Dmitri

Good advice. Took your suggestion and settled on Jeremy in Los Angeles on Masseurfinder, ( on first page on MF) but nothing turned up in a Search. He is my top choice. Anyone have experience with him? MT. HE?

I had a bad experience that taught me the importance of showering and cleaning "down there" before a massage session once. I was in a hurry for a massage session and hurried and did not shower "down there." The masseur and myself had hot chemistry, and before I knew it we were hot and horny and getting into it. We were standing up against a wall in his massage room, and his hands were all over me. Before I could stop him, he moved REAL quick and was just ready to finger my ass, when he exclaimed as his finger reached my hole, excited "Ooh! You oiled yourself up for me...hot!!" I quickly pushed his hand away in horror. We continued and I told him I was not into ass play, and the rest of the session went well. But lesson learned! ALWAYS shower before a massage session, since you never know where it will lead, and you want to be fresh! I now shower even if I am in a rush after that experience.

I had a bad experience that taught me the importance of showering and cleaning "down there" before a massage session once. I was in a hurry for a massage session and hurried and did not shower "down there." The masseur and myself had hot chemistry, and before I knew it we were hot and horny and getting into it. We were standing up against a wall in his massage room, and his hands were all over me. Before I could stop him, he moved REAL quick and was just ready to finger my ass, when he exclaimed as his finger reached my hole, excited "Ooh! You oiled yourself up for me...hot!!" I quickly pushed his hand away in horror. We continued and I told him I was not into ass play, and the rest of the session went well. But lesson learned! ALWAYS shower before a massage session, since you never know where it will lead, and you want to be fresh! I now shower even if I am in a rush after that experience.

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In today's world you never know, with all the new technology, even with a cell phone. I think we all need to be aware that we might be recorded during our sessions. There is no way to know for sure. You just NEVER know. It can be done so discreetly. I do know someone (not during a massage setting) who had a set up where he would video his hook ups without there knowledge. So whether during massage....or hooking up, it does happen, and the only thing you can do is just be aware. Nothing else you can do.

How about a prostate massage? Many masseurs I go to offer those, so I always make sure I am showered and ready in case it goes in that direction.

Is it just me, or do you really have to pursue a masseur to cum? I have had many massages all over the world, and unless I pursued the subject, (such as asked) I never have had a masseur volunteer it.

I will be in Los Angeles next week and need some recs on masseurs who can do deep pressure, and also provide MT and HE. I like masseurs who are muscular with no attitude. Friendly and sexy, but someone who knows what they are doing. No rub and tugs. I will be staying in downtown LA. Who would your top 3 picks be? Any ideas?

Why, when booking an appointment, if you got a weird vibe, would you mention your age? If I got a "weird vibe", that would be a huge red flag. I would trust my gut instinct right there, and would not mention my age, but would mention that maybe today/tonite is not going to work for my schedule and I will be in contact at a later date. Then I would move onto another masseur who I feel more comfortable with. He ain't the only fish in the sea. There are tons of them out there.

Reading through this post is insane re: is he or isn't he effeminate. Who cares? What a waste of time to debate if a masseur is effeminate or not. You are not dating him, you are just getting a massage. At the end of the day, with Garic, or any masseur, the important thing is if they do a great job. Period.

There are MANY clients who would would love to be in your situation. Hire an escort for 3 hours.....he stays for 11 hours and only charges you for 3 hours.....since he likes being with you. Sounds like a problem many of us would like to have. With that being said....you say you only want them to stay for the allotted time that you hired them for. The obvious and simple solution is to tell them what you told us in this forum. Be direct and after you had your fun for the 3 hours, let them know you need to finish up. If they hang on, tell them what you told us. That you are married and only hire for the allotted time, and am not interested in spending more time together. Simple. Easy. Solution. As the saying goes "The first time it is their fault. The second time it is yours."

Sorry for your bad experience. Wow.....that masseur was an idiot. If he was asking you to cum inside him, then he obviously asks other clients to do that. His response of course makes NO sense about not needing to be on PrEP. It is the opposite. He NEEDS to be on PrEP if he is having complete strangers cum inside him, and also putting clients such as yourself at risk. 2 things I always do during an erotic massage session: 1) I never go intoxicated in any way...alcohol, weed, etc. so that way I can keep track of what is going on. 2) I never get caught up in the moment when it gets sexual and lose track of what is going on. You never know what a masseur is going to do, so you need to be on guard at all times.

Back when Craigslist was still around, I found an intriguing massage ad. The masseur's photos were hot, and I booked a massage session. I forget his name, but let's call him Tim. When I knocked at his door, he answered, and was jaw dropping HOT! As I entered the house, I heard the TV on in the living room. He pulled me to the side before we entered the living room, and said he had shared custody of his 10 year old son, who was watching TV. He said we would walk past his son, and go upstairs to the massage room, shutting the door of the massage room , of course, and proceed with the massage. UGH! AWKWARD!! I was going to leave, but Tim was smoking hot (in the Coast Guard). We walked past his son, who looked up, and his dad introduced me and said "Dmitri is my friend, and we are going upstairs to sign some papers" His son shrugged, and upstairs with Tim I went. We both stripped down, and proceeded to have a HOT massage session, all the time I could hear the TV on downstairs, knowing his son was down there. When Tim had his orgasm, he let out a loud yell that made the roof shake! I thought, signing papers is never this loud! After the massage was over, we got dressed, and Tim then grabbed a pile of papers and a pen from another room. As we walked through the living room, papers and pen in hand, the son said "Did you sign the papers, Dad?" And Tim said "Yes, the papers are all signed" (?) There was no awkward "moment"....the entire situation was awkward! I quickly left, and never looked back!

