Rod Hagen

Justin Taylor? I don't remember him. Was it Justin Baylor, the really fun guy out here in LA?

Can't wait to read that, I love Colm Toibin. https://www.nytimes.com/2021/08/31/books/review-magician-colm-toibin.html https://www.nytimes.com/2021/09/07/books/review/colm-toibin-magician.html How is it so far?

A client/friend I've known for over 20 years is nearly 94; long ago I think he saw this website, but never posted.

There are some young non-effeminate alternative types on whom painted nails suit them well.

Love that book. Movies and songs that vortex (bad verb, sorry) here and there and/or loop back to the beginning, more of that please. The Cure song Disintegration, is a great example of that phenomenon, as are several Godspeed You Black Emperor songs. So is the play, Copenhagen.

Actually, now I think it might be this movie, https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0117662/ or this one: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0116714/ It could also be Twist https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0339827/ I remember the scene very clearly. I'm just not sure what movie it was. I thought it might be Hustler White, but I have that one at home, I scrolled through it twice and couldn't find it. My money is on Skin & Bone.

Maybe It's this movie, Circuit: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0218107/?ref_=fn_al_tt_1 I loved it at the time, haven't seen it since. DevonSF wrote a great appreciation of it on this forum when it came out in defense of it. You can buy the whole movie on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/amzn1.dv.gti.44a9f7af-0a68-7560-ff96-8955a113d0e8?ref_=imdbref_tt_wbr_pvt_aiv&tag=imdbtag_tt_wbr_pvt_aiv-20 The scene starts at 8:59 if you let it run on autoplay the scene will continue in the next film in the playlist:

I do those maneuvers all the time. I Loved the client's reaction when the therapist moved the client's leg a bit while holding his elbow at the pressure point; that laugh we all make when something hurts so good. Adorable. :-)

This is the toy, or one of the toys by this company https://www.amazon.com/Masturbator-Masturbators-Masturbation-Fondlove-Stimulation/dp/B087M4QGH5/ref=sr_1_4?c=ts&dchild=1&keywords=Male+Masturbators&qid=1630344561&refinements=p_89%3AFondlove&s=hpc&sr=1-4&ts_id=11441820011

In and out of the gym I wore shorts like these up until my mid-30s. Looked like a total slut :-)

Advertising on men for men sites from age 26 to 35, I received 10+ calls from women; none after about 35 years old.

I've met men who identify as straight and are 100% bottom, some of whom enjoy strap-on play with women, and view their assholes and rectums as epithelial tissue available for physical pleasure. Straight men DEEP French Kissing with other men, that's hard for me to wrap my head around.

God Love him :-)

And yet, imagine a review-website wading into those shark-infested waters, nowadays.

You can find out through reviews and such if what the escort likes is what you like. Then, when you message him, tell him what you are interested in; he'll say, "me too!" or "not me!" or say nothing, and by then you've done all the pre-arranging you can do. Then when you meet, assuming you've chosen an experienced escort and made it clear you're inexperience, he'll take the lead. Good luck, Have fun!

Those two photos are amazing. AMAZING.

Very true. If the masseur is not advertising as an erotic masseur, and something enjoyably erotic happened during your session, you should not relate it, he could lose his license.

That Simpsons episode has one of my FAVORITE interactions. You'd never ever get away with this in an episode now. https://comb.io/98tEzI

Re: Kristian, sorry, you asked why and I didn't answer. Kristian is genuine, passionate, and loving, that's why.

Pushing back on the kissing question, mutual touch is a reasonable checkbox in an erotic massage questionnaire. Kissing is an escort thing. You, easygoingpal, may have had lots of luck seducing masseurs into it :-) and that's great, but masseur kissing is not a common expectation; it would fall in the category of an over-expectation.

Folegandros/ isn't gay, but it's my favorite Greek Island. LOVE IT. https://www.greeka.com/cyclades/folegandros/

Love that movie

Kristian Elix, absolutely.

If they are window shopping, I'll definitely leave them alone. if they ask for private photos, I'll tell them the photos should now be unlocked and also I'll flirt briefly and provide email and text information.

This really is a generational thing :-) 20 years ago the West Hollywood Athletic Club went bankrupt and closed, the gym had no female members. It was wonderful for many reasons. I can remember in my Gay infancy in the late 90s large complaints about how women were infiltrating gay bars, specifically The Gay '90s in Minneapolis, but presumably elsewhere, with their friends to fawn over the hot male strippers. Someone very close to me who is in his 80s now looks back at his gay life and the gay events and organizations he belonged to and has ruled that, generally, women move in and ruin things. So, it's both a different history and, in the case of people like my friend, a different attitude based, reasonably or not, on individual, non-millenial and non-zillenial, therefore ancient, experiences.