peter831

Do you mean escort or urologist?
 
Kevin Slater

Just met him and looks like his pics and very nice guy

You're preaching to the choir here. But it's safer for RM to be coy rather than run afoul of certain laws in the US. I don't believe the rules were written for the two consenting adults where no one is being coerced, but here we are. You do have to exercise a bit of nudge-nudge-wink-wink here and on RM.

I think it's based on the laws of the country you are viewing the rent men pages. Written reviews may spell out details. You'll also notice words like escort are usually changed to *** on the site.

Anyone have any experience with this hottie??
 
https://rentmen.eu/BostonBoy_TJ/

Did you give an escort a bad review and let it be visible on your profile?

You have to try and see it from their viewpoint. The guys get dozens of messages a day and try to set up their schedule in between seeing clients. They are not secretaries and if anything are really bad at secretarial skills. And you'd be amazed at how many people intentionally try to waste time and never book. They're just after free online contact with a hot guy and it becomes a tedious game of spotting them.
 
A "normal" routine would be a guy finishes a 5pm incall at 5:20 and has to groom for a 6:30pm incall and hops on the phone for messages to arrange future dates and tries to get to as many of the 20 messages as possible but one or two of the first 10 want to get into detail about some fetish or see pics or talk about sex for as long as they can keep you online. You have to be rude to discourage them from wasting your time again and this rudeness may carry over into other texts with unknown clients. It's their livi hood and they have to be efficient as possible. 90% of what they want to know is what time do you want a slot and incall or outcall. The rest is details and there may be a dealbreaker. The ones they appreciate are those who say " I'd like an outcall at 7pm today at xxxx address." I'm a top (or bottom). Who pays the Uber, smoking or not, kissing, etc are all details they work out (or very rarely don't).
 
They're not looking for online romance or pen pals.And they have a lot of other texts to try and answer and that's why they may seem curt.

Well @Rick M I can perhaps add that when I have had the need to reach out to a traveling companion, I tend to wait until they are actually in my city and then wait for the last two days or so of their trip. It helps me avoid those that indicate a location to test the waters but never actually travel to my location and they also try to squeeze in as many people as they can in the first few days of their visit, so the experience is never what I hope for. Traveling companions tend to be more accommodating as their trip comes to an end, at least that is my experience...

Any escort you met before and YOU had a great time with him is an escort worth having for a weekend.

Definitely! Daniel is my ultimate for SC! Travis for CF ?

Gay hotels are dying for the same reasons that gay neighborhoods are disappearing. We're blending in.
 
As JEC said earlier, 99% of 'gay' hotels charge you more for less.

Yes, unfortunately those are the guys i do not see....their loss.

My father used to tell me to only lend the amount that I was willing to lose.

@Realalist I wasn't going to comment, but I can only echo what @Epigonos said. You are entitled not to tell a potential hire anything about yourself, but if you don't you'll be on tenterhooks wondering if they'll turn you away. Many will say any age, race or body shape, but unless you've told them about yourself, you'll still harbour thoughts that it might have just been their advertising pitch. I now make a point of telling guys I want to hire how old I am, and also that I live in a small town so if I'm going to meet it won't be 'now' but when I'm in their city. Most responses are positive on both counts. I realise it's easy for me to say this and harder for you to accept it, and I had similar reservations. But in my trips to the US I have hired some incredible men whom I would have thought would turn their noses up at me. They didn't.

Daddy hasn’t had enough reviews to publish lately. How unfortunate! The reviews are a great resource. I encourage all to submit reviews and to also encourage escorts to mention Daddy’s Reviews to their clients. Some may not wish to do so, but many (escorts and clients) don’t know anything about Daddy’s Reviews. Escorts I have mentioned it to have been grateful for the info and, in most cases, for the review.

Your warning means nothing if you don’t tell which guys this is.

Correct, you need to see if they have the “house” icon showing they live in San Diego vs. suitcase icon “near travel to” San Diego. The travel guys on RM San Diego outnumber the San Diego home based by a considerable margin.

I’d say thumbs down on San Diego being a hot spot on its own. Although you could position yourself in Orange County and draw from San Diego, the OC, and WeHo/LA.
 
Not sure your sub $300/hour will be easy to find, but that's doable.

This has been going on for a while. Did it take you to the screen where you pick between .com and .eu?

I do hope the pimp is getting his cut from this cyclical advertising

!!!AMEN!!! I always stand amazed that "clients" do not comprehend the how and the why and the wheretofor of the thing. . .escorting is a business, not a social relationship. "I love you, daddy" is no more than a line to be delivered in following the script. . .

Actually, I think a major part of your problem is with the escort you hired for the overnights. Part of his job is to please YOU and make you feel like you were enough for him sexually. If you had sex with him and you finished (or not), he should not be like "hey can I have some twinks over so I can get off again?"
 
He needs to do that shit on his own time at his own house.

Escorts are not your friends. The sooner you realize that, the better.
 
Without revealing too much about myself, I often get asked by escorts if I’m an escort myself. I STILL dont see their compliments as friendship.
 
It’s a business relationship. Give me the dick. Give me the ass. And get out.

Hope you feel better. Things like this have happened to most people and we all bounce back. Personally I have learned to think of escorts/masseurs as business arrangements, not friends.