Dmitri

I hear all your feedback re: masseurs such as Tai that text for more business after they massage you. When a masseur texts me after a massage, whether it is subtle such as " great meeting you! When you are ready again let me know!" Or more direct such as "So when can I massage you again?" In either case I text the masseur back right away and tell them " Do not contact me in the future, I will contact you. I need to be discreet, In a relationship" This stops it right away. I never hear from them again. You gotta stop them right away, or else they will continue. Be direct!

NJmusclelover, Kenny is so lucky to have you as a client and a friend. You are such a great advocate for him. I have never seen a client promote his masseur so much in a forum thread. It is awesome that you to hit it off so well. As clients we should all be so lucky to click with our masseurs like you have with Kenny.. And for masseurs, they all should be so lucky to have an advocate such as yourself. So glad you found each other. Looks like you found a "keeper." Wishing you both many years of awesome massage sessions

Capitano, I have read things all over the place re: what people are willing to pay for basically a non-erotic massage on this forum. I am exactly like yourself. I find pricing of $150/hr for just a massage insane. I feel if someone is pricing in the $120-$160 range they should be offering nude massage with HE. No finger painting massage, with underwear on, and no HE for $120-$160, that is crazy and does not work for me. But I have seen many comments in this forum from people who are just happy to be around a hot guy, and will pay this price for a non-erotic massage if the guy is incredibly hot. ( even if the masseur claims to be straight, which maybe turns the client on more being massaged by a straight guy) So we all get to choose our turn ons when it comes to massage, and we all get to choose how much we will pay. I, like yourself, Capitano, would never choose this type of massage at this price. Way to expensive for getting back so little.

I am sure she does not care. Just do the math. He is in high demand, so with 4 clients a day at $150/hr that is $600/day. Even in a 5 day week that is $3,000 =$156,000 a year. Probably all cash. And working 4 hrs a day is a part time job. So $156,000 a year in cash for a part time job is something I am sure she can live with!

No......you are not asking for the wrong thing......you are going to the wrong type of service provider for what you want...... you stumbled upon an exception.......most erotic massage ( at least the ones I have received) have been the opposite.......the majority of the time was strictly massage and maybe mutual touch...;;and the HE was at the end for 5 minutes.......not the other way around as you described........that is why they advertise "Massage"......and why the discussions in this forum are about "masseurs"........it sound like you got a great experience with David......but if you want a "for sure" repeat of the your experience with David..... it sounds more like a service an "Escort" would provide.....not a "Masseur".......that is the difference between the two.......hire an Escort and tell him exactly what you said in your post and I am sure he can provide that for you......

Even with no face pics he sure looks hot to me.....(and I am very picky)......sure floats my boat!

Thanks, Oaktown.....just read the thread!

Did notice his Rentmasseur profile has 6 reviews.....all spaced VERY close together...all posted right after he signed up on the site....11/7....11/13.....and then TWO on the same day no less!....11/16 AND 11/16......11/17.....11/18.....wow! a quick flurry of reviews......none posted before or since.....isn't that kind of a red flag?

I have read thru the comments re: Josh and have some feedback. I have been to masseurs before who once the massage commences start talking.....telling me their life story....asking where I am from, etc.....I myself prefer silence. I know some out there who enjoy the conversation during a massage. I do not. On many occasions if the masseur starts talking during the session I just tell them that I enjoy to relax during the massage and it is hard for me to relax if they are talking. This works 99% of the time. If they continue to talk....or stop talking for 5 minutes but start again.....I gently remind them I am trying to relax and the talking makes that difficult. They then totally stop. Works every time! If I ever encounter a situation in the future....with Josh...or anyone who does not shut up....then I would end the session. Remember....this is OUR massage.....that WE are paying for. Do not hesitate to let any masseur know if something is bothering you....to much talking, room is cold, pressure is not right, etc. Masseurs are not mind readers.....communication is the key thing!

If he ever visits my city I will take a pass. From what I understand from reading the comments all he provides for $160/hr is a massage....no HE or anything else. Amazing! What's the point then? But the deal breaker for me was when I read his reviews on his Masseurfinder ad......all spaced neatly a few days apart (?).......no one gets reviews posted every few days......unless the masseur is posting them. So it appears Dave writes his own reviews. I guess when you charge $160/hr for virtually nothing no one else will write a review, so you have to write your own.......so obvious.....wow, are those reviews posted close together......August 13th.....August 14th.....and TWO on the same day no less! (August 16th, 2016).......huge red flag.

Ouch! Guess I won't be going to Edison, NJ

I just Googled the facility for you, cajunmc.......check out their website......it has a FAQ page.....the part I found VERY interesting on the FAQ page is that the hot tubs are NOT co-ed......and NO bathing suits are allowed in the hot tubs.....you must be nude to enter the non co-ed group hot tub.....which means that you will be in a hot tub full of naked (probably mostly straight) men......I think I might fly to Edison, NJ to check this out myself!

Zman, I like what you said....there is no hard and fast rule about age.....but I also feel there is no hard and fast rule about getting a recommendation about anything......whether it is about a masseur.....an escort....or a restaurant. I have received massages from men in their 20's all the way into their 50's......and have had good and bad from all age groups. ( I am 47 y/0)......I also have had massages from men that were glorified in reviews on this site and other sites....and had bad experiences, even though they were raved about. Also had some great experiences from guys that were dissed on this site and other sites. Same with restaurants.....people have said " don't go there...food is terrible".....but went since it worked for me that day....and had a great meal. To summarize.....as far as age goes, good and bad in all age groups. As far as being reviewed.... I have had some lousy massages from guys that have had positive reviews here and on other sites......and great massages from ones on sites like Backpage or my local gay newspaper that I stumbled across and have never been mentioned here. This site and other sites are a great resource for a start.....but you need to go with your gut instincts to see what works for you....trust your intuition. And always remember.....it is only a "first world problem".......we are always looking for that next great massage......let's all be thankful we are always just musing on this site about who to choose to massage us.....while people in third world countries are looking for where their next meal is coming from....or where they will sleep tonite.....helps keep things in perspective

Thanks for clarifying that, JRTravel...Initially I was confused since this thread was started by VHS asking "has anyone met HIM".....and gave two links with the same looking guy with different names.. and was followed by responses all referring to Roman and not mentioning Alex.....as if others were under the impression it was the same guy... (?).....I was further confused since some of the pics in both ads are the same.....not just of the same person....but the exact same pics...in the M4M ad photo #2 is the exact same pic that is photo #1 in the MF ad.....even down to the red gym shoes (is that actually Roman or Alex in that photo?)......plus they both use the same ad copy.....maybe they should use different pics and different ad copy to set themselves apart since it could confuse a guy like myself who does not know they are twins.....if I schedule with Alex I might mention that to him.....thanks again for the clarification

REALLY confused here......can anyone educate me on Roman and Alex? Are they one and the same? Or 2 different people? I clicked on both links posted by VHC and they use a few indentical pics (?).....almost indentical wording in their ads (?).....but their rates are different....and they are in SF and NYC at the SAME time (?)......confused.....help me out here......educate me

Saw Davide a few months ago on a business trip. He was excellent. I would urge you to try him yourself. Very professional and easy to book. He is adorable and a real sweetheart. Great massage. No extras when I went. ( but maybe the chemistry will be different with you.) I suggest giving him a try. Slim pickens in that area.