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    MscleLovr reacted to pubic_assistance in A little messed up after seeing a provider...   
    When you're lonely, its really dangerous to meet up with a real pro. Makes you over indulge in the fantasy. Same like when you go to the supermarket hungry. 
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    MscleLovr reacted to + BOZO T CLOWN in Very high end escorts   
    There are plenty of escorts between 35 - 50 years old currently advertising on Rentmen...
    They just don't admit to it!
    BTC
    🤡
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    MscleLovr got a reaction from BSR in He's BACK | BrettNYLA   
    I’d worry that it might encourage him to show up in search of “bigger bucks”
    I guess you’d have to be ready to say out loud:
    “No, I made a date with your son - He’s in his mid-20s - I’m not dating his middle-aged Dad” 😎
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    MscleLovr got a reaction from + claym in Finding live-in help   
    I wonder if you’ve mentioned this at your church. Sometimes there are young people in the congregation who need work and/or want to leave the family home but are without funds. I haven’t looked to hire someone this way, but I have been approached 2x by people asking me if I’m looking for staff.
    Generally, I very much agree with @Vegas_Millennial on this. It’s much better to employ several people for specific jobs and tasks. Consider how problematic if it might be if you employ someone who doesn’t work out as an employee and then you have to fire them…and of course, then change your locks and alarm codes, and where you store your valuables etc.
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    MscleLovr got a reaction from Hu.Len in NEIGHBOURS SON !!   
    You’re so thoughtful @joethomas. The young man does need help. As young men can be disorganised, I’ll volunteer to choose his jockstraps and underwear for him.
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    MscleLovr got a reaction from Hu.Len in NEIGHBOURS SON !!   
    I think the logo is ‘Newcastle United’ and there are certainly very similar trains in the London area.
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    MscleLovr got a reaction from + Charlie in First Celebrity Crush   
    Ben Murphy - an actor I saw in the 70s in ‘Alias Smith and Jones’. He had long hair, such a pretty face and a smooth muscled body. 
     


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    MscleLovr got a reaction from BigDMike in Massage in Puerto Vallarta   
    I remember him from years ago. Back then, he had a very good body (having recently been on the US gymnastics team IIRC). 
     
    We had a very nice, vanilla date and I guess he would, in today’s parlance, be best described as a short king. 
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    MscleLovr got a reaction from + sync in What's an adult problem nobody prepared you for?   
    This really resonated with me. Currently I have a friend in his 40s (expert corporate lawyer) being made redundant by a very profitable multinational. 
     
    This too resonated. I have a good friend in his mid-60s who doesn’t save and doesn’t realise how financially reckless he is. I’m very concerned for him but he rejects advice.
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    MscleLovr got a reaction from Whippoorwill in Intro to Aging, Sex, Loss of Arousal, etc   
    Bless you, @Charlie 
    As long as you have a strong and comprehensive memory, you can (like me) reflect on and enjoy again the wonderful times you had in the past.
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    MscleLovr got a reaction from soloyo215 in Intro to Aging, Sex, Loss of Arousal, etc   
    Bless you, @Charlie 
    As long as you have a strong and comprehensive memory, you can (like me) reflect on and enjoy again the wonderful times you had in the past.
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    MscleLovr got a reaction from + Just Sayin in Is hiring in Latin America actually cheaper?   
    Yes, there are lots of hourly hotels in Buenos Aires. Locally such hotels are known as ‘telos’.
    Several of them are located on a side street near the cemetery in Recoleta. Locals do use them. Access to them is easy and no-one blinks if you’re a gay couple rather than a heterosexual couple.
    Over the years, I’ve used several. The room sizes and amenities do vary - eg some have mirrored ceilings - but all were clean and had showers etc. I always paid in cash.
    I can’t comment on rates as I haven’t visited since pre-pandemic days. The fee is certainly much less than you’d pay in the US or Europe.
     
    Of course, it’s much easier to negotiate if you speak Spanish well. If you only speak English, be sure that you specify the currency: prices in Pesos are often shown as $ while prices in dollars may be shown as USD. I think it’s important to note that like other nationalities, Argentines enjoy being treated with respect and they dislike crass behaviour. 
    As I alluded to earlier in this thread, I have paid high fees in the past. I once had a ‘holiday romance’ with a local heart-throb. He was an actor, a very handsome man who I happened to speak to in the street, and we hit it off. He looked after me regularly for most of my month-long stay. My point is that tho his fee was high, the time it bought was far in excess of the time you’d get in the US or Europe. I still fondly recall a 4day weekend when I took him to the beach in Uruguay - he was a passionate and loving companion, and I had a great time - where I paid all our costs and afterwards asked him what he needed. He asked for US$300 and I gave him US$1000. 
     
