Provider-Client unexpected social encounters ...

[KrisParr]

A few years ago, in a large midwestern city, a long-time-platonic friend and I attended Zoobilation, “the” annual fund raising event for the local zoo. Lots of fun, music, food, and a chance to show off a bit, mostly for the City’s upper class movers and shakers. About half way through the evening, we encountered a city-council member who my friend knew from his business. As I was being introduced, his “date” came around the corner to catch up. The councilman said, “And this is ’Dave’ “ ... and everything went into slow motion as “Dave” and I locked eyes. Sure enough, about a week earlier, I had the pleasure of Dave’s manhood all to myself, having hired him for an evening of debauchery. Small world. My acting skills for the next few minutes were Oscar-worthy. Anyone else have a story?

[Lchnsf]

When I first moved to SF I was at a movie and started randomly holding hands with the guy next me. We ended up going out to dinner after the movie, he had to lose his friend for dinner. Unfortunately nothing happened.

A week or two later I was hanging out with my college roommate and we went to one of his friends for dinner. The guy I met at the movie was their adopted son. I remained cool the entire evening, but the dude was awkward.

He was in no way a hire so does this qualify?

I did tell my old roommate on the way home what transpired.

[Shawn Monroe]

Last year, instead of visiting my family for thanksgiving in Houston I opted to stay km

Atlanta and fly in for Christmas.

 

I ended up doing thanksgiving with one of my fwbs, his husband, his parents, and one of his couple friends.

 

As if having thanksgiving with a FWB, his husband and his very Morman elderly parents wasn’t awkward enough, unbeknownst to anyone, I had given a massage to one of the couple a few months earlier and it didn’t click until he started talking.

 

We all played it cool and just acted like nothing happened, but I had to let him know my real name since it would have been awkward otherwise.

[Travelguy368]

Went to a co-workers wedding a few years back and the Groom's "Uncle Jimmy" brought an out of town provider as his date. I had met the provider previously and politely said hello while we both were getting a drink at the bar. Unexpected yes, but not awkward at all for me. For the wedding party... well that was a slightly different story.

[+ poolboy48220]

At a friend's party, I ran into an escort I'd hired previously and the escort's boyfriend. We played like we'd never met, and the boyfriend never came up in later meetings with the escort.

 

Another time, I hired a guy (sight unseen), and the guy who turned up had been a friend's blind date at the bar a few weeks previous.

 

I ran into a dancer from the Gold Coast (who I'd taken home a couple times) at the gym, with his daughters. He said something like "My worlds are colliding" :-D

[marylander1940]

it happens and it's not a big deal as long as each other keep it discreet

[MikeBiDude]

I seem to remember @tassojunior had an interesting “unexpected social encounter”. I’m afraid he isn’t active on this forum nowadays to elaborate.

[marylander1940]

I seem to remember @tassojunior had an interesting “unexpected social encounter”. I’m afraid he isn’t active on this forum nowadays to elaborate.

 

He even talked about Jeff Bezos moving to HIS street... I simply saw a visiting Czech escort walking on the street with someone who clearly was a client/father/older friend. Later on in the other site his imagination did the rest. If he comes back I'll ask him to prove his claims.

 

Maybe that's what you're talking about.

[Islesguy]

At a friend's party, I ran into an escort I'd hired previously and the escort's boyfriend. We played like we'd never met, and the boyfriend never came up in later meetings with the escort.

 

Another time, I hired a guy (sight unseen), and the guy who turned up had been a friend's blind date at the bar a few weeks previous.

 

I ran into a dancer from the Gold Coast (who I'd taken home a couple times) at the gym, with his daughters. He said something like "My worlds are colliding" :-D

Good thing the "worlds colliding" guy wasn't George Costanza.

[GTMike]

Last year, instead of visiting my family for thanksgiving in Houston I opted to stay km

Atlanta and fly in for Christmas.

 

I ended up doing thanksgiving with one of my fwbs, his husband, his parents, and one of his couple friends.

 

As if having thanksgiving with a FWB, his husband and his very Morman elderly parents wasn’t awkward enough, unbeknownst to anyone, I had given a massage to one of the couple a few months earlier and it didn’t click until he started talking.

 

We all played it cool and just acted like nothing happened, but I had to let him know my real name since it would have been awkward otherwise.

