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I already destroyed mine...years ago....once the VCR went extinct I decided it was time. Same with the DVD's, I could find all of the ones I had bought already online. So I cleaned out the closet and got rid of it...but I'm crazy like that. I did same thing with my CD's as soon as I subscribed to Apple music.

I already destroyed mine...years ago....once the VCR went extinct I decided it was time. Same with the DVD's, I could find all of the ones I had bought already online. So I cleaned out the closet and got rid of it...but I'm crazy like that. I did same thing with my CD's as soon as I subscribed to Apple music.

I'll admit, I expect this type of massage every single time so when it doesn't happen I'm surprised. With that said, I don't push that type of situation in a legitimate spa, it's too risky and I'm not about to get thrown out for being a bad boy. I've had guys definitely let me know they are into the session, there are certain ways they do it, like caresses that are a "innocent" and "accidental" but pushing it any further will put their job at risk. If they do let me know they are interested I ask if they do work on the side.
 
When I meet up with them in another space, I have no issue taking the session down another avenue. I'm not saying I haven't had the thrill of doing something naughty in the next room or in a semi public area but I'd feel horrible if the guy got fired because we got caught.
 
With that said:
 
One time I got super excited during a session and at the end the masseur noticed and I told him I'd take care of it. He walks out of the room while I start taking care of business, he walks back in and immediately starts giving me head. After a few minutes he bends over and we go at it on the table. He kept his eyes on the door so we wouldn't get caught and yes, the idea of getting caught makes the sex even more fun. I busted my nut and it was amazing! Afterwards he told me he never does that type of thing with clients. I told him that I truly appreciated the massage and compensated him well.

There is a quote in the movie Waiting to Exhale where one of the characters says "when a man treats you well you can't go back to bullshit."
 
I went to a massage provider that I have been trying on a regular basis and today he took it to a whole different level. We did our customary greeting and he asked if there was anything specific that needed to be addressed. I told him "no" and we began.
 
The massage went to full on erotic from the start but it was done in a way that I had never experienced. He used his entire body to caress me and he did it in such a way that it caught me off guard. I got goosebumps and he then started working other parts of me that practically had me panting like a dog. I turned over and he continued.
 
It was like he was my lover and he was very attentive to my body, while continuing the massage. Then he started getting in different positions that seemed awkward but felt amazing. After a while he asked if I had cum and I told him yes but I wanted to do it again. He was more than happy to oblige and the second time I moaned and screamed. I only get like that if it's mind blowing.
 
At the end I told him that no man had ever touched me like that and I let him know that the experience was beautiful for me. He was like "Awww that's sweet of you to say" I was generous with compensating him and he gave my ass a good swat as I walked out the door. I always top but if he wanted my ass, believe me he could've had it any way he wanted.

I'm pretty quiet unless I'm getting rimmed, then I get loud. When I'm with a provider, I sometime wonder if they are making noise for me or if they are really into it. I hired someone recently and he started to moan and talk a little but after a while he stopped. Sometimes the talking and moaning takes me out of the moment but don't stop other guys from doing it.

I'll admit, I expect this type of massage every single time so when it doesn't happen I'm surprised. With that said, I don't push that type of situation in a legitimate spa, it's too risky and I'm not about to get thrown out for being a bad boy. I've had guys definitely let me know they are into the session, there are certain ways they do it, like caresses that are a "innocent" and "accidental" but pushing it any further will put their job at risk. If they do let me know they are interested I ask if they do work on the side.
 
When I meet up with them in another space, I have no issue taking the session down another avenue. I'm not saying I haven't had the thrill of doing something naughty in the next room or in a semi public area but I'd feel horrible if the guy got fired because we got caught.
 
With that said:
 
One time I got super excited during a session and at the end the masseur noticed and I told him I'd take care of it. He walks out of the room while I start taking care of business, he walks back in and immediately starts giving me head. After a few minutes he bends over and we go at it on the table. He kept his eyes on the door so we wouldn't get caught and yes, the idea of getting caught makes the sex even more fun. I busted my nut and it was amazing! Afterwards he told me he never does that type of thing with clients. I told him that I truly appreciated the massage and compensated him well.

I'm pretty quiet unless I'm getting rimmed, then I get loud. When I'm with a provider, I sometime wonder if they are making noise for me or if they are really into it. I hired someone recently and he started to moan and talk a little but after a while he stopped. Sometimes the talking and moaning takes me out of the moment but don't stop other guys from doing it.

