Rod Hagen

Fast and furious is the only way I can give up the ghost, and even then, as those who know me, it's a long journey. Taking it slow, no go. I look at envy at guys who can come easily, it's never been that way for me.

My Tumblr app is getting jealous of my TikTok. To address the original concern, you have to make TikTok conform to you, don't try to do the opposite. If I followed what was popular on TT, I would have stopped using it pretty quickly. But, with a little help from me (by help I mean hitting like at the right times) TT has learned that I love Snowboarding Videos, Rock climbing videos, all wildlife videos, exotic destination videos, etc. And, that's basically all it shows me now. If you like opera, or videos of people getting hit in the nuts, search for those, "like" them, "favorite" them, "follow" them, and you will quickly, very quickly, have the TikTok that's right for you. But as far as what's "trending" on TikTok? It's 90% young people self-absorbed crap. So, you're not wrong @Reisr30. And believe me, I'm right there with you. 95% of the time, I don't get "Memes". All I get is annoyed that what we now call memes aren't memes at all.

I often do an hour of each, massage followed by escort. But often times they are separated. I started escorting back in '99 and incorporated massage around 2005. Yes, I would have to say that it was to cast a wider net.

I totally agree with you. Drug-resistant Chlamydia, Gonorrhea and Syphilis don't get near as much press as they did 10 years ago. Herpes and Warts would also suck.

Ok, I've watched this video fifteen times tonight. Why have you done this to me, given me something so beautiful it's going to haunt me for days. Whenever I find something this beautiful I have a hard time getting any sleep, because it will not leave my thoughts. Still, I can't be mad at you. Damn you. I like him in many movies like Lady Macbeth (I haven't seen Peaky Blinders), but I must admit, I didn't know he was a musician. I'm really bad with pop culture. "I hope they didn't tie up, your hands as tight as mine." WOW. Anyway, this is fucking great. I guess it's happy? Definitely moved my heart. Thank you for posting it. Otherwise, I would have never known of it. p.s. Here's the extended version, also great: Now I have to go listen for the sixteenth time.

And if a masseur is both serious and enamored of the extras?

But let me also say this, escorts do not have a forum of their own to complain and vent. Complaining and venting, and even exaggerating those complaints, is a healthy thing and unfortunately, when they do it here they are doing it in a place where it can come back to bite them in the ass. If you then ask, "well then, asshole, why don't you all make an escort-only forum?" I would respond, "do your research. It's been done, and it did NOT go well."

What a great video. Thank you for posting it.

Goddam is he a brilliant actor.

Good on your for mentioning Jake Walker. I think much of the shit he got on this forum in the more recent years was unfair. He escorted in a time before Steve Kessler and Dane Scott and now myself (in 2.5 years) made it "ok" to be an escort in your 50s, much less your 40s. Most, of the criticism thrown at him in the later years was about his age. Now, just a few years later, that's not something that is "ok" to pile on about an escort about. At least not publicly, you can still hate us old fart escorts privately People forgot, most likely chose to forget, that Jake Walker was one of the original good guy, globe-trotting, escorts of the '90s and 00s, that he treated clients well, and was smarter, way smarter, than pretty much anyone else, which in and of itself is sexy as hell. And Vincezo. Man, one of my life's biggest sexual regrets was bowing out on a threesome with him and a client/friend of mine because Vincenzo was so beautiful I just felt too intimidated. IDIOT!!!! Damn. Always do, never "don't do".

I didn't make the list. It's ok, I'm used to it (no, I'm not. I'll never be used to it. Some advise, don't become an escort if you crave (online) adulation, you'll be frustrated every time you log on.)

I have 21.5 years of escorting under my belt (ha ha), so I know whereof I speak: I can count on one hand with one or two fingers left over, which can be useful , the number of bad clients I’ve been with. And, in those few cases, “bad” is minor, for example one guy was hungover and kept leaving the massage table for the toilet to puke. Not ideal, but not the end of the world. Some clarifications, sweat is not unhygienic. Sweat does not smell (google it). Sweat is something that happens to some people, it is not something they are doing on purpose. If you find sweat disgusting that’s you, it’s not an objective truth, and whoever it is who is sweating is not doing it purposely to offend you. Another clarification, the body odor that happens to some people in the hours between their daily showers is not objectively disgusting, it’s something that happens and it is not something they are doing to you, to hurt you. It’s unfortunate that the discussion about obese men and hygiene became so heated. In my sexual life, I’ve been intimate with more than a dozen men over 400 pounds. Maybe two dozen. 98% of these men were fully hygienic for the same reason men who are not severely obese keep themselves clean: they want to be. I will say that, although I have been blown away by the flexibility of some of my severely obese partners (legs over their shoulders when I’m fucking them ) it is usually harder for men living with severe obesity to move around. Add to that the knee injury, or what have you, and those men do the best job they can to clean up. I’ve found that older men in wheelchairs, or otherwise impaired significantly, are sometimes in a similar situation. Those men need to be approached by their sexual partners with compassion. Long way ‘round saying “bad” client does not mean obese client, and obese client does not mean unhygienic client. Ok, I'm done

Great photos. He's done an excellent job of putting on muscle while keeping his waist quite narrow; that is not easy. Good for him.

YUM!

As someone with an average sized dick, I'm very very glad to hear that

Drove down to Laguna recently to swim at my favorite spot below Montage and maybe have breakfast there afterward. No No No. I couldn't make it to the beach, much less the water, through the throngs of people not wearing masks. Got back in my car and drove home. The OC is NOT LA, I sometimes forget.

This is definitely not the kind of song I or my friends like. And so, when the video came out, I remember three separate friends throwing a fit when I made each one wait till the surprise ending of the video. And then each one was happy he waited. Stubborn Assholes.

I wonder if he's one of those religious gay guys who doubles down on religion for the rest of their sad lives. We will never know.

Hour one, Table. Hour Two (three, four...), Bed :-)

For many people an acknowledgment that they were wrong is nearly impossible. An apology is an admission of being at fault on top of being contrite, for those people it's just too much and all you can do is be grateful that your parents raised you to be capable of expressing humility and gratitude while you assess wether or not you did all that you could, with compassion, and use that knowledge the next time. Also, in instances of catastrophe that results from not taking medical or tax and financial advice, you are dealing with a lot of potential shame. When we feel shame, we often clam up. In fact, it's easy to feel a "fuck you" attitude toward the person who gave you the good advice you didn't take. It's not rational of course, but it happens.

That show dealt with some dark content. Drug addiction, death, guilt. People never gave it enough credit.

Me too. He's absolutely sexy. Goofy/sexy.

Ha. Funny :-) Honestly, Were I to give you a non-erotic massage and then you had a massage from my guy, I doubt you would be able to tell he's better than I am at massage therapy. The only reason I know he is is because I'm a masseur too, so I can detect the differences, small as they may be.

I'm an excellent escort and masseur, but I don't look like him. Jesus, he's got..whatdya call them? Cumgutters.

Oral without a condom is one of those things most of us, myself included, tell ourselves is ok but, given the prevalence of antibiotic resistant gonorrhea and chlamydia, certainly is not. And so the next best alternative is to get tested, regularly.