rustyrex

Overrated: The White House - I was shocked at how small it is and how almost disrespectful the visitors were. I got dressed in my Sunday best for it, because it's the WHITE HOUSE, and when we got there....OMG. People were dressed like they were going to Walmart!!!! I couldn't believe the President actually lives there. I'm still in denial. I've seen bigger mansions that are more ornate and my expectations were high because of what I've seen on TV. But the reality was a let down.
 
Underrated: We took a cruise to see a Canadian fjord. The tour guide said "welcome to paradise" and it truly was. To see a natural waterfall made by a glacier and the surrounding nature was breath taking. Nothing beats natures true beauty.

And this is why have nearly stopped booking from gay sites.  I do not go for therapeutic massages from people that aren’t licensed and I’m not paying more because they are a good looking man.  If I want therapeutic I go to other sites.  If I book on the gay sites it’s for more than massage but it seems most of men on these sites are so vague and when I press for details they don’t really offer them which means I’ve basically wasted my time contacting them.  So no thanks…I’m not paying $200 and higher for someone to literally try to tenderize me because they think I’m muscular enough to handle that sh!t.  Last time I hired from a gay site the guy was unlicensed, and I thought okay well maybe he’ll offer a hell of a HE.  Nope…didn’t even remove his cloths and hurt me because he thought he was helping me out with literally grabbing my muscles and driving his knuckles into me and I specifically asked for erotic. So no thanks…for truly legit licensed massage you can get it at a reasonable price elsewhere…from a straight guy even…if that’s your thing.  But for me it’s a no unless they have a dual ad on RM too.  

And this is why have nearly stopped booking from gay sites.  I do not go for therapeutic massages from people that aren’t licensed and I’m not paying more because they are a good looking man.  If I want therapeutic I go to other sites.  If I book on the gay sites it’s for more than massage but it seems most of men on these sites are so vague and when I press for details they don’t really offer them which means I’ve basically wasted my time contacting them.  So no thanks…I’m not paying $200 and higher for someone to literally try to tenderize me because they think I’m muscular enough to handle that sh!t.  Last time I hired from a gay site the guy was unlicensed, and I thought okay well maybe he’ll offer a hell of a HE.  Nope…didn’t even remove his cloths and hurt me because he thought he was helping me out with literally grabbing my muscles and driving his knuckles into me and I specifically asked for erotic. So no thanks…for truly legit licensed massage you can get it at a reasonable price elsewhere…from a straight guy even…if that’s your thing.  But for me it’s a no unless they have a dual ad on RM too.  

And this is why have nearly stopped booking from gay sites.  I do not go for therapeutic massages from people that aren’t licensed and I’m not paying more because they are a good looking man.  If I want therapeutic I go to other sites.  If I book on the gay sites it’s for more than massage but it seems most of men on these sites are so vague and when I press for details they don’t really offer them which means I’ve basically wasted my time contacting them.  So no thanks…I’m not paying $200 and higher for someone to literally try to tenderize me because they think I’m muscular enough to handle that sh!t.  Last time I hired from a gay site the guy was unlicensed, and I thought okay well maybe he’ll offer a hell of a HE.  Nope…didn’t even remove his cloths and hurt me because he thought he was helping me out with literally grabbing my muscles and driving his knuckles into me and I specifically asked for erotic. So no thanks…for truly legit licensed massage you can get it at a reasonable price elsewhere…from a straight guy even…if that’s your thing.  But for me it’s a no unless they have a dual ad on RM too.  

Recently got back from Phoenix and hired 2 amazing guys.  Both were totally what I go for, roided out muscles with tats and both experiences were really good.  But....one of them didn't clean out all that well.  It totally killed the experience and he was so embarrassed he ran to the bathroom to clean up.  I was so disappointed because after that, it pretty much ended the experience as he didn't want to continue. 
What do you do in this situation?  I ended up finishing myself off and didn't bring up the issue as I could tell he was mortified.  I didn't hold anything against him either but I wonder...this has to be a common issue.  How do you all handle this? 

