Rod Hagen

ok, communication. But, also, standards and reasonable expectations too.

You are very welcome. I remember fondly the 2 hour fun you and I had. I am very sorry to hear that. I'm not surprised. Young people, never my favorite group, are intolerable to me now. I am sympathetic to those men compelled to be in their company. JJTech, I just clicked on your blog, haven't looked at if for some time. Your 9/13/2019 post, "So, What’s Changed In 20 Years?" is right on, the money, as it were. [MEDIA=tumblr]jawjateck.tumblr.com/post/187686337667[/MEDIA] P.S. whoever it was classifying my above post as "verbose", I got one finger for you. That concise enough?

If that's true that's unfortunate because I think to those other escorts who also have been doing this for awhile what I've listed out mirrors in spirit and much of the detail our modus operandi, be it a night or a week, not just now but also when we started out.

I think Boy Culture is an under-appreciated movie.

As far as the sleeping well...Well, it's difficult, because if you've just met you are both strangers. And even if you know each other, you don't live together. I have been on some overnights with clients who snore horribly. When I was doing overnights, I still had a full time job, and I needed quality sleep to get through a day of work after the overnight, so I learned quickly, to slip in the silicone earplugs just as we turn off the lights, and also take ambien or benadryl an hour or so before I estimate we will go to sleep. Now, personally, I'm able to take ambien or benadryl and not be in a coma, so waking up early, or even for some fun in the middle of the night, was not a problem for me. If these medications tend to really knock you out, maybe work on the dosage. You can break ambien into pieces, and liquid benadryl is very easy to control, dosage-wise. But when I didn't have to get up for work, I remember several overnights where we did stay up until 4 or 5 am fucking and talking and such. Once I flew to New York (not direct, I had to change planes). I'd never met him before. He picked me up at JFK at 5pm. We went straight to manhattan for dinner, then the hotel, then later we went to the Gaiety, then played till about 2am, then we called in another escort, he stayed till about 4:30 am, then we fell asleep about 5:30 am. Got up at 9, played a lot, went to that stupid shopping place on the pier in lower manhattan, then he took me straight to the airport and I flew home, again not direct. All of this was without drugs and was really fun. It was 21 years ago, we never met again, but we still email. I'd say, if both of you are able to go without much sleep, if the next day demands aren't too great, and it seems as if the client would enjoy staying up most of the night, go for it. You're young. You'll be fine. But, if you have demands on your time the next day, then yes, make the waking hours the best he's ever had, then put in the earplugs, take the liquid benadryl, ready the coffee for the next morning, and try to get as close to 7 hours sleep as possible. Just be sure that if the client wants to cuddle-sleep, you fucking cuddle-sleep. Escorts who want to sleep separate from their client are asking too much. If that's the case, you should not be doing overnights.

I really need to work on the bigger ones. I can suck average dicks like a pro. But when I get to one of the massive ones, it's almost as if I'm trying to prove something. I can get the big dicks all the way down usually, and I really enjoy it, but then gag and kinda feel twice shy after that. I will agree with many of the other posters, the '69 position is very helpful. Putting your head over the edge of a massage table works really fantastic. I don't know if you all remember Tom Insern, but his favorite thing by far was skull fucking, and he loved, if I remember right, coating his dick with olive oil for maximum slide potential.

Shelter was great. I love that it was San Pedro and not one of the more "traditional" surf spots.

Knock on the door, on time. Walk in. 1. meet and greet and kiss deep and fuck around. 2. Rest and talk and kiss and cuddle. 3. fuck around. Shower together. 4. dinner and convo 5. fuck around again then either Bath together or it's also fun to mess around in the empty hotel pool at night. then fuck around again. 6. Maybe another shower together. Get ready together, like a long term couple, for bed. 7. Cuddle tight and Sleep. 8. Fuck around in the middle of the night. 9. Cuddle Tight and Sleep. 10. Wake up blowjobs all around. 11. Coffee and cuddling in bed. 12. Morning fuck around. 13. Breakfast in the room, each with one hand on the other's bits 14. As much fucking around as you can handle post, burp, breakfast. 15. Shower together again. 16. Fish out the dicks from the pants for one more blowjob at the door. 17. Kiss his forehead, kiss his hand. Make out deep. Grab his hand and thank him for a wonderful night looking right at him. One more deep kiss. Leave the hotel room. Five minutes later, knock on the door because you forgot the money. Kiss again. Say goodbye. Now, that's an unplanned overnight.

Another reason why the reviews can be useful. If the majority of the reviews emphasize his kissing skills, you'll most likely be in good shape.

