Anyone you're not going to hire post-Covid because of their actions during Covid?

[OrdinaryJoe]

Curious if any folks have changed their view of any escorts because of their actions during this crisis? I have a couple of guys locally that I had planned to get with. Neither of them stopped seeing clients. When I inquired, I was told they have "stopped kissing." I have lost total respect for them and could never hire them in the future, not out of Covid fear, but because of a lack of respect. Curious if anyone is in the same boat?

[down_to_business]

Personally, no. Unless they showed their actions to be pre-meditated, punitive, or intentionally tried to spread Covid-19. (i.e. advertised as Covid-19 safe or claimed immunity or posted on this message board as a denier).

I am responsible for my own actions and my own safety, so I won't be hiring anyone until it is deemed medically safe to do so.

Edited May 30, 2020 by down_to_business

[+ DERRIK]

I will stop seeing Jared. ?

[+ nycman]

No.

 

I find it hard to judge anyone’s actions during a pandemic.

It’s uncharted territory for all of us and I try to be as forgiving

of “unacceptable“ behavior as I can be. Yes, it reveals many

peoples true nature, but it also fogs the fuck out of the lens.

[+ Pensant]

i doubt it.

[stop]

I have made a list of guys who were “available now”during this time. I won’t see them for a while It just tells me they will see anyone? I have talked to some that said they were working. I’m not being judgmental. Just tell me you are being careful Many said they are not worried about the hoax. So they are off the list

I saw one of my trusted guys today. After 8 weeks. And it was fantastic

 

how is today better than a day ago, a week ago or 4 weeks ago?

 

it seems a bit hypocritical to judge the pros this way. so pros can’t see anybody unless it’s you? i am personally not hiring but i am not going to judge the guys that are trying to make a living.

[Gymowner]

in las vegas i only saw about 2 or 3 guys that put the symbol in their ad that they werent taking clients. im sure its that way for most every city and country. at that rate none of you old geezers will ever get laid again!

 

and calm down... im only trying a bit of levity in such a time of crisis.

[sutherland]

I will not hire HotMedPro because of his actions during Covid https://rent.men/HotMedPro/

[marylander1940]

I will not hire HotMedPro because of his actions during Covid https://rent.men/HotMedPro/

 

He’s also a member of this forum

 

@Medjock

[+ Keith30309]

No. Why would I ?

 

First, I’m not a huge fan of judging other people. You be you and I’ll be me. If you spin up on meth 10 minutes after I walk out your door I have lots of reactions to that but disdain isn’t one of them.

 

Secondly, pragmatically I will hire again when I feel that I am safe. If someone is seeing clients today then what bearing does that have on the risk to me 6 months from now.

[+ StLouisOct]

On my list of favorites that I haven't seen for months? Murder would be an issue.

[Gymowner]

cuomo? oh thats a real pill i'd put my life in his hands! if you are elderly and sickly in a nursing home watch out! he is out to get ya!

[dcman]

As long as said provider didn't do a bukkake shoot in the previous month id say they are clean........just playin ???

 

Stay home and lock the door and don't play virus roulette until Cuomo says we are good.......emphasis on Cuomo

As long as said provider didn't do a bukkake shoot in the previous month id say they are clean........just playin ???

 

Stay home and lock the door and don't play virus roulette until Cuomo says we are good.......emphasis on Cuomo

Hmm. what is a bukkake shoot?

[dcguy20]

I look at this as that I can only be responsible for my behavior, and won't be hiring for quite some time. If some guys want to continue to make themselves available that is their prerogative. That being said, I take issue with the 2 providers from NYC who came down to DC and reached out to me to see if I'd like to see them. One was at the end of March, the second was just a couple of weeks ago. Are you crazy?! In this instance I won't see them again.

Edited May 2, 2020 by dcguy20

[dcguy20]

I look at this as that I can only be responsible for my behavior, and won't be hiring for quite some time. If some guys want to continue to make themselves available that is their prerogative. That being said, I take issue with the 2 providers from NYC who came down to DC and reached out to me to see if I'd like to see them. One was at the end of March, the second was just a couple of weeks ago. Are you crazy?! In this instance I won't see them again.

Edited May 2, 2020 by dcguy20

[ross06]

He’s one of the few people in politics I can trust these days.

 

He's a fraud

[former lurker]

He's a fraud

 

This belongs in the Politics Forum -- all of the discussion of Cuomo, not just your post. If it were there, I'd ask you whether you think Cuomo is more of a fraud than President Trump, and if so, why. But let's leave that discussion for the Politics Forum.

[+ José Soplanucas]

You all are too nice. People with the OP's mindset should be ostracize from human kind. @Guy Fawkes should create a new forum for shameful threads and move this one over there.

[former lurker]

Curious if any folks have changed their view of any escorts because of their actions during this crisis? I have a couple of guys locally that I had planned to get with. Neither of them stopped seeing clients. When I inquired, I was told they have "stopped kissing." I have lost total respect for them and could never hire them in the future, not out of Covid fear, but because of a lack of respect. Curious if anyone is in the same boat?