Recently got back from Phoenix and hired 2 amazing guys.  Both were totally what I go for, roided out muscles with tats and both experiences were really good.  But....one of them didn't clean out all that well.  It totally killed the experience and he was so embarrassed he ran to the bathroom to clean up.  I was so disappointed because after that, it pretty much ended the experience as he didn't want to continue. 
What do you do in this situation?  I ended up finishing myself off and didn't bring up the issue as I could tell he was mortified.  I didn't hold anything against him either but I wonder...this has to be a common issue.  How do you all handle this? 

Recently got back from Phoenix and hired 2 amazing guys.  Both were totally what I go for, roided out muscles with tats and both experiences were really good.  But....one of them didn't clean out all that well.  It totally killed the experience and he was so embarrassed he ran to the bathroom to clean up.  I was so disappointed because after that, it pretty much ended the experience as he didn't want to continue. 
What do you do in this situation?  I ended up finishing myself off and didn't bring up the issue as I could tell he was mortified.  I didn't hold anything against him either but I wonder...this has to be a common issue.  How do you all handle this? 

Recently got back from Phoenix and hired 2 amazing guys.  Both were totally what I go for, roided out muscles with tats and both experiences were really good.  But....one of them didn't clean out all that well.  It totally killed the experience and he was so embarrassed he ran to the bathroom to clean up.  I was so disappointed because after that, it pretty much ended the experience as he didn't want to continue. 
What do you do in this situation?  I ended up finishing myself off and didn't bring up the issue as I could tell he was mortified.  I didn't hold anything against him either but I wonder...this has to be a common issue.  How do you all handle this? 

After being a client with this long term I would say this, what are your true intentions?  Are you just trying to make extra money for a side hustle or are you interested in delving into side of sexuality of being desired and being payed for it.  There are a lot of men that are unskilled in both massage and emotional intelligence and once they get into this type of work they become emotional drained, more apprehensive about gay men in general, and jaded with the business of providing a service that is extremely personal to a complete stranger.  For example, the last guy I hired for a massage was very apprehensive about meeting me and wanted various things up front before the encounter such as payment with cash.  The appointment was in his home, which was in a very bad side of town, and I could tell that he wasn't even comfortable with me being there until he realized I was not a threat.  His body was amazing and he was somewhat personable but very stand offish.  He was unskilled despite him telling me he had training and his manner wasn't welcoming.  He did offer a happy ending but once he got started it was like he wanted me to cum in 3 minutes.  I had to finish myself off but the encounter wasn't the best.  I will never go back to him again and I noticed that he took his ad down a week later.  I don't think he had it in him to continue providing that kind of service.  He told me that the business wasn't that good and that his safety was compromised with a couple of guys that he had to call the cops on.  He told me that he would get calls in the middle of the night from men that were high and wanted to be seen and would harass him if he refused.  He told me about having a guy steal from him and having to pull a gun on another guy to get him to leave.  He told me he doesn't see men of color because of his past experiences with them and that he's refused someone at the door once he sees them.  The real kicker is that he is only one of the many stories these men tell me.  While there was a time I thought about going into the business myself I had to ask myself why and what were my expectations of the money and reward for being desirable.  I decided it wasn't for me.  The job I have now provides me a sense of being in that business, I work in healthcare, but at the end of the day I'm emotionally exhausted and want to be in cocoon away from others so I can recharge.  It takes a special type of soul to be in the business, if you have what it takes then give it a try.

I’m not sure “star” is word I use anymore.  There are so many amateur and popular faces out there that are in business without the backing of a studio and do really well.  I been with a couple of porn models and it’s almost like a surreal experience.  Being able to actually have sex with the fantasy on the screen still shocks me.  Are they worth the hype and the price? Depends on the model.  Some are absolutely worth the expense and others…… For me it’s mostly about the experience of being able to enjoy them as they are.  