I"m in total agreement with you, as a healthcare professional imagine hearing that crazy anti-vaxxer logic from nurse. I was talking to my coworker and she hasn't had the flu shot in years! Nowadays if we refuse we have to be masked up the entire time we are at work. This year she's adamant that she is not getting a flu shot, but instead an excuse from her doctor that exempts her from taking it. She said that the flu shot gives her a skin rash....then she showed me pictures...it's not uticaria (hives). It's eczema, I know this because I suffer the exact same fate every time the seasons change.
 
I asked her if she would take the Covid 19 vaccine when it becomes available....and she said she didn't think that she would. I was at a loss for words. Part of me wanted to take her license, revoke it and have her go back to nursing school to learn the basics. I have a feeling if things get as bad as predicted she will probably be too frightened to even come into work.

Years ago when my parents and I still lived in the same city I would take my mother out for lunch on a regular basis. So we went to this place we hadn't been in a while and the waiter happened to be someone I had an experience with a few weeks prior. I was so nervous about the whole lunch that I couldn't enjoy it. The waiter was nice about the whole thing but had this look on his face the entire time when he would talk to me. He messed with me a few times during the lunch but my mother never caught on that we knew each other. Afterwards as I walked out he gave me a little swat on my ass and a wink.

When I didn't have a car payment, once a week....now that I have one, once a month. Sigh....I need to get that thing paid off!!!!

Years ago when my parents and I still lived in the same city I would take my mother out for lunch on a regular basis. So we went to this place we hadn't been in a while and the waiter happened to be someone I had an experience with a few weeks prior. I was so nervous about the whole lunch that I couldn't enjoy it. The waiter was nice about the whole thing but had this look on his face the entire time when he would talk to me. He messed with me a few times during the lunch but my mother never caught on that we knew each other. Afterwards as I walked out he gave me a little swat on my ass and a wink.

Years ago when my parents and I still lived in the same city I would take my mother out for lunch on a regular basis. So we went to this place we hadn't been in a while and the waiter happened to be someone I had an experience with a few weeks prior. I was so nervous about the whole lunch that I couldn't enjoy it. The waiter was nice about the whole thing but had this look on his face the entire time when he would talk to me. He messed with me a few times during the lunch but my mother never caught on that we knew each other. Afterwards as I walked out he gave me a little swat on my ass and a wink.

I tend to run hot so I sleep NAKED!!! But my undies are right next to me, just in case.

I'm in agreement LivingnLA, let the masseur do the driving. Last thing you need is to be banned from a place because you took it too far. Since this place sounds legit I wouldn't be pushing anything. Even if he is pressing his semi hard cock on you....it could be a ploy for a better tip or it could be a cellphone in his pocket. If I were in your situation, I would be telling him how good he is at his technique and that his cellphone pressed up against me a couple times. He will either apologize or tell you it's not a cell phone....just his hard dick. Innocent enough to bring up in conversation, yet direct enough to get answer.

I tend to run hot so I sleep NAKED!!! But my undies are right next to me, just in case.

I'm in agreement LivingnLA, let the masseur do the driving. Last thing you need is to be banned from a place because you took it too far. Since this place sounds legit I wouldn't be pushing anything. Even if he is pressing his semi hard cock on you....it could be a ploy for a better tip or it could be a cellphone in his pocket. If I were in your situation, I would be telling him how good he is at his technique and that his cellphone pressed up against me a couple times. He will either apologize or tell you it's not a cell phone....just his hard dick. Innocent enough to bring up in conversation, yet direct enough to get answer.

Since you mentioned he's an RMT, that's Canada, yes? The training and regulations there are the real deal. Don't over read anything about this session except for the physical contact. If he's legitimately an RMT, pressing his penis into you is not an accident, especially since he did it twice. But, as you suggest, that may be as far as he'll go. I've known plenty of attractive men and women over the years who flirt and use the temptation of their assets to make some money. Being in a separate room with a door is pretty typical in a spa or legitimate massage business, except for places with a chiro/PT focus, then you get the one big room with everyone together. Or in those Asian places with hanging dividers, but the vibe in such places is usually very clear.
 
