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    filmbuff78 got a reaction from Medin in Hot LA Muscle woof HeyItsJulian   
    Have seen him a couple of times. Amazing body, but that's about all. First time was meh... I felt like he should get a second chance. A little better, but just felt like he was going through the motions. Personable, yet disconnected at the same time. Hard to explain. PM me if you want lore details.
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    filmbuff78 got a reaction from Capitano in 411 on IvyLeagueHungVrs   
    Well, I contacted him and he quoted me 450/hr to start. I told him thanks, but that's more than I'm used to spending. He asked me what my budget was. I told him that guys in LA are usually 300/hr plus tip. I was OK being flexible but a 50% markup was more than I was looking to spend. His response was, because he's a doctor and double Ivy League grad, he's more upscale than the other guys. I told him that the escorts here aren't hillbillies with straw in their teeth and many are college graduates themselves. Maybe not doctors, but they're educated at fine universities. Moving on....
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    filmbuff78 got a reaction from rn901 in 411 on IvyLeagueHungVrs   
    Well, I contacted him and he quoted me 450/hr to start. I told him thanks, but that's more than I'm used to spending. He asked me what my budget was. I told him that guys in LA are usually 300/hr plus tip. I was OK being flexible but a 50% markup was more than I was looking to spend. His response was, because he's a doctor and double Ivy League grad, he's more upscale than the other guys. I told him that the escorts here aren't hillbillies with straw in their teeth and many are college graduates themselves. Maybe not doctors, but they're educated at fine universities. Moving on....
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    filmbuff78 got a reaction from + KensingtonHomo in 411 on IvyLeagueHungVrs   
    Well, I contacted him and he quoted me 450/hr to start. I told him thanks, but that's more than I'm used to spending. He asked me what my budget was. I told him that guys in LA are usually 300/hr plus tip. I was OK being flexible but a 50% markup was more than I was looking to spend. His response was, because he's a doctor and double Ivy League grad, he's more upscale than the other guys. I told him that the escorts here aren't hillbillies with straw in their teeth and many are college graduates themselves. Maybe not doctors, but they're educated at fine universities. Moving on....
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    filmbuff78 got a reaction from LFABWC in 411 on AdamAdonis   
    Great guy, beautiful body, fun in bed. Always enjoy spending time with him. Can't say enough great things about him. So glad I'm not the type where we have to have the same thoughts on taxes and foreign policy to enjoy each other's company.
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    filmbuff78 got a reaction from Midtownguy99 in 411 on IvyLeagueHungVrs   
    Well, I contacted him and he quoted me 450/hr to start. I told him thanks, but that's more than I'm used to spending. He asked me what my budget was. I told him that guys in LA are usually 300/hr plus tip. I was OK being flexible but a 50% markup was more than I was looking to spend. His response was, because he's a doctor and double Ivy League grad, he's more upscale than the other guys. I told him that the escorts here aren't hillbillies with straw in their teeth and many are college graduates themselves. Maybe not doctors, but they're educated at fine universities. Moving on....
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    filmbuff78 got a reaction from Midtownguy99 in 411 on IvyLeagueHungVrs   
    Well, I contacted him and he quoted me 450/hr to start. I told him thanks, but that's more than I'm used to spending. He asked me what my budget was. I told him that guys in LA are usually 300/hr plus tip. I was OK being flexible but a 50% markup was more than I was looking to spend. His response was, because he's a doctor and double Ivy League grad, he's more upscale than the other guys. I told him that the escorts here aren't hillbillies with straw in their teeth and many are college graduates themselves. Maybe not doctors, but they're educated at fine universities. Moving on....
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    filmbuff78 got a reaction from chirob in Handsome Tall Stud in LA   
    Since you don't know who I am, my medical history, health status or the details of the massage, I'm curious as to...
     
    1. How you know how seriously I take social distancing guidelines?
    2. If you know how frank of a conversation I had with him beforehand about the health challenges of a massage?
    3. If you know if I consulted my doctor before hiring anyone and what precautions they said to take?
    4. If you know this was or was not this first human interaction I've had in two months?
    5. If you knew how badly my body was in pain where I needed help from a MT?
    6. How you know if masks were or were not worn?
    7. Why you feel it's appropriate to publicly shame me, especially without any of the above knowledge?
     
