AngusX

Tip: Use an alcohol-free mouthwash. Alcohol-bases dry out your mouth and make the problem worse.
 
TheraBreath and Biotene work well. I'd also recommend investing in a tongue scraper.

While traveling for work to Boston last November, I had a provider cancel on me at the last minute. To make it up he promised to send a couple videos to me, which he never did. Two days after I returned home he texted me at 5:50AM on a Saturday morning saying he was horny, needed to rub one out, and asked if I’d be interested in a cam show. I wanted to see this guy in action and thought he’d give me a good rate considering he cancelled and knew I was really disappointed. I asked how much and he replied $100. I asked how long of a session and he said probably 10 - 15 minutes. As foggy as I was being awakened at that hour, I was able to quickly calculate that if I extrapolated that out, he’d be getting more for an hour of cam time than he would for the two hour in-person session we had planned. I laughed and blocked his number.

My first hire was also the first sex with a guy. February 2001 when I was 53. Jimmy in San Diego. I called him on a land line, and he agreed to come right over. Immediately I had buyer's remorse. He pulled into the parking lot below my hotel window. Ex Marine, 40s, muscled with a muscle T. He came to my room and figured out right away i was (a) nervous and (b) hadn't a clue what do. Luckily he was very patient, and stayed over the hour I booked, to make me comfortable...

Most of my clients are hot in one way or another. So no, that's already factored in.
 
Kevin Slater

If you hire, beware of providers who list fisting as a preference. When they are filling out their profiles, they just go ahead and check the box if they've done it at all or think that they would do it. It doesn't mean that they are into it and/or have experience. Unless they specifically say they are into it and have experience, I would pass them by.

Earlier this year.....I met a provider who had a prolonged run of bad client encounters; he said to me...."thank God, you're normal. I needed this."
 
Made my week......

Just as an FYi, this is not the norm arrangement for most escorts
 
PS: ... But damned awesome if you can make it happen

I figure if he's viewed my ad, he's already well aware of my services. Besides, I'm not interested in a prospective client I have to cajole through the process.
 
Kevin Slater

https://www.cnn.com/profiles/matt-rivers https://twitter.com/MattRiversCNN/photo

I’m not even sure what you’re asking.
 
Are you asking us to answer for why one escort wasted your time and didn’t think it was valuable?
 
Are you asking us to validate your frustration?
 
I understand you’re asking us for input but what you’d like input on isn’t clear.

I would think if someone is serious about the work they are doing they would reply to you in a way that reflects that. But maybe Im an old fashioned 40-something. Well, not maybe, its definitely. Anyhoo if a reply is flakey, standoffish, arrogant, dismissive or just bizarre, it might be providing you a glimpse of what you'll encounter if you meet in person.

This.
 
They have zero clue on making great first impressions, being fluent in a wide variety of conversational topics, closing in a clutch situation and simply faking it well in the event they're in over their heads. They either don't care or it reads on them like a large-print book.
 
It's depressing and a big reason why I don't normally have many 20s guys in my circle of friends.

I actually love this question.
 
I'd say that us as providers are at huge disadvantages compared to other gays.

At the very least, we may or may not be able to tell potential friends what we actually do.
Providers have to have some level of availability. Having a lot of friends doesn't leave a ton of time for that.
Some say you should find friends by joining activities, which gives you less time for appointments.
By having less time, people will begin to exclude you from activities since you won't be able to do them.

[*]For us who travel, being out of town a lot leaves less time to find and develop relationships.
[*]I've tried saying "befriend other escorts - they'll get it". But escorts are competitive (we've heard of the mafias in cities), and they may think you have an ulterior motive.
[*]Related to what has been said above - many gay relationships are based off of sex. As we get paid to have sex, it can be hard to want to base relationships off of that.


It's funny - when people would ask "How're you doing during COVID?" I'm like "Well I've learned to spend long periods of time by myself in largely one room."
 
Now I won't go into some of the dismissive, divisive and heteronormative comments made above.
 
But two reasons why it's easier to form relationships with clients because:

The transactional nature means the expectations are out on the table
Those clients you see on a regular repeating basis it can be easy to befriend just by the repeating nature of it.

No. A rate is a rate is a rate. Location doesn't matter.
 
As for a weekend, again, it's just a standard rate-for-time. No Stephen Hawking mathmatics needed.
 
