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I find most public apologies, especially for historic transgressions, to be insincere. Just as individuals going into rehab seems to be a part of public redemption, insincerity seems to me to be the hallmark of many statements. I don’t care whether they are film stars seeking treatment for addiction, or greedy lawyers charged with misappropriation of funds, or Meghan Markle complaining of not being accorded the status and public funding she demanded - I find all these individuals tedious.

True @sjmuktop But (as you will know) so that others are not misled: various related activities remain illegal in the UK (eg soliciting, kerb crawling, pimping, trafficking, running a brothel etc)

Some years back, I dated a 24 year old in Manhattan. We went to bed on our first date. He was gainfully employed and extremely physically attractive. And on our third date, he told me he’d hired escorts in the year before we met. When I expressed surprise that he would do that, his response was Why not? If I’m hungry, I order food in. I was horny - I didn’t want to spend hours trying to meet someone - so I hired a guy to do what I wanted.

I certainly dislike seeing a man with painted nails, especially if the nails are long. I find it odd. I much prefer to see a man with carefully tended nails that are clipped short.

Bearing in mind how much an individual interaction with a guy can vary, it bemuses me that when there’s no info on a thread, so often people give it a ‘bump’. Surely it’s simpler just to hire the guy. Either he appeals to you or he doesn’t. I intend no disrespect to other posters here, but like the similar threads on rates, it’s ultimately an unproductive discussion.

Muscle, especially gay muscle, has been a rare commodity in San Francisco for years @Sedtruik. When I lived in SF, I often flew in a hot young man from LA for an overnight date…and if we got on well, later for a weekend. I found that muscleboys in LA, WeHo and San Diego were keen to spend some time in SF.

Why so skeptical @Fcfs? I find it quite charming that @7829V has been able to find his soulmate on Grindr. My only concern is whether the young man will refuse to move out now that he is accustomed to @7829V exercising his ‘droit de seigneur’ on a regular basis.

Some possible good news for would-be travelers to (and from) Australia. I had a email from Qantas on Monday stating that they hope to resume flights mid-December 2021 between Australia and Singapore, Japan, the US, the UK and Canada. Further routes are planned up to mid-April 2022. As is to be expected, Qantas says this will be dependent on Government decisions in the months ahead.

Short answer @PinkyPie: extremely pleasurable. But I’m a lazy, selfish top with a dominant streak. So I enjoy muscleboys who like to please and have a submissive streak. For me, it was about kissing and cuddling one muscleboy while having my cock sucked by the other muscleboy. Then I’d enjoy topping each of them in turn. I always got more pleasure from a 3some than a 4gy or small group. Generally speaking, 3somes are easy to arrange while groups take a lot more time and trouble to organise.

….or if you’re a movie star, like Nicole Kidman 🤨

I can’t help with current recommendations @silvdilfbttm but I’ve done this in the past. I found the easiest way to approach this was to date one muscleboy and then ask him about his friends. Even if he is discreet and doesn’t want his friends to know, he may well have gym-buddies he can ask. If you’re bold, you and he can go out on a date and maybe pick up another guy at a bar. I did this a couple of times. It worked because being an older in-shape man with a hot young muscleboy excited some comment and attention, even in a mixed bar. When asked if we were a couple, I was direct and said Yes but we’re looking for a 3rd guy. You never know who may be interested in a 3some until you ask. My general advice would be twofold: 1. It’s best to have a date with the second muscleboy (just you and him) before you have a 3some. This will ensure you’re compatible. 2. Be very clear about what you like to do and enjoy having done to you. I never met a muscleboy who was a mind-reader.

I had to Google this to remember the 3 people who died. In case others can’t recall: https://edition.cnn.com/2020/07/13/entertainment/glee-cast-deaths/index.html

Thanks for responding at length @mike carey. For some time, I’d thought that pursuing a “zero COVID” policy would not work, even in countries as distant as Australia and New Zealand. My impression from various friends in NSW and VIC is that many people do not view Covid as a serious matter. I guess this will mean that you’ll have to not only rollout mass vaccination but also to change the mindset of many people. I wonder if Australians will accept that ‘herd immunity’ may never be achieved. With dismay, I’ve seen on the TV News the protests in Sydney and Melbourne. My annual trips to Australia now seem a distant memory…

No hijacking was intended @Lucky. It was just an aside as I wonder what Australians think about when they may be able to travel to Palm Springs (and other places for that matter).

@snogaholic I always assumed that escort profiles and ads were simply marketing material. That’s why before any meeting with any man, I’d ensure that pics were accurate as well as spell out my interests exactly. Time spent on research and confirming details meant I had very few disappointing dates.

Well, Pavel is a beauty IMO. And he’s both compliant and in prime physical condition, so I’m not surprised. If I were single, I’d hire him in a heartbeat.

Serious question @mike carey: what’s your considered view on when Australia might reopen its borders and permit foreign travel?

This is troubling news @glutes It may mean that Nick Sandell will have to start wearing clothes again… And how will all those other guys who are ‘famous for being muscled and almost-naked’ find employment?

Gosh, how will all those ‘str8’ muscled young men earn a living in the future if they can’t pose naked to tease and excite gay men to send them $$$?

I think @Merboy that you’re looking back with rose-tinted spectacles at the past. I recall NYC in the mid-70s when street crime and muggings occurred often. I too recall Boston’s South End in the mid-80s when violent crime was rife - I annoyed a gay friend who’d just moved into the area by pointing out all the chalk outlines of bodies as we went for a walk one morning (I genuinely had thought it was the work of a pavement artist). San Francisco was an unusual city then as it was characterized by a high level of random violence even in good areas. Yes, living in all three cities was thrilling and exciting then. There was gay life and lots to do. Of course, I was younger then and I went out almost every night. Strangely I do not recall these cities being inexpensive then: property values and restaurant prices were always high.

Forgive my ignorance but approximately how many people use that crossing on any given weekday?

I’m not so sure @Cure69 You may meet a nice well-formed cock that you want to love, honour and obey on a long term basis 😎

Be direct @Cure69 Keep perfecting your blowjob-skills - lots of men appreciate a dedicated and enthusiastic cocksucker.

Surely Reno Gold is “yesterday’s news” by now? There are lots of attractive young men out there…

Surely you’d allow that little patch of facial hair growth below the middle of the bottom lip? It was quite popular for a while years ago. And when a young man with a patch rimmed me, he sent me into ecstasy and I understood why it was a great idea.