As others have said, you need to relax and enjoy whatever you're experiencing. He needs to be driving. You say you came in for back trouble? Any good LMT/RMT will have done an assessment and identified the problem spots, which for lower back issues, are frequently related to pelvic muscles. Is he draping you with a sheet? If yes, then does he step out to give you time to undress? Then remove your pants and keep your underwear on for a session or two and see how it goes. Let him know when something feels good or he's found a trouble spot. It's not always clear to the MT. Again, be relaxed, respectful, and non-pushy, even the penile contact is enough to cause an investigation that may cost him his career. Don't be a creep about it.

Sorry about your experience. It happens to the best of us. One way I curb this type of thing is to take care of business ?? right then and there if possible. Look at his pics and enjoy...if you still feel the need to spend the money...which I usually don’t afterwards, your mind is clear from the hornyness to make better decision.

Sorry about your experience. It happens to the best of us. One way I curb this type of thing is to take care of business ?? right then and there if possible. Look at his pics and enjoy...if you still feel the need to spend the money...which I usually don’t afterwards, your mind is clear from the hornyness to make better decision.

Sorry about your experience. It happens to the best of us. One way I curb this type of thing is to take care of business ?? right then and there if possible. Look at his pics and enjoy...if you still feel the need to spend the money...which I usually don’t afterwards, your mind is clear from the hornyness to make better decision.

I'll admit, I expect this type of massage every single time so when it doesn't happen I'm surprised. With that said, I don't push that type of situation in a legitimate spa, it's too risky and I'm not about to get thrown out for being a bad boy. I've had guys definitely let me know they are into the session, there are certain ways they do it, like caresses that are a "innocent" and "accidental" but pushing it any further will put their job at risk. If they do let me know they are interested I ask if they do work on the side.
 
When I meet up with them in another space, I have no issue taking the session down another avenue. I'm not saying I haven't had the thrill of doing something naughty in the next room or in a semi public area but I'd feel horrible if the guy got fired because we got caught.
 
With that said:
 
One time I got super excited during a session and at the end the masseur noticed and I told him I'd take care of it. He walks out of the room while I start taking care of business, he walks back in and immediately starts giving me head. After a few minutes he bends over and we go at it on the table. He kept his eyes on the door so we wouldn't get caught and yes, the idea of getting caught makes the sex even more fun. I busted my nut and it was amazing! Afterwards he told me he never does that type of thing with clients. I told him that I truly appreciated the massage and compensated him well.

Watched it last night. Maybe I need to watch it again to enjoy it but initially it felt depressing and sad. Plenty of eye candy, definitely hit the pause button a few times with the nudity. Bomer was beautiful to see naked. Other than that, watching the guys tear each other down was sad. I was like, damn...if this is how you treat friends how the hell do you treat family?
 
Don't get me wrong my buddies and I can get on each others nerves but to carry on like that....that's abusive.
 
The movie did have it's moments, like the dance number and the campy dialog. It reminded me of some good times. I know we have had entire restaurants watch us carry on.
 
It wasn't a bad movie, just not what I was expecting.

Watched it last night. Maybe I need to watch it again to enjoy it but initially it felt depressing and sad. Plenty of eye candy, definitely hit the pause button a few times with the nudity. Bomer was beautiful to see naked. Other than that, watching the guys tear each other down was sad. I was like, damn...if this is how you treat friends how the hell do you treat family?
 
Don't get me wrong my buddies and I can get on each others nerves but to carry on like that....that's abusive.
 
The movie did have it's moments, like the dance number and the campy dialog. It reminded me of some good times. I know we have had entire restaurants watch us carry on.
 
It wasn't a bad movie, just not what I was expecting.

Watched it last night. Maybe I need to watch it again to enjoy it but initially it felt depressing and sad. Plenty of eye candy, definitely hit the pause button a few times with the nudity. Bomer was beautiful to see naked. Other than that, watching the guys tear each other down was sad. I was like, damn...if this is how you treat friends how the hell do you treat family?
 
Don't get me wrong my buddies and I can get on each others nerves but to carry on like that....that's abusive.
 
The movie did have it's moments, like the dance number and the campy dialog. It reminded me of some good times. I know we have had entire restaurants watch us carry on.
 
It wasn't a bad movie, just not what I was expecting.

Yes, but only twice. The first time was with David Anthony and his then boyfriend Hot Top Dog. The second time was with Andrew Justice and D.O.
 
Although I had fun, I realized it's hard for me to focus with multiple partners. I don't seek out 3 or more ways unless my partner really wants to.