A week or more, that's a whole different ballgame: Then I take into account client history, location, travel time and how much legwork I'll be doing to make things magically flow.

I saw him on Chaturbate recently. He looks different. Thinner.
 
Okay, I'll be honest - he looks like he was rode hard and put away wet.

This belongs in the Politics Forum -- all of the discussion of Cuomo, not just your post. If it were there, I'd ask you whether you think Cuomo is more of a fraud than President Trump, and if so, why. But let's leave that discussion for the Politics Forum.

I saw this on Twitter today
 
"LMFAO imagine thinking THIS was a good idea. "Yes, hello, I'd like to install an unencrypted messenger app developed by a company that exploits male sex workers and then discuss all my crimes in there while the app collects location and metadata to be shared with LE."
 
 
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His ad says he is going to be available in Palm Springs this Sunday and Monday. I wonder where he plans to stay, since hotels, AirBNB, etc., are not allowed to take reservations for anyone other than essential workers, and I don't think escorts qualify. Only essential travel is allowed, also, and if he is going to be in Miami the next day, he will have to fly, but there are hardly any flights leaving PSP.
Oh, and I hope he knows that he has to wear a face mask whenever he goes outside.

Oh boy, if this were 2016 I’d be handing someone over an order of my scrambled mind ? But it’s 2020, I just wanted to pop in to say hello and hang for a moment while I get ready for work.
 
The single most important thing I've learned during the past two years is that as long as I show up honest, I have nothing to lose, except all the pain of the consequences that most definitely will follow.
 
On the pictures, I updated them. I'm much thinner with no water weight and I stopped cycling steroids. They're recent, in the last month. If they’re somehow unacceptable or seem phony, that’s okay too. But lord child my Grindr has been off the hook ?
 
Just a little peek into what’s going on, and I am more than happy to share. I got accepted to an ADN program and have a job in healthcare. I am working from home a lot due to the current environment, so I renewed my ad on rentmen.com, because, why not? I saw no reason not to. If you didn’t already know this: escorting is exciting.
 
Pump up the volume: In August 2018 I went into cardiac arrest due to the ways I chose to cope with the guilt, shame and remorse. I was 100% wrong in the way I acted and treated people. I hurt a lot of good people. I can’t sit here and justify any of it, and don’t want to, it would make no sense for me today. I accept my part in creating the damage. Let freedom ring.
 
-KJ

He was open about using steroids, even going as far as to angrily point fingers at posters here who sold him his drugs.
 
In cleaning yourself up, that usually means cleaning up from everything.
 
That might help explain the weight change.

I’d give middling grades then and now. There were more smooth guys but they often were tweezed and shaved but not enough to camouflage this not being natural, not to mention the stubble burn. There are a ton more guys on the market, but there always have been plenty of marginal, misrepresenting, and/or disorganized guys. And more guys means more flakes. It also means many more choices in cities that had fewer than a handful of guys even 5 years ago. There were plenty of no shows and flakes in the old days. You could still get not great experiences from even well reviewed guys. Some of the posters on the other thread had relied on now-retired regulars and, probably forget how flaky random hires can be. The tats, including fairly random collections of tats have been common for over a decade. Providers change but so do clients and almost no one on the other thread (and I suspect this one) will really own that.

https://rent.men/JakeRyanS currently indicates located in Kansas City, MO, and there is a 2 star review from Oct 22, 2019, stating the photos in the Ad are NOT the guy.
 
https://rentmen.eu/JakeRyanS/reviews/

Bellagio needs a remodel. I'd say avoid it for now.
 
Encore's spa is beautiful, very gay friendly and has great therapists if you schedule services.
 
Waldorf Astoria (formerly Mandarin Oriental) has a GREAT spa. Small, but they limit guests so it's never crowded. One of the few spas on the strip that offers traditional hammam services.

These discussions make me cringe.
 
When i reach out to someone i almost always propose a date and time in my first message and inquire about a 2/3-hour amount in my second.
Occasionally the amount is more than I’m comfortable with and I politely decline and thank him for his time.
 
There have been a few occasions when someone asks for a counter-proposal and I get really uncomfortable with anything remotely resembling haggling. My rationale is that if either of us feels the least bit cheated - too little or too much - then the time together may have an undercurrent of resentment and be less than stellar. This is an unfortunate lose/lose. I don’t know of any way to turn this situation around.

I’m not sure why this would be a problem for anyone...