Seems like a modern-day version of a "Three's Company" episode. Hahaha

[+ pdxleo]

Not a "social encounter", but forever seared in my memory... Senior year high school, I was a candidate for a large scholarship from a major national transportation company. The final interviews were being held in Minneapolis, with the finalists being flown in from all over the country. I was one of two finalists from Washington State ( where my family had moved to two years prior) and rather than fly commercial, they used a private corporate jet to get the two of us there. After the competition, they used the same private plane to get we two home, along with two others being dropped off in Billings,MT.

 

Boarding the plane, the copilot was checking our identification, to match his passenger list ( the steward had done this on the trip east, don't know why the copilot was doing this for the trip home) and when I presented my fresh drivers license, having just turned 16 two months prior, the copilot took it, looked up at me, and turned ashen. He recognized me from a "car date" we'd had two summers prior - I had immediately recognized him earlier, and was semi-panicked myself - would he recognize me and report me to the company and fuck up my scholarship? As he handed me back my license, he mouthed the word "sixteen?" and just shook his head. I'd not done any more of that since that summer, and not considered anything about those experiences after some time had passed, but I remember thinking- this is what it feels like to have your life flash before your eyes!

 

Anyway, the flight was uneventful, the copilot must have kept quiet because I got the congratulatory letter and check a couple weeks later, and never saw that man again- the first realization for me that even professional, family men (he had a wedding ring) have urges, and that a wide world of adventures awaited me with scholarships in hand and an acceptance letter to a Bay Area university. Oh, to be 16 again!

[+ poolboy48220]

Similar to pdxleo's story, my first job in my early 20's, I went to a holiday party at company we worked with (they did our keypunching, that'll give you an idea of the era). One of that company's employees at the party was an older guy I'd seen trolling the adult arcade (as I was) a week earlier. I was terrified, but if he recognized me, he did not let on.

[liubit]

Not a "social encounter", but forever seared in my memory... Senior year high school, I was a candidate for a large scholarship from a major national transportation company. The final interviews were being held in Minneapolis, with the finalists being flown in from all over the country. I was one of two finalists from Washington State ( where my family had moved to two years prior) and rather than fly commercial, they used a private corporate jet to get the two of us there. After the competition, they used the same private plane to get we two home, along with two others being dropped off in Billings,MT.

 

Boarding the plane, the copilot was checking our identification, to match his passenger list ( the steward had done this on the trip east, don't know why the copilot was doing this for the trip home) and when I presented my fresh drivers license, having just turned 16 two months prior, the copilot took it, looked up at me, and turned ashen. He recognized me from a "car date" we'd had two summers prior - I had immediately recognized him earlier, and was semi-panicked myself - would he recognize me and report me to the company and fuck up my scholarship? As he handed me back my license, he mouthed the word "sixteen?" and just shook his head. I'd not done any more of that since that summer, and not considered anything about those experiences after some time had passed, but I remember thinking- this is what it feels like to have your life flash before your eyes!

 

Anyway, the flight was uneventful, the copilot must have kept quiet because I got the congratulatory letter and check a couple weeks later, and never saw that man again- the first realization for me that even professional, family men (he had a wedding ring) have urges, and that a wide world of adventures awaited me with scholarships in hand and an acceptance letter to a Bay Area university. Oh, to be 16 again!

 

Didn’t the copilot have more to lose than you if it was discovered that he had had sex with a minor, @pdxleo? I guess he is the one who saw his life flash before his eyes when he saw your drivers license. ???‍♂️

[Milo Farnsworth]

Last year, instead of visiting my family for thanksgiving in Houston I opted to stay km

Atlanta and fly in for Christmas.

 

I ended up doing thanksgiving with one of my fwbs, his husband, his parents, and one of his couple friends.

 

As if having thanksgiving with a FWB, his husband and his very Morman elderly parents wasn’t awkward enough, unbeknownst to anyone, I had given a massage to one of the couple a few months earlier and it didn’t click until he started talking.

 

We all played it cool and just acted like nothing happened, but I had to let him know my real name since it would have been awkward otherwise.

 

I must be getting old. Please what is, "I opted to stay km . . ." and, "fwb" and "fwbs?"

[+ Coolwave35]

I had hired a provider to accompany me to an adult video theater. He was 23. His high school math teacher was there, recognized him and tried to use that connection to get into our booth.

