Rod Hagen

When I first started going to Delmonico's I would ask them for non-clarified butter, which I couldn't find anywhere else, and they would bring it. Then one day, I asked for it. The waiter brought back clarified butter. Now, I knew he didn't know what I was talking about. Nobody else seemed to either. I was never able to get it there again, and soon after it closed. Sad. Great place.

You are so fortunate; I miss swimming almost as much as sex.

Sorry to hear that, that's too bad. I remember Brock having good reviews. I might be wrong. To the original subject, I think maybe some of the stubbornness on the part of we (us?) escorts to agree to leave our urban bubbles might be anchored in an assumption that the client will eventually pass through our town and THEN we can make arrangements. In other words, if a client lives in Long Island and the escort lives in Manhattan, the escort can assume reasonably that at some time in the near future the client will be in or pass through Manhattan, and so at that time an affordable hour appointment can be made. Same goes for LA/Palm Springs or LA/San Diego. If an escort lives in LA and a client in Palm Springs reaches out to him, it's safe for the escort to assume that the client will most likely be in LA in the near future. Manhattan and LA have a gravitational pull. These are explanations, not excuses, and they may be on the subconscious level.

I've always enjoyed stretching, but have been resistant to yoga. Get over it. During Covid, I've been loving following along to multiple Vinyasa routines on Youtube, and they are fantastic. Hatha yoga I like as well, but so far I prefer the flow of Vinyasa.

Well....you can't like me THAT much if you live in or frequent SoCal and haven't hired me in 21 years. I am very glad you had such a great time with Brock. I heard great things If it was $250/hour then Brock's hourly rate is higher than mine, so it makes sense his 2-hour circle might have been larger. Additionally, driving from SD to PS is much less prone to multiple-hour traffic jams than LA to PS. I'm reasonably comfortable driving my car to OC or Upland. But I don't trust my car to Palm Springs or Bakersfield or Santa Barbara or Big Bear or Barstow, so in those instances I have to rent a (small) car which, with all the coverage, is costly, particularly at the last minute. Considering how much of a Mensch I've proven myself to be over the last couple decades, you shouldn't call me jaded. It's neither deserved nor fair.

I wonder if it's an east coast thing. While I'd never drive to Palm Springs or Santa Barbara for less than a 4 hour appointment, I've certainly driven to, say, Upland or OC for a two hour appointment. I presume the drive to orange county is about as long as the LIR to you.

Thank you :-) Actually, I haven't done overnights in a very very long time. Boyfriend put his foot down. Oh well. So since then I do my best to make an hour or two or three or four! feel like an overnight :-)

And if it STARTS on the table and ends in bed (or the shower)? :-)

Sorry, but in all business Professional-presentation is a good thing. We go to McDonalds looking for the Big Mac we saw in the commercial, not a snap shot.

I'm from the school that escort Photos have to be Professional photos, so I'll usually go two years w/o updating my photos. It's a combination of difficulty finding the photographers, cost, and just laziness. Believe me, laziness is definitely problematic.

ok, communication. But, also, standards and reasonable expectations too.

You are very welcome. I remember fondly the 2 hour fun you and I had. I am very sorry to hear that. I'm not surprised. Young people, never my favorite group, are intolerable to me now. I am sympathetic to those men compelled to be in their company. JJTech, I just clicked on your blog, haven't looked at if for some time. Your 9/13/2019 post, "So, What’s Changed In 20 Years?" is right on, the money, as it were. [MEDIA=tumblr]jawjateck.tumblr.com/post/187686337667[/MEDIA] P.S. whoever it was classifying my above post as "verbose", I got one finger for you. That concise enough?

If that's true that's unfortunate because I think to those other escorts who also have been doing this for awhile what I've listed out mirrors in spirit and much of the detail our modus operandi, be it a night or a week, not just now but also when we started out.

I think Boy Culture is an under-appreciated movie.