It's an exceptionally well-done website advertising a man with an exceptionally fuckable body.

When I was in my early 30s there were a few years I was giving discounts to those 24 and under for escort appointments, I wasn't yet doing massages. At that time I was still young enough to be like their older brother, so those guys who were curious/closeted felt compelled to reach out to me, having been "lured" by the discount. It was fun. There was one Beverly Hills guy I first saw when he was 18 and I'm still seeing him in his 30s.

Very sorry for your loss. Additionally, I'm very happy you three had that time together. These animal-children stay in our hearts for life.

This one! I don't mind talking with my mouth full if you don't.

Sure, but in the other 49 states it was "about" $200/hour in 1999 and in 2020 in the other 49 states it is still "about" $200/hour. About. Given how Manhattan, the undisputed fulcrum of the country if not the world, has become a giant East Coast Bel-Air, a $100/hour increase in 21 years is not at all bad. Also, currently, in New York, I would be surprised if you couldn't find some East-borough Potholes to fill for $250/hour. p.s. Not that it's important, but, for clarification, I referenced 4-hour appointment prices because earlier in the thread I had indicated that in 1999 and 2000 and 2001 AND 2002 four hours of work paid my monthly rent. And then, someone responded to that. Blah Blah. Anyway, that's why.

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You can ask an escort to bring sheets; I've done that before for married guys etc. One example: A single, older, client of mine had a male attendant who was very homophobic. And, so, we would put a sheet I'd bring over his mad-up bed, because if the attendant, later in the day, saw that the bed was unmade before bedtime in my client's mind that would somehow alert the attendant to my client's homosexuality, and the attendant would quit. Now that I've typed that out, I see that my client was SLIGHTLY paranoid in later life.

Oh, I see, thank you. I often assume that, unlike escorts, everyone else's salary has increased in the last twenty years--an escort hour was $200/average 21 years ago and it's average $200/hour now. I have to stop doing that.

The ozone smell of cum is intoxicating. If the taste of cum is an acquired taste, I have yet to acquire it.

I would say that Banff/Lake Louise/Jasper is something everyone who loves beauty should see. And when it comes to beauty, don't let crowds turn you off. Yes, Yosemite attracts large crowds. It attracts large crowds because it's peerless.

Ooo, I love that word. Thank you for it.

Oh believe me it was much "worse" in the days of email where the same thing would sometimes happen, but the back and forth responses were in full, long, sentences. I have emails from potential clients 20 years ago that were pages long, and so were my responses, and the responses to those response, ad nauseam.

I'm sorry, I don't think I understand what you're saying. In 1999, $800 bought, on the whole/hole, 4 hours with an escort. In 2020, $800 is 4 hours with an escort, on the hole/whole. How is client money going less far these days?

I lost track of who mentioned it, but on the subject of escorts raising their hackles when clients just want to ask questions and clarify, I get it. It makes sense that you want to be on the same page before meeting. Think about this: In 1999, an escort (anyone), with decent hunting skills could land a studio in Chelsea for $900, a 1-bedroom in West Hollywood for $800, or a place in The Castro for about $900. Hourly escort rates then were the same as they are now, with the exception of 24-hour appointments which have only increased by a few hundred dollars. In those days, one 48 hour appointment would pay my rent for two months, my car payment, and my car insurance. Everything else the rest of the month was gravy. And so, if I received a long email (remember email?) from a potential client, my time was free and taking the time to respond in kind was no big deal. Escorts today can't pay their rent until they've had 13 hourly appointments. 13! When I was young, I could pay my rent with 4 appointments. And so the frustration of going back and forth in messenger may, subconsciously, arise out of a frustration with the work involved versus the payback. This doesn't mean your questions aren't reasonable, it also doesn't mean that we are living in 1999, 2000, 2001, 2002 or 2003 where escorts could earn a living wage and then spend the rest of the week snowboarding.

Oh I just thought of what we can call a bad client. Years ago I had an hour appointment at my place. Then at the end he takes out a checkbook. Of course I said, "No". He said, but my wallet is at the hotel, The Mondrian where I'd called him earlier. I asked him to just leave an envelope at the front desk for me. I called him that night and he said he had. Two days later a friend and I had Duck Tacos (I miss those) at Asia de Cuba, I went to the front desk afterward. Of course there was no envelope. This was so predictable and cliche, I just blew it off. But it does suggest that if I do give it more thought, I can come up with some bad ones. p.s. Of course the only phone number i Had for the guy was his number when he'd been staying at the hote.

So weird. I hear that this is a big problem, but Knock Wood, it hasn't been for me.