Type their names in the Search Box. I found threads on all 3 you listed. (one thread was your own inquiry of Daniel that you posted 2-11-19 that was answered by Oaktown with a thread he provided you for more info) I always get lots of info by just typing the masseur's name in the Search Box.

You seem shy to be asking a sexual question. Nothing to be embarrassed/shy about when it comes to sex! Ask away! Rimming and eating pussy are similar in 2 respects 1) The tongue is being used 2) You usually (but not always) are priming an area to get it hot and ready to be fucked. I have been with lots of bisexual guys, and have to admit, from eating all that pussy, their tongues were strong and nimble and they were excellent at rimming me! I was with one guy who had never been with a man before and had only eaten pussy, never rimmed a guy. I was his first. He rimmed me that first night, and he was so turned on rimming me he ejaculated as he was rimming me.....shot all over the bed! He explained later that he was so turned on since I was so tight.....all the pussy he had eaten the woman were always loose......so the tight hole was a major turn on for him, and he shot his load before he was able to fuck me. That was the beginning of a VERY hot 3 year relationship with LOTS of rimming, then fucking.

Why would ANY masseur get irritated by a potential client , viewing their Private Gallery multiple times , whether it is 2X or 100X? I think it would be flattering, and encouraging, for a masseur to see a potential client viewing their Private Gallery often. It is a sign the client is interested and will most probably book a massage session in the future. It costs the masseur NOTHING for a client to view their private photos multiple times, so what is the big deal? By blocking a potential client after 1 or 2 or even 10 views of their Private Gallery, you have pissed off that client and lost a likely appointment. What an idiotic move on the masseur's part. Blocking= lost client=NO MONEY. Makes absolutely no sense. (unless you are masseur diva with attitude)

Add this newest "change" to why I think Masseurfinder sucks.....they are always making changes for the worse....chipping away piece by piece at something that used to be a good site. I will now stick with Rentmasseur.

I noticed a bit of a change in the format of MF starting today. One change I noticed is that the Icons for "New Photos"And "Visiting Soon" and Visiting Now" are gone. It sucks since I am in LA today and thought a masseur was local....but when I called him he said he was not in LA and was visiting next week. (?) This could have been solved with that "Visiting Soon" icon they used to have. Anyone else notice this change, or is it just my browser?

Got it! Thanks for the clarification. I understand now.

Got it! Yes...their prices are insane. What is the "discount campaign"you were referencing? Or was this just a post that some masseurs have raised prices to insane levels . (which I agree the above guys rates are crazy high)

Can you clarify what you are talking about? I am confused. I understand "mf" stands for Masseurfinder.....but what is the "discount campaign" on Masseurfinder? I also have not seen any charges for $280 for a 90 minute massage . Please elaborate. Thanks.

I think the fact you have a Personal Website shows you are serious about your business and very professional. I think the major reason that you are having potential clients hang upon you and not visit your website when you ask them to visit for rates, info, etc. is because many clients are married, in relationships, etc. and need to be discreet. By visiting your website, it would show up in their search history. Imagine someone's wife coming across your website on their husband's phone/computer. www.mattanthonyxxx.com. Divorce material. Take the 2 minutes and just give them a quick rundown. At the end of the day, it is about the money, so just give them the info on the phone if they ask, and you will get another client, instead of a missed opportunity.

EVERY masseur has their own definitions on what "Sensual" or "Erotic" means in their individual massage session. There are no cut and dried rules. There are some "assumptions" we as clients might make about what a "Sensual" vs "Erotic" massage session is. My "assumption" is that in a Sensual massage both masseur and client are naked, and maybe a happy ending. (happy ending not guaranteed) An Erotic massage to me is both masseur and client naked, and a happy ending guaranteed, with maybe mutual touch allowed, maybe oral. But as I mentioned, this is what I ASSUME before I go to a masseur that advertises or tells me they provide a Sensual or Erotic massage. I have been burned on more than one occasion....paid a hefty massage fee ($160/hr) for what I was told was an Erotic massage, only to get a massage by a nude masseur with no happy ending. (He considered being naked "Erotic') So the ONLY 100% way to find out what a particular masseur means by "Sensual" vs "Erotic"is to ask. I have found MANY masseurs to be very open either on the phone or text if I ask re: mutual touch, oral and happy ending. The ones that won't tell me I do not go to. I might end up paying $160 hr. for basically a plain massage by a nude masseur and nothing else. Been there. Done that. Never again. I always ask now and am much happier and always get what I want. No guessing games. No wasted money and time. Just complete satisfaction since I know before I go to the masseur since we have both clarified it when I made the appointment.

I like how candid he is on his website, but 2 things made me uncomfortable 1) His "kiss and tell" stories of clients. I am sure some find them amusing and/or hot.....but if I hired him I would not like my session with him posted on his blog. 2) I think he is putting himself at a HUGE risk with the VERY explicit, sexual descriptions of what he does in an escort session for $300 on his "Sessions And Schedule" page. I know, it is very hot to read, but I have never read an escort go into such explicit detail on the sex for money thing. James Stevens tells you step by step, what he does sexually for $300, which for law enforcement is all they need for a bust. And those explicit sex for money details on his website are broadcast all over the world on the internet, for any cop to read. Not a good idea. It only takes one homophobic nutcase in the Bible Belt to read that and call law enforcement. He is putting himself at a huge risk.

If that is a major fantasy of yours, might be much easier to hire an escort. Tell him you want to start with a massage, then get topped. You will then get 100% of what you want with no guesswork. Most masseurs don't provide topping service....at most you will get a nude massage, mutual touch, and happy ending. Yes...of course there are exceptions, but most don't provide what you are looking for. That is why their pricing is lower than escorts. If you really want it to happen, there are many escorts happy to oblige your fantasy. That is the job of an escort (not a masseur)....making your fantasy come true. In your case a massage with full service as you described.