Dmitri

Why don't you put your request in the Escort Forum? I am sure there is a larger pool of escorts that would provide a massage and then top you. Not sure that there are many masseurs that would provide that service. I am sure there are some....but not as many as you would find in the escort forum, where topping is commonly provided.

Yes, Trevor, guys DO want more than therapeutic when you charge $150/hr.

Glad it went great for you. Might want to change the spelling of his name for the Search results.......he spells his name as Garic. ( C no K)

Wow....pricey. Got it....Thanks!

What rate did he charge you? He does not list it. (Under his rate he has the infamous "Ask")

Good eye! My bad....just corrected it...thanks for catching that!

Here is the situation: I scheduled a 1 1/2 hr massage last week. The massage time was scheduled for 1pm. I arrived at 12:55pm, undressed, and got on the table at 1pm. I mentioned to the masseur I wanted to shower after the massage. He said that was fine. When the massage was over, the masseur said I could shower and he would be in the living room when I was ready. I glanced at the clock and it was 2:19pm. (although I had booked a 90 minute session....this was 80 minutes) I showered, dressed, and paid him. As I glanced at the clock on the way out it was 2:29pm. Question: Should a 90 minute session starting at 1pm go for the full 90 minutes and finish at 2:30pm, and then give me 5 or 10 minutes to shower and get dressed? Or was the way the masseur played this correct? I felt shorted by 10 minutes (especially when paying $180)...and felt he factored in my shower/dressing time as part of the massage. (although he did nothing for those 10 minutes I showered and got dressed but play on his phone) Feedback appreciated.

Yes, there are instances where the massage is provided and the client pays later. It is called a Credit Card. I have on a number of occasions not had the money for a massage session, ( payday was a week away) and received a massage and just charged it. Do you accept credit cards? If not, in 2019 it is very easy to set up a Paypal Now or Square account and just swipe their credit card on your phone. So if a client calls and says they don't have the money, say that is fine, you accept credit cards.

Interested in Ralph also, anyone?

I looked at Jay's profile. He was only on Rentmasseur for less than a month. If you booked with Jay....and Jay was not going to be the masseur giving you the massage, then you should have been told that before you showed up. That goes beyond being misleading and dishonest....it is just down right wrong. So you actually were booking with Nick, not knowing it was him (though he knew he was misleading you)......so when you met him, he was not the masseur you had chosen in the profile. He should have TOLD you that before you arrived. I don't care how hot a masseur is, if they mislead and lie like that I would just leave. By staying, you are enabling them, and they think it is okay and will continue doing it to the next unsuspecting client.

+1

Every once in a while if I am out of town on business I will not hire off of any of the gay massage websites, and will instead go to a "straight spa" in the city I am visiting. I will choose a spa that has a private room, so I can be alone with the masseur. It is sort of a challenge to me to see if I can "bag" a masseur to go past the therapeutic into something more. I am very muscular and work out alot, so I hope that is the bait for the masseur. I always ask at the front desk for a male, since I tell them I need deep pressure, since I just worked out. I usually go to the gym first, and get pumped up, (hopefully to entice the masseur) then head to get the massage. I usually have a 90% success rate. Last month in Chicago I requested a male ( not many on staff) and had to wait 30 minutes, and was ushered into a room, and told to change and get on the table. I had a sheet on, naked underneath. The masseur came in, mid 30's. HOT and very sexy. (sorry, can't give his name out, probably should not have even named the spa) I asked for deep tissue. I chatted a bit, and he was friendly. He commented on my physique, and asked about my workout routine. From there we bonded and discussed working out, diet, etc. I was getting turned on, and was hard. Still on my stomach. He pulled the sheet up, (exposing one butt cheek) and started on my legs, and asked about my leg workout, as his hand slid and brushed my crack. Chemistry was happening. After 10 minutes, I turned over, and after he was working on my chest, my nipples were really getting hot for him. He asked my chest routine, and then with his own initiative, starting kneading my pecs. At this point he lifted the sheet off, my erection in plain view. He went and locked the door, and asked me to stay quiet. He chuckled, and pulled off his shorts and placed his rock hard cock in my hand. (massive, thick cock, with huge, low hangers) From there we had mostly oral, hot sex. He is married, and I was in town for 3 more days, so we hooked up at my hotel room 2X. This has happened to me 90% of the time. So believe me, many of these "straight" masseurs at "straight" spas can be had.

If you text a request and don't hear back there are 3 possibilities 1) They are crazy busy and are overloaded and are so busy massaging that they don't have enough time to answer all requests. They pick and choose which ones to answer that fit into their schedule, since they are so booked. 2) They don't really take their job seriously since they only do it part time, so only answer when they feel like it. 3) They are just rude. If a masseur does not get back to me after I text a request after a few hours, I will then call ( from an unblocked number) and leave a voicemail asking them to look for my text. I then text them right away after leaving the voicemail, telling them I just left a voicemail. This covers all bases. If after this there is no response, I just move on. There are SO MANY masseurs out there, no sense wasting time on non-responders.

You can't avoid paying for the hotel bed that your big client breaks during a massage session. The hotel will charge you for it. In a case like this, it is only fair that the big client pays for the damage to the bed, since it is their body weight that caused the damage. If a client is big (translated: overweight) then they are fully aware that it was their weight that caused the damage, and they are held responsible. Kind of a no brainer that most rationale clients would agree on.

That's why I found it odd that it was in the Spa....a massage forum. Maybe the post should be in The Lounge to get a wider audience and response.

I might be confused, and could be wrong. From reading the posts I did not read anything about massage. Is this a massage situation or a j/o party? Or maybe both?

Why is this in the Spa Forum?

As in any service based business....rates are supply and demand. Business slow=lower rates. Business busy= higher rates. Guess he is busy. Good for him, bad for us.

Is that link correct? It does not work.

I think you just answered your own question. To quote you: " The obvious problem is jealousy. Giving erotic massages to other men. Not a fan of open relationships." Well, if he is giving erotic massages to other men, you ARE in an open relationship. It's your decision whether to stay or not, but from what you said , it does not sound like he's a good fit for you.

@Kody S , after clicking on the link....it brings you to the Home Page. There is an Eduardo on the Home Page in the first row. Is that the masseur you are referencing?

Bump...will be in LA this week

It depends on 2 things: 1) The technique of the masseur 2) How turned on you are. If the masseur just jams his finger in, then ouch! If he works around your ass and gets you good and hot, then slowly slides in, taking his time, that is of course the best. If a masseur goes in the prostate massage direction, I sometimes will ask him to hold his finger steady and still, and let me lower on it, so I can control the sensation....then once he is in there I let him do his thing. (works well for fucking also for me) Also, if you get really turned on by the masseur first, the prostate massage feels much better!

Same with me. Therapeutic only.

He is hot....but seriously, $200 for a 1 hour massage??