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Of the men mentioned earlier, I like Matt Bomer (met in person this Summer, surprisingly even better-looking in the flesh), Ryan Gosling and Ryan Reynolds (both exude charm), And I’m also partial to Jake Gyllenhaal. But I was shocked by Clive Owen (seen at a dinner party 2 years ago looking haggard and ugly, with terrible skin)

I was wrong @Deadlift1 someone can deny it! Anyway I enjoy the exchanges of opinions and views in this forum

Whatever one thinks of @Mocha’s thoughts and writings, no-one can deny that he provides a lot of entertaining stimulus to the forum

Not at all so @MidwestCoastal. I know many male (fashion and fitness) models for whom looks are everything. I can understand when you say you can’t “jack off to photos of hot guys” - goodlookers in the flesh are always better - but I’m with @down_to_business in that looks get me intrigued/interested at first, but then I need more of a connection to fall in lust and then in love.

The train journey between Barcelona and Sitges is quite rapid, and the trains run frequently. Just make sure that where you stay in the city is close to the station you will use. Google the exact info and timings you need. Barcelona is so popular year-round that it pays to book a place to stay ahead of time or use online sites to find a last-minute deal. The 1st week after the Summer holidays of August is a busy time for visitors. That said, if your prime reason for going is Bear Week, why wouldn’t you stay in the town of Sitges?

Dima is such a pretty boy!

(A)...disregard nice older men as they themselves age and go to more castings but get less work, at the same time as they get fewer gifts and fewer invitations to travel (B)...generally say Thank You or write thank-you notes when they receive expensive gifts or toys as they feel they “earned” them by having sex with an older man * *and Yes there is a touch of ‘sour grapes’ - the male model could not have been more obliging when performing before he received the new ‘toy’ he wanted so much, and he could not have been more disdainful afterwards

Perhaps I can help you @Gar1eth My guess is that the friend of [uSER=19303]@europeanman[/uSER] is 20 years old, stands 185cm (or just over 6ft) tall and weighs 60kilos (or 132lbs)

I think it’s highly inadvisable. One may work better for you than the other; certain individuals may have some side-effects. Certainly you’d want to avoid taking either drug in combination with alcohol or grapefruit juice. No-one can guarantee your erection. Foreplay is definitely recommended and very helpful.

Hot boy with clear pics in his ad. And he’s offering massage+HE for a very reasonable fee. I don’t understand why you’re hesitant @Rohit Why not have a date with him?

Back then, he was a beautiful boy. Now he’s a very well built man - alas with a beard - but still very gay-friendly.

Nor me. I always assumed the ‘morning after’ messages/“thank you” texts received after a date (saying ‘what a great time’ etc) were simply how nice, courteous guys pursued clients and ensured repeat business.

A lovely longhaired gymboy! I used to enjoy hunting those with a hot body and a compliant nature.

You’re so right @MichiganMan Apart from the usual dinner and drinks etc, the highest fee I ever paid was $1200 and that was for an overnight in 2007 with a very beautiful LA muscleboy, 22 with 4% body fat. He was a good kisser, an OK cocksucker but initially a reluctant bottom...but when loosened up, he was wild in bed. The least I paid for an overnight was $500 and that was to an Italian muscle-bottom, 32 with a ripped and totally symmetrical physique. He was ‘sex on legs’ as they say: a dedicated cocksucker and a greedy bottom; he loved to please a man and he was very happy to perform for me when I arranged groups. Perhaps needless to add but I saw him frequently for 5 years and he never asked for more than his fee.

Yes @JoshLondon I feel you’re right. It was a “golden age” with many handsome men aged 21-32 from lots of different countries working in London. I have intimate memories of many - 4 gentle and masculine Slovak bottoms, - 4 sexually versatile and athletic Italian young men, - 2 blond English muscleboy-bottoms, - 4 Brazilian fitness models/muscleboys - 3 fit muscled Spanish guys - 2 eager Greek cocksuckers to completion - 2 visiting Americans who were enthusiastic rimmers - 3 Australians who were wild in bed And it seems to me that in those years it was easy to find eager young men with handsome faces and defined, muscled physiques who were happy to please with very few restrictions.

Who wouldn’t be? ;-) The pics show a very handsome, fit-bodied man

Thanks for responding @JoshLondon. I hadn’t seen Marco in years but he seemed to have kept his looks. I played better with Thomas Olivier - any idea what happened to him?

Very accurate observation @manTOman Much as I understand your frustrations and frequent complaints about your business @Mocha, this seems to suggest a lack of organisation on your part. I’m surprised the Client is still waiting...

He’s a lovely guy...even better-looking in the flesh. I played with him a few years back. Thanks @marylander1940 for bringing back good memories.

You have good taste @Quincy_7 I agree with @liubit on Aidan/BelAmi tho Norieta ain’t bad

Interesting thread @Monarchy79 I’m a dominant selfish top so a massage session where I’m fully served is immensely satisfying. I can see that such massages would indeed spoil me for encounters with others, if I didn’t have a nice steady boyfriend who really enjoys pleasing me. Also I share your experience of the dating pool. I’m not surprised that you’ve found many encounters left you “disappointed And irritated.“ When I was single, I wasted a lot of time and energy dating various men - quite a few were time-wasters, flaky, self-absorbed or simply not good in bed. And I appreciate your observation that a man can be “overly submissive and pleasing”. 10 years ago, I had a first date I’ve never forgotten with a handsome young architect who had a good body. After a drink at home, and before we went to dinner, he asked to suck me off to completion: I was clothed and standing over him; he was at my feet, naked with my cum streaking his face; he said he’d clean himself up but added that after dinner he “wanted to be used fully” and I could do whatever I wanted to him - it was a total turn-off; he ceased to be alluring to me.

It’s slightly off-topic but to answer your point @tassojunior: I had used my AmEx to buy the guy a fully refundable ticket and the airline (Qantas) would only refund him; prior to this, I’ve had other airlines in the US and Europe refund me (when others cannot travel) as I had purchased the ticket.

It’s not clear to me @InterestingGuy how long this contemplated hire is for. But if it’s at least an overnight - with flights and a hotel room, you’re going to spend quite a lot of money - I have 3 thoughts for you. 1. Why not visit him in his city? Assuming he’s located in an interesting city, if he should be flaky, you would still have an enjoyable time exploring a new place. 2. Why not get him more invested in the trip? If this should be a weekend hire, ask him what he’d like to do (outside the bedroom) or if there’s a place he’d like to see; if an overnight, ask him what sort of food he’d prefer for dinner. 3. I agree with others about the flights - use points if you can or buy a fully flexible ticket. I was burned once by a previously reliable escort and the airline would only refund him, the named passenger - something I’d not encountered before or since.

Why wait? Life is short...and regular sex is good for your health ;-)

I know I’m picky but he’d have to pay me to top him.