SuenosAmor

I love the DC thread. So much good info!

I'm not sure if I have high testosterone levels, but I'm horny most of the time. I'm in my early 40s, work out regularly, and take a lot of supplements and vitamins. I also only eat unprocessed vegetables, fruit, and fish. Not sure if that has anything to do with how much I can cum in one day, but I do feel pretty energized most of the day. Seeing a hot guy walk by will instantly flip the switch with me. At the most, I could jerk off 5X/day, and I've definitely done it when I was incredibly bored. Of course, the load would be less and thinner each time. On average, once a day or every other day is more my routine.

People think of SF as a big city, but with 850K people, it's a fraction of the population of NYC, Chicago, and LA. That said, the spa scene is limited to certain days of the month. Banya has a men's night on the third Tuesday of the month. It's good naked fun!

I'm not sure if I have high testosterone levels, but I'm horny most of the time. I'm in my early 40s, work out regularly, and take a lot of supplements and vitamins. I also only eat unprocessed vegetables, fruit, and fish. Not sure if that has anything to do with how much I can cum in one day, but I do feel pretty energized most of the day. Seeing a hot guy walk by will instantly flip the switch with me. At the most, I could jerk off 5X/day, and I've definitely done it when I was incredibly bored. Of course, the load would be less and thinner each time. On average, once a day or every other day is more my routine.

Looks good. I like all the new features.
The images aren't needed because they take up too much space on the page (more scrolling) and give the site a corporate feel. But it's fine. 

@ fm0322 - Arbus went thru many hair changes - just wasn’t into his longer style - haa haa. My taste or lack thereof.
 
His massage was very exciting. Lately, his schedule has been super limited due to school but he should be more free late August. Also, if you like a “spa like scented room” you’ll love his apartment. (It’ll definitely make you forget the stinky streets you’ll traverse to get to his place. Haa haaa)

I wouldn't be surprised if that whole story was made up.

Usually it’s the masseur who initiates “more” and there’s no upsell. I just tip extra as a courtesy when that happens. Upselling during the massage is a huge mood killer for me because it’s never happened as a result of me trying to push boundaries, so it just comes across as random and stilted. And it always comes from guys who aren’t good at massage anyway. I’d rather a masseur just say they have different pricing for different levels of interaction up front and then I can choose.

That's been my experience as well. I love getting massages and this is how I found this site. For me, I always go in just to get a massage but if it goes more than that, it has always been the masseur who initiates it and most of the time that's fine with me!

Golden Gate Park by the windmills and Lands End are still pretty active.

Golden Gate Park by the windmills and Lands End are still pretty active.

San Francisco still has some very active cruising, I recently discovered by accident. PM for details.

I was visiting Sydney back in 2016 and the masseur had this huge place that had its own hot tub (can fit 3-4 people), massage table (with a hole for your package), etc.! It was great and very relaxing! The massage itself was only 90 mins but obviously there was a lot of extra fun in between there.

I agree surprises without expectations are hot, especially when there was no verbal communication at all with a LMT.
 
A lot of times when I go to a masseur that advertises M4M massage, both the masseur and I know something is part of the service. When that part of the service kicks in, the masseur stops working hard on the muscles, so a lot of masseurs would want that part started as early as possible. That sucks. This thread reminds me that I should visit legit LMT more. At least they’ll deliver a decent session for a reasonable price.
 
I remember one time a LMT brushed my hand with his crotch a few times when he was working on my back, but I wasn’t sure that was his cock (he was fully clothed) so I didn’t react. After flipping on my back, I got a peek and confirmed that was what he was doing but soon I closed my eyes again. Nothing was said and he kept working hard on my muscles. When he started to work on my arm, he flipped my palm to face up, and when he massaged my arm from fore arm to my shoulder, he pushed his crotch to my palm. Very natural, very rhythmic and very precise location each time. He was fully clothed but I could feel he started to get hard but his dick was tugged downwards in underwear so you wouldn’t tell unless you touched it. I had a blackout for a few seconds because I didn’t know what to do as there was no verbal communication at all. Finally I started to grope it every time it went to my palm. That was hot and entertaining. Whenever I was about to have a boner, his deep pressure killed it, so finally nothing further happened. I felt he also enjoyed it but we never said a word about it. The whole session remained very “professional”.

I love this thread. I do get a thrill from the potential of a massage going further. Communication is always key, so I try to set the tone. The ones willing to go there will pick up on the hints. If they are not, then I appreciate the therapeutic massage.
 
When the masseur asks in the beginning if there are any parts of the body not to touch or work on, I always say "No, please go anywhere you want." For the sheet and draping, I'll say "I'm fine without the draping if it's less work. I tend to get overheated with sheets. But I understand if you need to do it."
 
Things I do that masseurs always see/hear but may or may not act on it:
 
- get hard
- butt discreetly going up when working on thighs
- sighing softly and respectfully on glides
- overtip, then return for a second massage

I love this thread. I do get a thrill from the potential of a massage going further. Communication is always key, so I try to set the tone. The ones willing to go there will pick up on the hints. If they are not, then I appreciate the therapeutic massage.
 