 

Why did you inquire if you had no intention of hiring due to covid?

[orville]

Curious if any folks have changed their view of any escorts because of their actions during this crisis? I have a couple of guys locally that I had planned to get with. Neither of them stopped seeing clients. When I inquired, I was told they have "stopped kissing." I have lost total respect for them and could never hire them in the future, not out of Covid fear, but because of a lack of respect. Curious if anyone is in the same boat?

You have the right to decide which providers you won't hire for whatever reason but it's horrible trying to out them publicly here. There has been criticism in this forum yes, but because of the PRESENT situation where many people are dying and some escorts keep seeing clients indiscriminately. In the future we all hope this will be a thing from the past and everything will get back to normal. What you are doing here has the same stinking smell of HIV shaming, like those guys on their social media profiles saying "If you are HIV Positive get away from me". Who are we to judge? There are still so many things we don't know about Covid, i.e.: it could end globally by November 2020 thanks to herd immunity and new drugs, we could get an effective vaccine in the next 12-18 months, you not being able to be reinfected even if the escort is positive and infectious, etc. With any of those things happening, the purpose of your post rests as hateful shaming targeting specific people. Even if reproachable, we don't know if they still had to see people because of very critical situations. Feel free to hire whoever you want at your own discretion, even feel free to express your opinion, but don't ask people to point fingers at specific names. It only looks really bad on you.

Edited May 2, 2020 by orville

[marylander1940]

We all have the right to decide the kind of provider we hire (or not) for one or another reason but it's horrible trying to out them publicly here. What you are doing has the same stinking smell of HIV shaming, like those guys on their social media profiles saying "If you are HIV Positive get away from me". There are still so many things we don't know about Covid, i.e.: it could end globally by November 2020 thanks to herd immunity and new drugs, we could get an effective vaccine in the next 12-18 months, you not being able to be reinfected even if the escort is positive and infectious, etc. With any of those things happening, the purpose of your posts rests as hateful shaming targeting specific people. Feel free to hire whoever you want at your own discretion, even feel free to express your opinion, but don't point fingers at specific names. It only looks really bad on you.

 

Good point but once it became clear in the 80's how HIV was transmitted HIV it became almost 100% preventable just by using a condom and folks could date, work, kiss, touch each other, live a normal life, etc. without any risk of getting it and later spreading it.

 

Covid is a highly contagious disease and not as preventable as HIV. The younger a person is the more likely to be asymptomatic and pass it to others (clients) who are usually older then he is.

[marylander1940]

Why did you inquire if you had no intention of hiring due to covid?

 

Maybe @OrdinaryJoe wanted to get in touch before hiring next month or maybe he was just bored. I agree with his conclusion and I wouldn't hire guys who are taking risks and behaving in such a way.

[orville]

Good point but once it became clear in the 80's how HIV was transmitted HIV it became almost 100% preventable just by using a condom and folks could date, work, kiss, touch each other, live a normal life, etc. without any risk of getting it and later spreading it.

 

Covid is a highly contagious disease and not as preventable as HIV. The younger a person is the more likely to be asymptomatic and pass it to others (clients) who are usually older then he is.

Yet that doesn't justifying and attempt to publicly shame these escorts. Even if what they are doing is wrong and we could speculate the worst motives (greed, irresponsibility, etc) we don't really know if they had to do it for a very critical reason and they didn't have another option. I'm not defending them, I'm trying to be human and impartial. If they did wrong, people have already judged them. Anyone can keep a personal record of who they not hire but don't make a public bonfire to burn them.

Edited May 2, 2020 by orville

[marylander1940]

Yet that doesn't justifying and attempt to publicly shame these escorts. Even if what they are doing is wrong and we could speculate the worst motives (greed, irresponsibility, etc) we don't really know if they had to do it for a very critical reason and they didn't have another option. I'm not defending them, I'm trying to be human and impartial. If they did wrong, people has already judged them. Anyone can keep a record of who they won't hire but don't make a public bonfire to burn them.

 

So far only one name was mentioned on here and even the OP @OrdinaryJoe is just talking about 2 potential hires without mentioning them.

 

Edit:

 

If someone is “shamed” on here you can always report it and the post could be removed.

 

I have a feeling that once all of this is over and we have a vaccine next year people won’t even remember this thread.

 

It’s interesting that so far there hasn’t been a crack down on businesses that don’t respect social distancing like escorting while legal massage parlors are still closed in most states.

Edited May 2, 2020 by marylander1940

[orville]

... is a highly contagious disease ... The younger a person is the more likely to be asymptomatic and pass it to others (clients) who are usually older then he is.

It's funny how it resembles the scenario of a working boy seeing clients during the first days of HIV. Please don't (allow people to) judge specific names publicly.

Edited May 2, 2020 by orville