are never to be seen again when it gets serious.

Well I can't possibly come to you, there's a blizzard going on!
 
Kevin Slater

I think clients say the darnedest things too:
 
When it's late - "It's 2am, how soon can you get here?"
When it is literally too late - "Does it hurt when I bite it like this?"
How to kill a boner - "I could be your dad!"

I see anybody can be a scort these days LOL.
 
And that guy is clearly delusional.

Solid masseur, MT and HE incl. you get the full hour, very personable guy.

Have you seen Brad Pitt in person? Let's just say that the camera loves him.

I think he was in Spandau Ballet

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Just wanted to forewarn people thinking about hiring him that he is not being very careful of covid and going to big house parties and raves. Everyone is entitled to handle the pandemic how they want to. But that info should be out there before you hire. I hope this helps!