Rod Hagen

When you suggested in your earlier posts that the person who had the bad hire seek mental health counseling (basically that's what you were saying) you have to understand that it is very easy to infer you are suggesting it's his fault (entirely). Of course, that's not what you implied, or intended to imply, but it isn't an unreasonable inference. Additionally, when you suggest someone seek Mental health counseling, it's very easy for them to hear you're saying that there's something wrong with them. What I laid out in the earlier post, that you and folks like you are able to spin shit into gold, it's important to point out that that skill does not come easily. Most people are only able to turn a bad situation into good, or good enough, with the help of the kind of insight that almost only comes from Mental Health Counseling, and so if you had put things in terms of hoping that the original poster learn some life-long and life-altering skills from a professional it may have gone better, or at least you would have covered your ass.

Also, I have every collected issue of Straight To Hell. Here is an article about that magazine, it is for a very specific group of readers who are not at all easy to offend. If you are easy to offend, don't read them. https://nplusonemag.com/issue-25/reviews/straight-to-hell/

Friction is great. Also the five books of Flesh and The Word are fantastic, especially the first: https://www.amazon.com/Flesh-Word-Anthology-Erotic-Writing/dp/0452267757

I think it's simpler than that. He, and others, see our ads wherein we sport hardons. Those hardons are alluring. They book an appointment and spend the interim thinking and drooling :-) about those hardons. The day comes, Unfortunately, the hardon does not show up OR doesn't last as long as they hoped and dreamed And so, for them the session is poisoned. You, F. Lurker, see a whole person, and if in the rare instance one part of that person is shy on the day of the appointment, you do your best to find other things to enjoy about the experience. Maybe you do this because you are a compassionate person or because you prefer to protect your own psyche and keep a general good mood, which to some seems pollyannaish but it works for you. Clearly others see it as false advertising, the Big Mac in the package not looking at all like the Big Mac in the photo. It happens. It sucks.

Ha. You said that people are never robots and when on to say that if the parts ever don't work we should quit. I'm not taking medication for a medical problem I don't have just because you or someone else who measures the success of a session along just ONE thing, might come by on one of my very very rare human days, and I don't think other escorts should feel threatened into doing so either.

Years ago I was giving a massage to a client and we were talking about Minnesota, his current home. I said I lived in my own apartment in the best house on the best street in the best neighborhood in Minneapolis. He said he lived in his own apartment on the best street in the best neighborhood in Minneapolis. Turns out 15 years before we were living in the same house at the same time, and we knew each other. An adorable older couple owned and lived in the gorgeous giant multi-floor house. I rented the servants quarters, a beautiful studio apartment, in the back of the house and he rented the top floor. 23 years later I still think of that apartment at least once a week. I loved it. Anyway, we knew each other from another city long ago.

Definitely don't let this put off escorts ImAthrill. We can be a Thrill in many ways.

Oh, thank you AiraJee. Let me see if I can anything else out. Thank you

Wow, Former Lurker, I have to now go back and read some of your posts. It is interesting how some clients, not most, some will continue to make reference in follow up emails and texts as well as in person to how unattractive I must find them even though we have been together multiple sexy fun-filled times. When I see it I do my best to fix it, maybe you are right former Lurker, maybe I can't, or not always anyway.

Clapham Junction has some really good parts. This Homemade trailer is deceptive, the movie isn't JUST about a twink, there are three or for interlinked stories that mostly connect at the end. It's very good. Here is the full movie for free on Youtube:

I forgot about this movie, very good.

Nice call, Very good Movie.

Not an Important movie. But a very sweet fun Gay movie. Camp

I like My Dinner With Andre and all Louis Malle movies, especially Lacombe, Lucien and Murmur of the Heart. But that clip you posted from Waiting for Guffman (great movie) is hilarious.

Same Director as The Ornithologist and O Fantasma, Two Drifters is very good:

I mentioned this movie I love earlier in this thread, but didn't include a trailer. I love this movie!! O Fantasma

Being At Home With Claude is not very good, but I liked it. I'm partial to male prostitute movies for some reason.

Savage Nights is very good. The actress was only in one other movie that I know of.

Both good, both political, both slightly gay. Vidal's Best Man (gay blackmail) and Advise and Consent (there's a gay bar scene (the first one ever?))

Sorry if someone mentioned it before, but here's the trailer to Oliver Oliver is lightly gay and good.

Two years ago I posted links to two very good gay movies in their entirety. Unfortunately, both links are dead, so here are the trailers. I recommend both movies: This Special Friendship https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0057842/ For A Lost Soldier Careful, the for a Lost Soldier video has MAJOR spoilers, but any link I posted to either video had pictures of kids on the freeze fram which would get me kicked off the Message Center.

Billy Budd. Great book. Great movie, nice catch Old Blue. Any movie by André Téchiné is very good and almost always very gay. His most famous and best, Wild Reeds. A damn Good one about a young male French Prostitute: And his most recent one, also very good. Being 17 Sorry if some of these were already posted.

A couple years ago I did a bad thing during a Massage appointment. A young client I'd seen a couple times before asked at the end of the session if he could pay me via Venmo. I'd never heard of Venmo, and I asked if we could walk down to the ATM together instead (it's less than 1/2 block from my apartment). He's young, Gen Z, and like many ppl his age cash is poison to him. We did walk to the ATM, but he made his frustration with me clear, and he stopped seeing me. Rather than just shitting on young-people-tools I should have just signed up then and done it (though that would have taken an equal amount of time.) I see him around town. We wave. Of course now, as a person in the world, I have and use Venmo. Oops. Lost a client by not being responsive to his preference. Oops.

Very sorry to hear that Niko. I'm really impressed that you pushed through such a difficult session to continue escorting, a lot of guys would say "fuck this" and quit. In 21 years I've never had a violent encounter, you probably got the only one you'll ever have behind you!

As an Escort and Masseur I'm right there with you Storm. It's like being fired having done nothing wrong.