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Yes you should have told him your roommate was there. Reverse the situation. Would you be comfortable if you were going to his place and unexpectedly found his roommate there?

I am very direct in my first message, typically asking for the rate and are you available today.  A lot of these providers are free spirits, they literally don't know where they will be in two weeks.  Some of these people are here today, gone tomorrow.  If you are thinking of booking an appointment like you do your doctor, very few providers act that professionally, and you are better off going to Massage Envy.  I read reviews here to get the lowdown on their massage, I wouldn't want to play 20 questions with a potential client either when I know most people in general aren't serious about booking an appointment.

Very few providers are literally available now when the status says so.  Most need at least two hour notice (which is fine).  Some say they are not available for the day, after I inquire.  I wish there were more specific statuses, like available today, for instance.

Very few providers are literally available now when the status says so.  Most need at least two hour notice (which is fine).  Some say they are not available for the day, after I inquire.  I wish there were more specific statuses, like available today, for instance.

Very few providers are literally available now when the status says so.  Most need at least two hour notice (which is fine).  Some say they are not available for the day, after I inquire.  I wish there were more specific statuses, like available today, for instance.

Very few providers are literally available now when the status says so.  Most need at least two hour notice (which is fine).  Some say they are not available for the day, after I inquire.  I wish there were more specific statuses, like available today, for instance.

I saw him the other day and enjoyed the massage.

Whenever it is dark in the room after the massage, and I can't see well, I always ask for the light to be turned on.  I want to make sure I don't leave anything behind, for instance.  Also, I always count the money at least two times before handing it over.

Whenever it is dark in the room after the massage, and I can't see well, I always ask for the light to be turned on.  I want to make sure I don't leave anything behind, for instance.  Also, I always count the money at least two times before handing it over.

Likely a bird in the hand situation there. They prefer to know what they're dealing with and that you won't flake.

Some places overseas will not accept Amex, I have encountered this before.

Disclosure, I work for Capital One.  I just got the Venture X card, and it is not comparable to Amex Platinum.  The Amex lounges are better than the Priority Pass lounges in general.  Amex's other benefits trump the Venture X.  Is the Platinum worth the $695 fee?  Only if you travel a lot.

Disclosure, I work for Capital One.  I just got the Venture X card, and it is not comparable to Amex Platinum.  The Amex lounges are better than the Priority Pass lounges in general.  Amex's other benefits trump the Venture X.  Is the Platinum worth the $695 fee?  Only if you travel a lot.

I saw him the other day and enjoyed the massage.

Without any prompting from me, I've had several escorts tell me stories of their time with various famous people. I'm assuming that these stories are an attempt to impress me.  It doesn't. This lack of discretion guarantees that I will never hire the particular escort again.

I'm not sure how enforceable they are as well considering it's dealing with an illegal activity. Like for instance if I sold drugs to someone and had them sign a NDA to not reveal my identity to anyone that isn't gonna hold up in court if they got arrested and passed my name to police. 

I would rather be 20 minutes early than 5 minutes late.  I am in my early 40s.  My outcalls are always at least half an hour late.  I do live uptown and the subway by me is slow.  I tolerate the lateness up to a point.  Do people arrive routinely late to incalls, I surely don’t.

I would rather be 20 minutes early than 5 minutes late.  I am in my early 40s.  My outcalls are always at least half an hour late.  I do live uptown and the subway by me is slow.  I tolerate the lateness up to a point.  Do people arrive routinely late to incalls, I surely don’t.

I feel the same way and I live in NYC.  I will stick to my regulars.

I feel the same way and I live in NYC.  I will stick to my regulars.

I feel the same way and I live in NYC.  I will stick to my regulars.

I feel the same way and I live in NYC.  I will stick to my regulars.

When I see "available now" and I don't get a response, I don't get upset, but I think it is in poor form.  There is no obligation the person gets back to me.  I wish the sites had an "available today" message in addition to "available now".  (People also don't turn it off when they are not available anymore).  I literally think "available now" means, available in the next two hours, but that is not how many people view that message.  I get upset when I book an appointment, am waiting outside the person's apartment, then they cancel, like what happened to me yesterday.  I also don't like to schedule too far in advance because of the number of cancellations I have experienced for various reasons, which all amount to, someone or something better came along...One masseur in NY does use a Square calendar that lets you schedule appointments.  He still has to approve the appointment, but at least I know when he is not available for sure. 

I was told yesterday I would be getting an email to schedule a second shot here in NYC, the technician made me verify my email address carefully for this reason.

I was told yesterday I would be getting an email to schedule a second shot here in NYC, the technician made me verify my email address carefully for this reason.