LJinSouthFlorida

Sadly I think this really is just part of the job. I’ve been flaked on too, and it’s disappointing and annoying but you take the loss and move on. If anything I’d consider whether or not I’d take another booking from that guy, or ask him for a deposit considering he flaked last time. About a month ago I was talking to a potential client, he could only do early mornings. I woke up at 5 am to get ready for a 6 am arrival. He had been super communicative and was interested in both this and some personal training the next day. He no showed and never text me again. If he suddenly hit me up now, I wouldn’t say no to the booking, but I’d require a deposit for sure.

So I basically had an arrangement like this for a few years, which is why I had stopped escorting for awhile. It worked well until it didn’t. Long story that has to do with the guy himself, but in the end things ended pretty badly. I wouldn’t do it again. It also never felt like a real romantic relationship and I existed in this weird realm where I wasn’t single but wasn’t emotionally attached to anyone, so it felt pretty lonely a lot of the time.

Question my fellow gentlemen of the night, When you’re looking at your RM statistics and “who viewed me,” and you notice someone looking at your profile multiple times, do you reach out to them if they haven’t reached out to you? Or so you only respond to people who reach out to you first? What’s your opinion on this?

First post here (though I posted here years ago!) I definitely prefer when a client schedules in advance so I can guarantee I’ll be able to make it happen. My favorite clients so far have done that. But I’ve also had many schedule something and then cancel/ghost when the scheduled time is to happen. The clients who want it the same day tend to actually follow through. It’s a sucky feeling when you have to say you’re not available and know it probably means you’re not going to end up seeing the person.