    And mostly...
    8. Who made you such an expert that you can judge the way others follow social distancing GUIDELINES in the privacy of their own home?
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    filmbuff78 got a reaction from CaliMuscle in Joe DiCarlo in LA   
    Scruffy, rugged type. Was a lot of fun. Definitely recommend him
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    filmbuff78 got a reaction from + Romani in Whats with all the auto text messages on RM Messenger?   
    Sorry your search for out of town escorts who you can't afford has been so stressful that you need to lash out at me like that. I hope you have better luck with the next guy.
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    filmbuff78 got a reaction from HoseMaster in 411 on BradyLA   
    I talked to him a few months ago. Was very nice and prompt with responses, but charging over 300 and no face was a nonstarter. If you're not going to show your face, you should be under 300, not over, in my opinion.
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    filmbuff78 got a reaction from dlee02 in Joe DiCarlo in LA   
    Scruffy, rugged type. Was a lot of fun. Definitely recommend him
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    filmbuff78 got a reaction from + goosh69 in 411 on IvyLeagueHungVrs   
    Well, I contacted him and he quoted me 450/hr to start. I told him thanks, but that's more than I'm used to spending. He asked me what my budget was. I told him that guys in LA are usually 300/hr plus tip. I was OK being flexible but a 50% markup was more than I was looking to spend. His response was, because he's a doctor and double Ivy League grad, he's more upscale than the other guys. I told him that the escorts here aren't hillbillies with straw in their teeth and many are college graduates themselves. Maybe not doctors, but they're educated at fine universities. Moving on....
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    filmbuff78 got a reaction from n2tallmuscle in BigMuscleNYC   
    I've met him as well. Beautiful man, inside and out. Would definitely recommend him.
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    filmbuff78 reacted to + DrownedBoy in Budgeting for an Orgy   
    No....any financially prudent person budgets. Even when you make 6 figures, you can't throw your money around without paying attention to how much you're spending. 
    My budget has a line item for (ahem) adult entertainment.  It's in the "luxury" category,  and can be adjusted if needed.
    I never met a self-made wealthy person who didn't budget...
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    filmbuff78 reacted to former lurker in Rio Garza   
    You may be reading too much into it. He responded and said nothing discouraging. Had he been averse to clients like you, he either wouldn't respond or he'd say your not a good fit. He left the ball in your court. If, for whatever reason, you feel uncomfortable meeting somewhat who isn't affirmatively encouraging, it's probably better that you don't book him. Whether that's because he's not into it or you need more encouragement than he provides, it's not a good set up for a great time for you.
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    filmbuff78 got a reaction from JTtorretto in CharlieScott in Dallas, 411   
    That's just in the past few weeks. You are like this with dozens of providers all over the country. So, yeah, I've grown tired of you constantly tearing people down.
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    filmbuff78 got a reaction from lonely_john in Whats with all the auto text messages on RM Messenger?   
    Sorry your search for out of town escorts who you can't afford has been so stressful that you need to lash out at me like that. I hope you have better luck with the next guy.
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    filmbuff78 got a reaction from lonely_john in Whats with all the auto text messages on RM Messenger?   
    If he isn't in your city and you're not flying anyone out, then why waste his time?
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    filmbuff78 reacted to Lazarus in 411 on JohnnyXL?   
    I’d like to hear more about the waterfront property in Florida you are trying to sell. I didn’t know they had any waterfront property there. Everyone else is trying to sell me swamp land!
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    filmbuff78 reacted to + nycman in Those who are from Dallas and/or Austin, is $400 typical/average rate in those cities?   
    $400 isn’t the "typical/average" rate...anywhere in the world.
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    filmbuff78 reacted to Beancounter in Those who are from Dallas and/or Austin, is $400 typical/average rate in those cities?   
    Lived in Dallas for 40 years before moving last year. In the last couple of years before moving I found the most common rates to be in the $250-300 range.
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    filmbuff78 reacted to handiacefailure in Paying for the Uber   
    No I wouldn't do it.
     
    For one I'd rather the escort do an incall and if they can't then they should factor that into the outcall cost.
     
    Like others said I don't want them using my uber account. Who knows how they'll behave in the car and with Ubers hard to get these days Drivers are looking at ratings before they accept a ping.
     
    If I go to a clients site that's factored in my rate. I sure as hell don't expect them to pay for my transportation there.
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    filmbuff78 reacted to Epigonos in Paying for the Uber   
    I have been hiring escorts for twenty years and I usually require out calls. This is not rocket science. When I contact an escort: 1.) I ask him if he does outcalls to my area, 2.) I tell him that I am interested in approximately a three-hour arrangement. One hour for a meal and two for play time. and 3.) I ask him if he is interested in that type of arrangement and if so, what his fee would be. At this point the ball is in the escorts court. He has sufficient information to determine all his costs regarding our possible get together. Thus, I expect him to provide me with a single figure NOT an itemized estimate. If and when he does I determine if his fee appears reasonable to me. If it does, we continue making arrangements to meet. If it does not, I thank him for his time and break off communication.
     
    I have traveled with escorts on a number of occasions. In those situations, I certainly pay all costs; airfare, hotels, meals, and all other costs except for personal items the escort chooses to purchase. Comparing airfare to Uber fare is ridiculous and absurd.
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