Dmitri

Just checked his Rentmen profile. He says in big, bold caps he is not a massage therapist. Why was he posted in this section?

Whatever you are into. I like a 2 hr. massage session. I come for the massage, and the HE is just icing on the cake. But there is a client population that likes a quickie. They are super horny, and are really just there for the HE.....and waiting through 50 minutes of massage to get what they really came for is frustrating. So they book the 30 minutes , save the cash, and get to the good stuff much quicker. Great fit for them.

Reading through your whole post, I don't see anyplace where you stopped him.....or told him that was not what you wanted. Like you said " "He basically controlled the session and took it where he wanted it to go." And you did not stop him, or tell him this was not what you wanted, and that you wanted more massage and less action. You just went along with what he was doing. The fact is, this was YOUR session....not his. As clients we can't act like victims when masseurs lead us astray from what we want, and blame it all on them. It is up to US to speak up, which you did not do in your session. In the future if this happens, speak up. As clients, we end up in situations like this, frustrated and unhappy, if we don't communicate with the masseur, whether it is before or during the massage. Speak up next time.

With experiences like this, WHY would anyone hire this guy? My time is WAY to valuable to waste on Leo. Sounds flaky, self centered, unprofessional, and like someone to avoid. I will pass on him for sure.

The photo policy for Rentmasseur is no genitial nudity, and no naked butts. That is why they have the private photos, where masseurs can post naked hard on shots, etc. They do allow risque and/or suggestive photos in the public arena, such as a masseur with a hard on covered with wet underwear, etc. And I have seen a few photos with a slight hint of a naked butt showing. But it is basically, no uncovered cocks or butts. Those photos go to the private gallery. For Masseurfinder, their photo policy is STRICT. NO suggestive photos of ANY kind. NO shirtless photos.....and any tank tops need to be CONSERVATIVE. No string tank tops, etc. Any photo that even has a WHIFF of sex is banned, and if the masseur tries to post another one they are dropped from the site. That explains why I like hiring off Rentmasseur VS. Massuerfinder. At least with RM you can see shirtless photos and private photos to see what you are getting.

Red flag: He has been a RM member since 9-2-18. His first review was posted 9-3-18. (wow, his first client is already submitting a review after ONE day? More likely he submitted it) Followed by another review posted only 3 days later on 9-6-18. And both reviews are written in his style of writing from his ad text....in English as a second language style. These masseurs, if they are going to write their own reviews, need to space them far apart and write them in different styles. So many masseurs like Derreky make it so obvious. It is a major turn off for me when they write their own reviews, since it reeks of dishonesty.

Yes....I find it really odd. The photo of course....but also the description. What masseur in their ad clarifies that their weight can fluctuate 30 lbs. one way or the other depending on the time of year?? (TMI= to much information) The whole ad.....photo and text, appears as a joke....or maybe a Saturday Night Live Skit

"Masseurfinder's limitations of photos and descriptions renders it useless." @Harryinny , you described it perfectly, exactly how I feel. Amen to that.

You gotta keep wondering......he took down his ad as soon as you posted his link. Not a good sign.

That is beyond "annoying".....No excuse for that. Unprofessional, and says tons about the integrity of the masseur. If you did that to the masseur, he would be pissed off!

True. That is the great thing for these masseurs. Each one has their own niche and their own fans. Something for everyone.

Appealing....but just can't get past that beard. Especially in pic #6 and #8.

I think that second photo of being fully clothed is a reflection of Masseurfinder's photo policy of the masseur needing to be clothed in photos. Also, I think their photo policy also requires you not have any suggestive photos of being to "close" to the client, except for your hands, of course For $150/hr, I bet he wears much less, and he is much closer during the session. I do agree that the first photo of the face shot is creepy. Ugh! For sure, a mannequin.

@IntuitiveTactile , where did you get this screenshot from? In the upper right corner it says "Welcome, Eric" and then "Your account" and "Log out". It looks like a masseur's account. Confused here.

Biotone ( top of the line product) also sells a GREAT high quality massage oil called Clear Results that my masseur uses that comes in a 5 gallon cube. Great product! (around $300 for the 5 gallon)

You mentioned many of the obvious overhead costs. The main ongoing cost that jumps to my mind is online advertising, which for Masseurfinder is around $200/month for the middle package and $277/month for the top package. Another main cost, and also one that takes a ton of effort and time is "looking good." Masseurs are well aware that we hire them on looks first. This involves a gym membership, but also all the time it takes at the gym. (which we end up paying them for.) Also, tanning....skin care.....haircuts....botox (for the ones over 30 y/0) .....and anything else they do to look their best. Also, since most work out of their homes, the best masseurs spend time keeping their homes looking clean and appealing, since clients are in/out every day. This takes either a cleaning service, or the masseur spending the time cleaning daily to keep it in tiptop shape. Also, there is the cost of the down time in between appointments. Masseurs are not booked 24/7 but need to keep their schedules open.....so there is lost income from not having another job. From what I can see, being a masseur in this business is not just about the expenses you can count in dollars (which do add up)....but the emotional, sexual and physical expenses that these guys put forth to run a successful massage business.

Try contacting them at [email protected]. That has always worked for me, and I have always received a response.

I think the fact that a masseur posts only ONE photo, and the same SINGLE photo for a number of years should tell you something is off. I would avoid.

Confusing. I had to look twice after reading his ad to make sure I was reading a Rentmasseur ad, and not a Rentman ad. His text copy reads more like an escort ad than a massage ad. Hardly any mention of massage. Just about his blue eyes and southern accent, body contact, the type of people that like him, and all about staying with him and he can take you on day excursions (?) I think CuddleDad (even with that name) should try escorting, since his ad hardly mentions massage.

+1

Rentmasseur has been hit with just a touch of the SESTA/FOSTA curse. They are based outside the USA in Germany and can get around some of the SESTA/FOSTA rules,which is why you see shirtless photos, racy text, etc. When I contacted them, they told me that the one thing they could not get around was Google. Google contacted them and told them since they advertise erotic massage, they are not allowed to use Google maps, so they took down the "Map Me" feature to cooperate with Google. Rentmasseur is now looking into other alternatives.

That is why I ALWAYS avoid traveling masseurs. They tend to stay in not the best hotels, and try to squeeze in as many clients as they can while in town, hence the rushed massages and booking clients with one hand while massaging you with the other. I have always found the local masseurs to have the best set ups and not feel the pressure to squeeze in as many clients as they can since they are not leaving town, they live there.

It is an easy mistake. I always thought it made more sense the other way around. For the client, they would figure an incall would mean they stay IN and the masseur comes to them. Then an outcall would mean the client would go OUT for the massage to the masseur's place. But it is the other way around. Easily confusing

If I am reading this post correctly, it is backwards. Incall = the masseur's place. Outcall = the masseur comes to you.

Translated: Online businesses based inside the the United States can be prosecuted for violating the SESTA/FOSTA act, signed into law by Trump on April 11, 2018. It basically says that any online website run by a business based in the USA that projects any hint of promoting sex trafficking or prostitution can be prosecuted. As a result of this law, Masseurfinder scrubbed their site clean in April after the legislation was signed, so no shirtless photos, no suggestive ad copy, etc. MassageM4M took it a step further (also based in the USA) and closed down. Rentmasseur, or any other sites based outside the USA are free to do what they want, so on these sites you will see shirtless photos, and sexually suggestive ad copy. (And of course on Rentmen, nudity.)