[marylander1940]

I had hired a provider to accompany me to an adult video theater. He was 23. His high school math teacher was there, recognized him and tried to use that connection to get into our booth.

 

Was the high school math teacher good looking enough to the the 23 y/o escort for free?

[+ Pensant]

Not a "social encounter", but forever seared in my memory... Senior year high school, I was a candidate for a large scholarship from a major national transportation company. The final interviews were being held in Minneapolis, with the finalists being flown in from all over the country. I was one of two finalists from Washington State ( where my family had moved to two years prior) and rather than fly commercial, they used a private corporate jet to get the two of us there. After the competition, they used the same private plane to get we two home, along with two others being dropped off in Billings,MT.

 

Boarding the plane, the copilot was checking our identification, to match his passenger list ( the steward had done this on the trip east, don't know why the copilot was doing this for the trip home) and when I presented my fresh drivers license, having just turned 16 two months prior, the copilot took it, looked up at me, and turned ashen. He recognized me from a "car date" we'd had two summers prior - I had immediately recognized him earlier, and was semi-panicked myself - would he recognize me and report me to the company and fuck up my scholarship? As he handed me back my license, he mouthed the word "sixteen?" and just shook his head. I'd not done any more of that since that summer, and not considered anything about those experiences after some time had passed, but I remember thinking- this is what it feels like to have your life flash before your eyes!

 

Anyway, the flight was uneventful, the copilot must have kept quiet because I got the congratulatory letter and check a couple weeks later, and never saw that man again- the first realization for me that even professional, family men (he had a wedding ring) have urges, and that a wide world of adventures awaited me with scholarships in hand and an acceptance letter to a Bay Area university. Oh, to be 16 again!

A car date at 14? Color me impressed. I was barely pubescent at that age, perhaps mercifully!

[Shawn Monroe]

I must be getting old. Please what is, "I opted to stay km . . ." and, "fwb" and "fwbs?"

Fwb = friend with benefits.

km is a typo that was meant to be home.

[+ keroscenefire]

I had kinda the opposite happen. This guy who used to escort in Denver kept his profile pretty anonymous..no face pictures and some purposely ambiguous details.

 

But his body pictures were hot and I decided to hire him. Well when he comes to my apartment I realized he was a fellow educator and we had been to several trainings/networking events together. In fact, we had several friends in common and I immediately knew his name from seeing his comments on mutual friends' social media accounts.

 

I am not sure if he recognized me, but I right away told him that I knew who he was just so it wouldn't be awkward. I told him that of course I would keep everything discreet and not tell anyone anything about our encounters. We met a few times. He's a cool, sexy guy but he stopped escorting during the pandemic.

[+ Coolwave35]

Was the high school math teacher good looking enough to the the 23 y/o escort for free?

Not even remotely a little.

[Milo Farnsworth]

Fwb = friend with benefits.

km is a typo that was meant to be home.

THANK YOU!!

[+ Reisr30]

I seem to remember @tassojunior had an interesting “unexpected social encounter”. I’m afraid he isn’t active on this forum nowadays to elaborate.

Now that you say that I’m realizing I hadn’t seen any activity from tassojunior for a while. That’s too bad I wonder what happened; I enjoyed his posts and always had good info on the Czech Republic guys.

[+ pdxleo]

Didn’t the copilot have more to lose than you if it was discovered that he had had sex with a minor, @pdxleo? I guess he is the one who saw his life flash before his eyes when he saw your drivers license. ???‍♂️

Ya, you're probably right about that.......

[+ pdxleo]

A car date at 14? Color me impressed. I was barely pubescent at that age, perhaps mercifully!

Puberty hit early and hard at me - I was 6 foot, 178 pounds when I was fourteen. I remember the grocery checkers asking Mom, "Buying beer for your little brother?" when I tagged along to help get the shopping done- tho Mom was a young-looking 31-year old at that time.

[big-n-tall]

Now that you say that I’m realizing I hadn’t seen any activity from tassojunior for a while. That’s too bad I wonder what happened; I enjoyed his posts and always had good info on the Czech Republic guys.

 

I think he got put on "time out" for something and/or I guess he decided he didn't want to post here anymore. He posts on the other forum I think. I also believe still checks this sight (he was last online here Oct 3), but just doesn't post.