    If you do a search, there’s lots of info here on Argentina. 
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    MscleLovr got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Intro to Aging, Sex, Loss of Arousal, etc   
    Bless you, @Charlie 
    As long as you have a strong and comprehensive memory, you can (like me) reflect on and enjoy again the wonderful times you had in the past.
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    MscleLovr got a reaction from + Charlie in Intro to Aging, Sex, Loss of Arousal, etc   
    Bless you, @Charlie 
    As long as you have a strong and comprehensive memory, you can (like me) reflect on and enjoy again the wonderful times you had in the past.
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    MscleLovr got a reaction from + sync in Intro to Aging, Sex, Loss of Arousal, etc   
    Bless you, @Charlie 
    As long as you have a strong and comprehensive memory, you can (like me) reflect on and enjoy again the wonderful times you had in the past.
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    MscleLovr got a reaction from + SidewaysDM in Intro to Aging, Sex, Loss of Arousal, etc   
    Bless you, @Charlie 
    As long as you have a strong and comprehensive memory, you can (like me) reflect on and enjoy again the wonderful times you had in the past.
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    MscleLovr reacted to + Charlie in Intro to Aging, Sex, Loss of Arousal, etc   
    When I was 22, I couldn't imagine a day when I wouldn't get a hard-on at the sight of an attractive male. At 52, I worried about whether an attractive male could get a hard-on at the sight of me, At 82, I had trouble remembering how to get a hard-on. 
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    MscleLovr reacted to Rod Hagen in Do most escorts wear condoms?   
    ....antibiotic resistant Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, syphilis, and Herpes 2 and warts anyone?
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    MscleLovr got a reaction from + Charlie in Advice-Fiancé is an Escort   
    I agree. It’s fundamentally a question of trust.
    I had a boyfriend who was a model; he had a superb physique and travelled regularly for work.
    Whenever anyone at our gym asked me if I ever worried or was jealous about him having sex with others when away from home, I used a variation on this theme as my response: “he always comes home to me and to sleep in our bed”.
    Put simply, people lie and/or dissemble.
    The boyfriend I mention above made all the running in our relationship. He told others I was his boyfriend and he told me he loved me. We were living together for over 12 months before I found out that, apart from the modelling work, he was an ultra-discreet escort.
    We had a painful and tearful discussion, and we persevered. 
    My advice to the OP would be to sit down and frankly discuss your concerns and fears. You should not assume anything. Ask about how you can safeguard your sexual health in future…and get fully tested now if you’re uncertain. Don’t be afraid to set boundaries (or ‘red lines’) if that’s what you want, eg no overnight dates with clients or certain events are sacrosanct and his presence with you is non-negotiable.
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    MscleLovr got a reaction from + SidewaysDM in Advice-Fiancé is an Escort   
    I agree. It’s fundamentally a question of trust.
    I had a boyfriend who was a model; he had a superb physique and travelled regularly for work.
    Whenever anyone at our gym asked me if I ever worried or was jealous about him having sex with others when away from home, I used a variation on this theme as my response: “he always comes home to me and to sleep in our bed”.
    Put simply, people lie and/or dissemble.
    The boyfriend I mention above made all the running in our relationship. He told others I was his boyfriend and he told me he loved me. We were living together for over 12 months before I found out that, apart from the modelling work, he was an ultra-discreet escort.
    We had a painful and tearful discussion, and we persevered. 
    My advice to the OP would be to sit down and frankly discuss your concerns and fears. You should not assume anything. Ask about how you can safeguard your sexual health in future…and get fully tested now if you’re uncertain. Don’t be afraid to set boundaries (or ‘red lines’) if that’s what you want, eg no overnight dates with clients or certain events are sacrosanct and his presence with you is non-negotiable.
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    MscleLovr got a reaction from Nue2thegame in Advice-Fiancé is an Escort   
    I agree. It’s fundamentally a question of trust.
    I had a boyfriend who was a model; he had a superb physique and travelled regularly for work.
    Whenever anyone at our gym asked me if I ever worried or was jealous about him having sex with others when away from home, I used a variation on this theme as my response: “he always comes home to me and to sleep in our bed”.
    Put simply, people lie and/or dissemble.
    The boyfriend I mention above made all the running in our relationship. He told others I was his boyfriend and he told me he loved me. We were living together for over 12 months before I found out that, apart from the modelling work, he was an ultra-discreet escort.
    We had a painful and tearful discussion, and we persevered. 
    My advice to the OP would be to sit down and frankly discuss your concerns and fears. You should not assume anything. Ask about how you can safeguard your sexual health in future…and get fully tested now if you’re uncertain. Don’t be afraid to set boundaries (or ‘red lines’) if that’s what you want, eg no overnight dates with clients or certain events are sacrosanct and his presence with you is non-negotiable.
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    MscleLovr reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in LexGordy   
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    MscleLovr reacted to wsc in A lawyer and a grieving relative walk into a courthouse...   
    I would think attacking a lawyer and causing serious injury thereto must be one of the dumbest acts possible. By the time the lawyer's lawyers are done grilling you on the stand to squeeze all the money possible out of you, you'll wish they'd just give you the chair.
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    MscleLovr got a reaction from SecretProvider in Still follow through after slight annoyance?   
    That would be an excellent extension to the offerings on Prime 😎
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    MscleLovr got a reaction from + Jamie21 in Still follow through after slight annoyance?   
    That would be an excellent extension to the offerings on Prime 😎
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