Dmitri

Would like to check out your ad. You sound interesting What is the link?

I think the best cities have been where I had TONS of masseurs to choose from. That would be New York and Los Angeles. Go to the Masseurfinder and Rentmasseur home pages of these cities and check it out......it is a literal candy store to choose from. These 2 cities are also a magnet for wannabe actors and models, so on top of getting tons of guys to choose from, you also get the hottest guys to choose from. I am all about choice, and I love NYC and LA since there is such a large number of masseurs. More masseurs, more options. All the other "major" US cities don't have half the stable of hot, sexy masseurs available as NYC and LA.

Tip: Type the masseur's name in the "Search" box. There will most probably be a link. I typed "fernando" in the Search box and on the 2nd page there was a detailed post about Fernando.

It is only $120......just spring for it and take the plunge and let us know how it goes. Book a session. By the time you get there he might be booked up. You are just getting a massage....not buying a house. Enjoy yourself. Life is to short to keep bumping

Wow, I have had the opposite experience. Many of the masseurs on Masseurfinder are also on Rentmasseur. The price range when you compare both sites are in the same range. The only difference as most of us are aware is that Rentmasseur allows shirtless photos/explicit ad text....Masseurfinder has a shirt only policy/no explicit text. I prefer Rentmasseur because I can visually see shirtless/partial nudity/private photos of what I am getting physically.....on MF I can't tell, and have been disappointed on many occasions when under those shirts on MF are a flabby body and love handles, when I was expecting a six pack. Also, when I hire from RM I ask about their training before hiring. Many are CMT's and I have received many great massage sessions from RM. I highly prefer RM over MF. Great layout and hot pics on RM!

Agreed! Read his reviews....they are almost funny enough to have been written by a comedy writer. My favorites are 3-10-19 where the review states "his English is not good"...and the whole review is written in broken English. (of course, since Michelle/Michael wrote it. ) And also 3-11-19 where the review states " he looks as most men do better in person" (which makes absolutely no sense, no matter what language you speak ) Best laugh I had all day reading those reviews

I smell something weird here. The link does not work, yet a brand new Forum Member (as of today) posts this, says he has seen them (with no link that he can reference, since the link is gone) and his post/comments are in the same broken English as mentioned in the negative threads about the cousins posted above by @jeezopete . "give you a message" "shooting our fun out" ????? Sounds like English as a second language to me. (forgive me if I am wrong, @hornyboy89 , but we have seen this happen in the Forum before, masseurs setting up accounts posing as clients to post positive feedback to counter negative feedback)

Not a good idea to give anyone you hire any type of medication. You gave him blood pressure medication, and also ibuprofen? If something happened to this guy, such as he had a bad reaction or allergic reaction to the meds and he passed out, or worse, you would be in a huge legal mess. You sound like a great guy that only wanted to help, but that was a risky thing you did. Would have been best to just have him call an Uber and leave, with no meds given by you. He also could have blamed you the next day if by some weird reason he got really sick....could have blamed it on you and the meds you gave him. I always err on the side of caution and just call an Uber for anyone I hire if any drama like this unfolds.

ANY massage website that allows the masseurs full freedom to post sexy, shirtless photos, and does not censor their ad text is a step in the right direction. www.pleasemasseur.com does allow this freedom, unlike www.masseurfinder.com which totally censors EVERYTHING down to no shirtless photos. I think Rentmasseur is still superior in the fact of full freedom, but also a great layout and easy navigation. Pleasemasseur is still in the growing phase, and needs a better layout and easier navigation. But still, I give it a high five for allowing shirtless photos/explicit text so we know who we are hiring, and what we are getting.

Great marketing tool and attention getter, as witnessed in this post. But can't anyone say they are a "Former Marine" for the sex appeal aspect? I am sure no one is going to ask for proof. And what proof would there be anyway? For the record, I am a Former Navy SEAL. (not really, but as I said, anyone can claim anything)

This subject come up over and over. Masseurfinder needs to get their act together and post a disclaimer on their website such as "During the hours of 12 am-6am masseur's contact info is unavailable." But I guess that obvious solution would be to much to expect from such a poorly run website.....

Agree. I think 'staches only work in 2019 if the guy has a bit of stubble with the 'stache, as in this pic. If they are totally clean shaven with the 'stache it does not work. You need the stubble to go along with it to pull it off for a hot, sexy look in 2019.

........And the future review ( you have to admit he plans his reviews ahead )....is in the same bad, broken English as his other reviews. So obvious he writes them, it is laughable.

From his ad text.....in bad, broken English, it is safe to assume he was male at birth, is from another country, and the name Michelle reflects that.

No refund for all reasons mentioned by others. But when you started mentioning the other parts of your history with this client, (hitting you up on Scruff, etc.)......it becomes clear that you really need to hit the "delete" button on him and stay FAR away. Do not respond to him via text, phone, etc. Just "ghost" him. He sounds like a nutcase and a future problem if you engage him in any way in the future.

