Dmitri

Wow..... you average 6 clients per day....at $180 per client? That is $1,080/day. Even being conservative and just working 4 days/week = $4,320/week. ( and that is just 4 days....it jumps $1,080 each additional day) Even on just a 4 day work week that is $224,640/year. On a 6 day work week that would be $336,960. Mind boggling. Good for you, Kenzo.

Kenzo is a Forum Member. If you are considering hiring him on your next trip to New York, maybe contact him directly and mention the comments in this post. (he is aware of the Forum since he is a member) Ask if the pictures are accurate, if he has gained extra weight, and ask for a few recent photos. Therefore, you will hear directly from him and won't need to guess about what he looks like now. He seems from his interactions in the Forum like a friendly guy who will give you the feedback you are seeking.

Amen to that!

Great info. I think you need to work for the FBI. You have talent

Link does not work

I am confused. Do you need to connect through RM first or not?

Isn't the purpose of the Review Section for clients to review providers? I don't think it is an appropriate place for providers to air their personal grievances/dramas with other providers in the Review Section. The best way for them to do that is to open an account in the Forum (Deli Section) and post their experience. This belongs in the Forum, not the Review Section.

Best forum for the post is "The Lounge"

I visited that site a few times and they did not have a client sign up, only a masseur sign up. How did they get your email address?

One way to book with Harry (or any masseur)...and to avoid the guessing games, and disappointment and wasted money, is to ask 1) do you massage nude? 2) Is MT allowed and HE provided? I know all about the fact some won't answer direct questions like that, but In my experience, the majority of masseurs will answer those questions, especially if they have a sexually charged ad. I am not in Harry's location, but anyone who books with him, and is looking for nude/MT/HE should just ask him. Why waste your money if you are not sure of what you are getting? Just ask him.

Money $$$

This has never happened in my massage experience, but if the masseur asked for the money upfront, I would just ask him "Why?"If they embarrass you by asking for the money upfront, embarrass them back and just ask "Why?" That will put them on the spot.

By wanting more than mutual touch and happy ending, seems like you are looking for services that escorts offer. Try doing the reverse.....Hire an escort who provides massage with his services.

And you can't beat his price...$90/hr......feels like 2003 again!

If I am paying $160/hr to $180/hr or higher I want to know upfront and always ask if the massage is in the nude with MT and HE. I don't want a negative surprise and have the masseur be fully clothed and only perform a therapeutic massage with no nudity, no MT, and no HE. That is an element of surprise I can't accept at a $160/hr-$180/hr price point.

If that is how how treats clients, his massage skills don't even matter. Ignoring you and ghosting you after you already schedule a session? I have zero tolerance for that behavior.

Yes...the massage oil is great for your skin, if it is a quality oil. I feel it is risky sometimes to trust the masseur is using a quality oil or cream. I have had some masseurs use baby oil when I first started getting massage. UGH! Now I ask before what brand oil/cream they use. If it is something I am not comfortable with, I ask if I can bring my own massage oil. (I buy a great brand....Biotone (Google it)...online for this purpose) Most masseurs know the high quality of Biotone and I have never had a masseur reject me bringing my own oil if I request that. If they ever refused, and would not let me know what product they will use so I can research it, I won't book with them. You never know what cheap product they will slather on your skin

This has happened to me on multiple occasions. Very transparent their "situations" were fictional. So I always play the game they are playing. If they ask to "borrow" money for an "emergency" I give them a laundry list of the "emergencies" that I have. Telling them I would love to loan them the money, I then follow up with multiple reasons why I can't. I tell them: 1) My adjustable rate mortgage just got jacked sky high so my house payment just went up $2,000/month 2) My mother just got placed in a facility and I am footing the bill of $4,500/month 3) I was just hit with a huge IRS bill of $9,700. I then tell them I am lucky to scrounge up the money just to continue seeing them. This shuts them up fast, as they count their blessings at least they have not lost me as a regular client. They never ask again, just happy I am not dropping them. Works every time. Two can play this game.

I consider the escorts you hire very lucky. Regulars are their bread and butter. Plus, you both form some great friendships seeing them that often.

Don't look at the menu, and you won't be tempted.

Is it me, or does that link not work?

I would think if you contacted a masseur, and asked if you could spank them before/during or after the massage session, they would either hang up/not answer your text....or tell you to hire an escort.

That is one of my favorite features on Rentmasseur, in the masseur's ad. I think that one of the most incredibly creative ideas that RM has is the "Personal Interview". Not every masseur fills it out, but many do, and the questions asked give a great insight into the masseur. Probably not many masseurs will jump in on this thread, since I think it is mostly client based, but if you go to RM it is ripe with interviews, and questions answered. Check it out.

Context is important. This is not a situation of you being in a store, checking in at a hotel, being in the general public outside your job, etc. It is being used by clients answering an escort ad. Sounds to me like they are into master/slave, etc. and are just feeling you out to see if you reciprocate when they call you "Sir". If you play along that is a green light that you are into that scene. If you throw water on that fire, then they know you are not into it. You said an "increasing number" are doing this, not just one person, so it is a red flag that it is a master/slave thing going on. Calling an escort "Sir" is pretty obvious what they are looking for, especially when it is happening often from clients answering an escort ad.

He posts nearly naked photos in his underwear, in suggestive poses, then when you show up for your massage session, he keeps his clothes on. (even his shirt?) In not one photo in his ad does he have a shirt on. Bait you with nearly naked photos.....then once you get there, switch to being fully clothed during the massage session. That is deceiving, and just plain wrong.