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I don’t know him but “your” blond has a distinctive tattoo so you might be able to find him using an image search

Interesting thread. These two comments resonated with me. I have very similar experiences with family members just wanting money (and in one case, trying to cheat me out of some family assets). At present, after a few small bequests, my estate goes to various charities. I guess a lot of us may have few close family members and/or few close friends to include as beneficiaries. I must get around to updating my will, but it’s a difficult decision. I have my boyfriend of 5 years, and 3 close friends whom I see weekly - 1 friend is older than me, but also rich and very frugal in his habits; 1 friend is my age but she too is rich (with an obnoxious/hostile husband); and the 3rd friend is 12 years younger with a good career etc but he’s the most financially reckless person I’ve ever known.

It’s not good to be in wet clothes. For his good health, he must be stripped naked immediately.

IME escorts generally use a “working name” to avoid the attention of the tax authorities as well as avoid complications with clients. As well, of course, for the reasons spelt out by @FTM Zachary Prince and @hypothetically. When I hired, I always used my real name but I left it to the escort to decide whether or when to tell me his. Once trust was established, they usually did. And to answer the rather dismissive post by @Unicorn, Yes. I know of 1 escort who was stalked by an obsessed client and of another escort who had his daytime job threatened by a bitter ex-client. And I know of at least 2 clients who were threatened by a bitter, now retired, escort.

You’re entirely right [uSER=19303]@europeanman[/uSER] The scammer is using the pics of James Yates, a handsome English model I’ve met socially in Europe.

One man with whom I had an arrangement for 3 years - 500+ times Second man with whom I had an arrangement for 4 years - 400+ times Current boyfriend for 5 years so far - 500+ times I value the emotional connection that comes from intimacy and repeated bonding. And I prize loyalty in companions and friends. I’ve noticed that in the first year of a relationship we tend to have sex 4-8x a week, but that tails off to 2-3x a week over time. Age and familiarity, I guess. When I hired regularly in the period 2000-2010: escort #1 - 200+ times; escort #2 - estimate 100 times; escort #3 - estimate 40-50 times; varied men 4-6 times. When I found an escort I liked, we’d have a date first and if that went well, I’d organise an overnight. If the stay overnight was terrific, I’d invite the guy on a weekend trip. And if the weekend went well, I’d invite the guy on a longer vacation.

Good post @adventurous old guy FWIW I feel you have made a wise decision. MP may be great but $500 an hour is a very demanding price. It doesn’t allow for anything less than a superlative session, and we’ve all known guys where the chemistry was missing. As an aside, I was amused by the “$950 for 2” hours. That’s not a discount; it’s a rounding error. Anyone who had a magnificent time for 2 hours is going to add the implied tip of $50.

That’s commendably honest of you @Rudynate

I may be cynical but these guys only “start a great orgy” when the video-cameras are running and you’ve paid their OnlyFans accounts’ fees.

Thanknyou @edjames and @WilliamM for putting the reviews on here. I enjoyed reading them. They made me think about the play again. I still find the play hugely ambitious and by-and-large successful.

I’m open but this approach, however, strikes me as tacky. I’ve no problem giving info where I can be helpful, but I feel it’s best done privately.

So true @Pensant. I understand the idea of tipping a service-provider who earns a lowly wage or an employee who gives exceptional service. What I’ve never understood is why Americans tip an escort; he is an independent businessman, ie the ’business owner’ and sets his own rates at what he thinks the market will bear.

That particular forum @Unicorn mentioned is restricted to members only to prevent people finding it casually and being offended. You can however see the rest of the website, and there are some interesting threads. It’s easy to become a member at no cost.

I know a man who worked there. He told me the owners/managers of the place were extremely careful to ensure they operated lawfully. For instance, if they saw someone with drugs, they ALWAYS called the Police who promptly came and arrested the individual. I think it’d be much easier (if a masseur was of particular interest to you) to hire the man discreetly and directly for some off-the-premises action.

I didn’t know about that. He certainly plays well for a jock with a big stick

I agree @Trebor. Cole is a very handsome young man: the combo of his long hair and that torso is very alluring.

Well, @Unicorn the house has been foreclosed so the lender may at some time lower the price. Clearly their strategy so far is to wait for prices to rise. I know the area a little. I hope you are aware that the traffic in Benedict Canyon can be terrible.

That must make it impossible for you @NYMassageAddict. You have to find an erotic masseur with exceptional psychic abilities.

Interesting thread. My type has always been an athletic preppy guy or a fit muscleboy. CL was a great resource for such young men ‘testing the waters’. Back when I hired, there were many working guys who were my type. And CL provided the novices and those wanting discretion. Nowadays, there are very few who are my type. Like @Epigonos I've no interest in twinks or tattooed guys or men with facial hair.

You know it’s no longer a secret, right? And with respect @NYMassageAddict, an erection should spring out. An erection should never “flop out”. All that said, I wonder if this would enable your fantasy: wear your underwear (maybe tight briefs?); as the masseur starts, tell him you‘ve only ever been treated by women but you’ve always dreamed of being massaged by a man; add that you don't want your briefs/underwear to restrict him; tell him you want full service and he can take off your briefs etc whenever he wants Good Luck, and please report back when you succeed.

Why not buy a house in Beverly Hills now @Unicorn? It can be a project to occupy you now you’re single. And a nice, large house in Beverly Hills is likely to retain, or even increase, its value in the interim.

I accept what you say @Unicorn. This is idle curiosity on my part, but it’s not been clear from what you’ve posted: how long did the young man live with you before you proposed marriage to him?

I agree with you @WlliamM That’s quite a back-handed compliment! Young men do foolish things. And older men do foolish things too. Why are you still in contact with him @Unicorn? Don’t you have a close friend to confide in? I’m sure s/he would tell you to cut the young man out of your life at once. Why are you being so nice to him and storing his possessions? I hope you’re not harbouring some fantasy about getting back together with him

That’s interesting. When we saw it in London, the audience was very diverse; I was one of the few of a “certain age” (aka old men) and my guess is that no more than 20-25% of the theatregoers were gay. I wonder if this is due to the relatively high cost of theatre tickets in Manhattan.

That’s interesting. When we saw it in London, the audience was very diverse; I was one of the few of a “certain age” (aka old men) and my guess is that no more than 20-25% of the theatregoers were gay. I wonder if this is due to the relatively high cost of theatre tickets in Manhattan.