As far as the sleeping well...Well, it's difficult, because if you've just met you are both strangers. And even if you know each other, you don't live together. I have been on some overnights with clients who snore horribly. When I was doing overnights, I still had a full time job, and I needed quality sleep to get through a day of work after the overnight, so I learned quickly, to slip in the silicone earplugs just as we turn off the lights, and also take ambien or benadryl an hour or so before I estimate we will go to sleep. Now, personally, I'm able to take ambien or benadryl and not be in a coma, so waking up early, or even for some fun in the middle of the night, was not a problem for me. If these medications tend to really knock you out, maybe work on the dosage. You can break ambien into pieces, and liquid benadryl is very easy to control, dosage-wise. But when I didn't have to get up for work, I remember several overnights where we did stay up until 4 or 5 am fucking and talking and such. Once I flew to New York (not direct, I had to change planes). I'd never met him before. He picked me up at JFK at 5pm. We went straight to manhattan for dinner, then the hotel, then later we went to the Gaiety, then played till about 2am, then we called in another escort, he stayed till about 4:30 am, then we fell asleep about 5:30 am. Got up at 9, played a lot, went to that stupid shopping place on the pier in lower manhattan, then he took me straight to the airport and I flew home, again not direct. All of this was without drugs and was really fun. It was 21 years ago, we never met again, but we still email. I'd say, if both of you are able to go without much sleep, if the next day demands aren't too great, and it seems as if the client would enjoy staying up most of the night, go for it. You're young. You'll be fine. But, if you have demands on your time the next day, then yes, make the waking hours the best he's ever had, then put in the earplugs, take the liquid benadryl, ready the coffee for the next morning, and try to get as close to 7 hours sleep as possible. Just be sure that if the client wants to cuddle-sleep, you fucking cuddle-sleep. Escorts who want to sleep separate from their client are asking too much. If that's the case, you should not be doing overnights.

I really need to work on the bigger ones. I can suck average dicks like a pro. But when I get to one of the massive ones, it's almost as if I'm trying to prove something. I can get the big dicks all the way down usually, and I really enjoy it, but then gag and kinda feel twice shy after that. I will agree with many of the other posters, the '69 position is very helpful. Putting your head over the edge of a massage table works really fantastic. I don't know if you all remember Tom Insern, but his favorite thing by far was skull fucking, and he loved, if I remember right, coating his dick with olive oil for maximum slide potential.

Shelter was great. I love that it was San Pedro and not one of the more "traditional" surf spots.

Knock on the door, on time. Walk in. 1. meet and greet and kiss deep and fuck around. 2. Rest and talk and kiss and cuddle. 3. fuck around. Shower together. 4. dinner and convo 5. fuck around again then either Bath together or it's also fun to mess around in the empty hotel pool at night. then fuck around again. 6. Maybe another shower together. Get ready together, like a long term couple, for bed. 7. Cuddle tight and Sleep. 8. Fuck around in the middle of the night. 9. Cuddle Tight and Sleep. 10. Wake up blowjobs all around. 11. Coffee and cuddling in bed. 12. Morning fuck around. 13. Breakfast in the room, each with one hand on the other's bits 14. As much fucking around as you can handle post, burp, breakfast. 15. Shower together again. 16. Fish out the dicks from the pants for one more blowjob at the door. 17. Kiss his forehead, kiss his hand. Make out deep. Grab his hand and thank him for a wonderful night looking right at him. One more deep kiss. Leave the hotel room. Five minutes later, knock on the door because you forgot the money. Kiss again. Say goodbye. Now, that's an unplanned overnight.

Another reason why the reviews can be useful. If the majority of the reviews emphasize his kissing skills, you'll most likely be in good shape.

It's an exceptionally well-done website advertising a man with an exceptionally fuckable body.

When I was in my early 30s there were a few years I was giving discounts to those 24 and under for escort appointments, I wasn't yet doing massages. At that time I was still young enough to be like their older brother, so those guys who were curious/closeted felt compelled to reach out to me, having been "lured" by the discount. It was fun. There was one Beverly Hills guy I first saw when he was 18 and I'm still seeing him in his 30s.

Very sorry for your loss. Additionally, I'm very happy you three had that time together. These animal-children stay in our hearts for life.

This one! I don't mind talking with my mouth full if you don't.

Sure, but in the other 49 states it was "about" $200/hour in 1999 and in 2020 in the other 49 states it is still "about" $200/hour. About. Given how Manhattan, the undisputed fulcrum of the country if not the world, has become a giant East Coast Bel-Air, a $100/hour increase in 21 years is not at all bad. Also, currently, in New York, I would be surprised if you couldn't find some East-borough Potholes to fill for $250/hour. p.s. Not that it's important, but, for clarification, I referenced 4-hour appointment prices because earlier in the thread I had indicated that in 1999 and 2000 and 2001 AND 2002 four hours of work paid my monthly rent. And then, someone responded to that. Blah Blah. Anyway, that's why.

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