When the masseur asks in the beginning if there are any parts of the body not to touch or work on, I always say "No, please go anywhere you want." For the sheet and draping, I'll say "I'm fine without the draping if it's less work. I tend to get overheated with sheets. But I understand if you need to do it."
 
Things I do that masseurs always see/hear but may or may not act on it:
 
- get hard
- butt discreetly going up when working on thighs
- sighing softly and respectfully on glides
- overtip, then return for a second massage

I love this thread. I do get a thrill from the potential of a massage going further. Communication is always key, so I try to set the tone. The ones willing to go there will pick up on the hints. If they are not, then I appreciate the therapeutic massage.
 
When the masseur asks in the beginning if there are any parts of the body not to touch or work on, I always say "No, please go anywhere you want." For the sheet and draping, I'll say "I'm fine without the draping if it's less work. I tend to get overheated with sheets. But I understand if you need to do it."
 
Things I do that masseurs always see/hear but may or may not act on it:
 
- get hard
- butt discreetly going up when working on thighs
- sighing softly and respectfully on glides
- overtip, then return for a second massage

I love this thread. I do get a thrill from the potential of a massage going further. Communication is always key, so I try to set the tone. The ones willing to go there will pick up on the hints. If they are not, then I appreciate the therapeutic massage.
 
When the masseur asks in the beginning if there are any parts of the body not to touch or work on, I always say "No, please go anywhere you want." For the sheet and draping, I'll say "I'm fine without the draping if it's less work. I tend to get overheated with sheets. But I understand if you need to do it."
 
Things I do that masseurs always see/hear but may or may not act on it:
 
- get hard
- butt discreetly going up when working on thighs
- sighing softly and respectfully on glides
- overtip, then return for a second massage

I love this thread. I do get a thrill from the potential of a massage going further. Communication is always key, so I try to set the tone. The ones willing to go there will pick up on the hints. If they are not, then I appreciate the therapeutic massage.
 
When the masseur asks in the beginning if there are any parts of the body not to touch or work on, I always say "No, please go anywhere you want." For the sheet and draping, I'll say "I'm fine without the draping if it's less work. I tend to get overheated with sheets. But I understand if you need to do it."
 
Things I do that masseurs always see/hear but may or may not act on it:
 
- get hard
- butt discreetly going up when working on thighs
- sighing softly and respectfully on glides
- overtip, then return for a second massage

At spas, I charge the massage and tip with cash because I've tipped $100 in the past. It works out best for the masseur and the client.

I love this thread. I do get a thrill from the potential of a massage going further. Communication is always key, so I try to set the tone. The ones willing to go there will pick up on the hints. If they are not, then I appreciate the therapeutic massage.
 
When the masseur asks in the beginning if there are any parts of the body not to touch or work on, I always say "No, please go anywhere you want." For the sheet and draping, I'll say "I'm fine without the draping if it's less work. I tend to get overheated with sheets. But I understand if you need to do it."
 
Things I do that masseurs always see/hear but may or may not act on it:
 
- get hard
- butt discreetly going up when working on thighs
- sighing softly and respectfully on glides
- overtip, then return for a second massage

I love this thread. I do get a thrill from the potential of a massage going further. Communication is always key, so I try to set the tone. The ones willing to go there will pick up on the hints. If they are not, then I appreciate the therapeutic massage.
 
When the masseur asks in the beginning if there are any parts of the body not to touch or work on, I always say "No, please go anywhere you want." For the sheet and draping, I'll say "I'm fine without the draping if it's less work. I tend to get overheated with sheets. But I understand if you need to do it."
 
Things I do that masseurs always see/hear but may or may not act on it:
 
- get hard
- butt discreetly going up when working on thighs
- sighing softly and respectfully on glides
- overtip, then return for a second massage

I love this thread. I do get a thrill from the potential of a massage going further. Communication is always key, so I try to set the tone. The ones willing to go there will pick up on the hints. If they are not, then I appreciate the therapeutic massage.
 
When the masseur asks in the beginning if there are any parts of the body not to touch or work on, I always say "No, please go anywhere you want." For the sheet and draping, I'll say "I'm fine without the draping if it's less work. I tend to get overheated with sheets. But I understand if you need to do it."
 
Things I do that masseurs always see/hear but may or may not act on it:
 
- get hard
- butt discreetly going up when working on thighs
- sighing softly and respectfully on glides
- overtip, then return for a second massage

I’ve (surprisingly) had multiple experiences at legit spas both in Vegas (the old Mandarin Oriental, Cosmo (twice, different providers)) and SF (Four Seasons, St Regis) and once in India (Oberoi, New Delhi). Also 4 separate Zeel experiences, come to think of it. All were unexpected and had different endings, but generally it starts with grazing, getting a hard-on and then more action. I think we all know the tricks...keep your hands close to the edge of the massage bed, for maximum grazing opportunity...position your cock down between your legs in case he peeks or decides to do a nice inner thigh massage...don’t be shy about getting hard—it’s your way of expressing interest in case he has any doubts. They’ve resulted in hand jobs, some without HE...blow jobs, mutual. Happy to share more experiences—DM me!

Get as close to the edge as possible, palms facing up. If he doesn’t want them there, he may place them closer to your body. It’s still worth a try to move them back out (casually). —might give him the right hint.