Thanks for the info, but aren't reviews supposed to be submitted to the review site?

He said that a HE is provided, though no mention of nude, MT. I came away from our phone conversation uncomfortable, so I went with my gut feeling and avoided him, as we all should when we contact a masseur and something seems off. And something for sure seems off with him.

I did call and chat with Anthony last week since I was going to be in the city, but it was a TOTAL turn off. This guy is really off with his ad. As you can see his price for 60 minutes is $1 (?). I asked him about that, and he said he ONLY does massage with his boyfriend, and their 60 minute rate for a 4 hands is $200. ( he added that a tip would be appreciated.....tacky) He said he does NOT offer massage alone. I told him he should mention in his ad it is a 4 hands, but he said Masseurfinder does not allow that (?) I told him that was not true, that I have seen a few ads that offer 4 hands and he was then silent about that. I then asked his 90 minute rate with his boyfriend. He said he does not offer 90 minutes, since they are trying to get as many clients as possible, since they do not live here and are only visiting, and want to make as much money as possible. (at least he was honest there) So the ad you see has MANY strings attached.....he does not live there, is in the city for a short time staying at a hotel, only offers 1 hr sessions, does NOT offer massage alone, it is a package deal with his boyfriend, and the sticker price is of course not $1.....but a hefty $200. I avoided, and suggested you do also. To much drama for what appears to be a simple ad.

From reading his ad text this guy would be great at writing erotic stories on www.literotica.com

Whether the guy answering the door was hot or not is besides the point. Their is NO excuse for a masseur posting someone else's pics in their ad to lure you in. It is beyond creepy and dishonest. @sbguy, you did the correct thing by just leaving. By staying, even if the the masseur is semi attractive to you, since he is not the masseur in the pics he posted in his ad, then you are complicit in his deception for other potential clients that follow you, who will also be deceived. If everyone just leaves, as you did, he will soon be out of business, as he should be.

This is a forum re: masseurs ,(not escorts)....so the only reason to ask is if you think you will be engaging in sexual activity with your masseur. If that is the case, no....it is not rude to ask std and hiv status, as you would anyone you would be having sex with, paid or not. With that being said, I never ask anyone, masseur or escort, their std or hiv status. Two reasons why 1) I would not trust anyone with telling me the truth. Their are tons of honest masseurs and escorts that will tell you the truth.....and also tons that will lie to get your business. So I go into any sexual situation assuming the person might have an std or be hiv positive and play safe at all times, whatever they tell me. 2) The masseur or escort might be totally honest and tell you they do not have an std or they are hiv negative, and be totally unaware they have been exposed and are in an "incubation period", and show no symptoms.....at the time they are with you. Then a short time later they learn they had been exposed to something prior to being with you. So they were being honest when you asked, but were unaware of their health status at the time they were with you. General rule : Always play safe. That way you never even need to ask...... or worry about their std or hiv status.

I have seen this before many times. Someone gets no feedback on a masseur and it gets bumped endlessly. This one goes back 6 months, and three different people have bumped it. Why don't the people who are so interested just spring for the $120 and go see him and let us know? $120 is not the end of the world. For this masseur and others like him where there is no feedback, to keep "bumping" his link gets us nowhere. One of the interested parties, in this post and others like it that keep getting "bumped", should just spring for the massage and get on with it. Otherwise it becomes endless, IMHO.

Bingo! PM is a great idea

Agreed. We all know in both the gay and straight community there is a "stigma" about guys with small dicks, and that stigma is negative. I think sharing links and names of masseurs we have encountered with "small" dicks is somewhat crossing the line. Guys are born with what they are born with, not their fault if they are small. It is one thing sharing our massage experiences in the forum, but when we start naming names of guys with small dicks, I don't think that is cool. Feel sorry for the masseur who gets named as "small" and comes across this forum and sees their name. Even if a "small" dick is a turn on for some, I can assure you that the masseur who has the small dick is not happy about it, and does not appreciate being named here.

Agreed. It can be frustrating, but this massage ad thing is not perfect and never will be, so the best we can do is what you did....Call or text and ask. And if their ad is misleading, mention it to them. Sometimes it is an honest mistake. Maybe this guy was unaware he had the "Erotic" icon on his ad. From reading his ad copy, it appears English is his second language, so something was lost in translation. He does say in his ad copy "Sensual", but also his ad copy says he "customizes"the massage, which as we all know is a code to expect more. As mentioned before in this forum, clients and masseurs all have different definitions of what "Sensual" and "Erotic" mean. For "Sensual" I expect at LEAST a massage in the nude, maybe HE. For "Erotic" I expect a massage in the nude, plus HE, maybe more. But I never assume, and don't just go by their ad info. I always approach the masseur and either text/phone call before booking with "I am looking for a good massage in the nude with a HE, is that something you provide?" Then I make my decision from there. That is the best way to approach it.