I’m not sure “star” is word I use anymore.  There are so many amateur and popular faces out there that are in business without the backing of a studio and do really well.  I been with a couple of porn models and it’s almost like a surreal experience.  Being able to actually have sex with the fantasy on the screen still shocks me.  Are they worth the hype and the price? Depends on the model.  Some are absolutely worth the expense and others…… For me it’s mostly about the experience of being able to enjoy them as they are.  

I’m not sure “star” is word I use anymore.  There are so many amateur and popular faces out there that are in business without the backing of a studio and do really well.  I been with a couple of porn models and it’s almost like a surreal experience.  Being able to actually have sex with the fantasy on the screen still shocks me.  Are they worth the hype and the price? Depends on the model.  Some are absolutely worth the expense and others…… For me it’s mostly about the experience of being able to enjoy them as they are.  

Just picked up RAV4 prime and I love it! No range anxiety and I have the best of both worlds.  I do ev mode for day to day and hybrid for the long road trips.  

Just picked up RAV4 prime and I love it! No range anxiety and I have the best of both worlds.  I do ev mode for day to day and hybrid for the long road trips.  

Just picked up RAV4 prime and I love it! No range anxiety and I have the best of both worlds.  I do ev mode for day to day and hybrid for the long road trips.  

I was hoping to meet this guy, after seeing him just take someone’s money and flake…not anymore.

Yes I’ve met him many times.  Very nice guy and very genuine.  I’m not sure why he changed his name this time around and covered his face. I didn’t know he was in the hospital I don’t really social media except this and one other plat form.  If this is his last hurrah hopefully it’s one that can keep him comfortable for years to come. He’s been saying for years that he’s going to live in France hopefully he can make that possible.  I would see him again but he’s preferred to stay in the bigger cities so our paths probably won’t cross again.  

Don’t forget height….I hired someone that said they were well over 6 feet and ended up being shorter than me.  Catfish’s too….the guy answers the door and I’m like…I think I have the wrong place…then they get all crazy and admit that the pic is very old. 

To do a proper flex on the guys….you gotta put on the whole jewelry box.  Make sure you have Aunt Ekla’s broach on for good luck!!!

Don’t forget height….I hired someone that said they were well over 6 feet and ended up being shorter than me.  Catfish’s too….the guy answers the door and I’m like…I think I have the wrong place…then they get all crazy and admit that the pic is very old. 

Don’t forget height….I hired someone that said they were well over 6 feet and ended up being shorter than me.  Catfish’s too….the guy answers the door and I’m like…I think I have the wrong place…then they get all crazy and admit that the pic is very old. 

I gave up on masseurfinder years ago and as soon as guys starting charging outrageous fees without any type of skill I went to a local guy.  He’s gay friendly and married but has thrown hints…I don’t let it go to far because he’s the type to back away and tell me he doesn’t want me  as a client if it goes to far.   Usually book an hour and a half it’s almost a steal. The massage is pretty good and I don’t feel ripped off because I don’t expect anything more.  Going to the other sites however, I end up paying more and might get some playtime with someone who isn’t trained but I expect more due to the overt advertising of erotic or sensual. Sometimes it’s anything but that.  Glad I found a regular guy that is reasonable.

After being a client with this long term I would say this, what are your true intentions?  Are you just trying to make extra money for a side hustle or are you interested in delving into side of sexuality of being desired and being payed for it.  There are a lot of men that are unskilled in both massage and emotional intelligence and once they get into this type of work they become emotional drained, more apprehensive about gay men in general, and jaded with the business of providing a service that is extremely personal to a complete stranger.  For example, the last guy I hired for a massage was very apprehensive about meeting me and wanted various things up front before the encounter such as payment with cash.  The appointment was in his home, which was in a very bad side of town, and I could tell that he wasn't even comfortable with me being there until he realized I was not a threat.  His body was amazing and he was somewhat personable but very stand offish.  He was unskilled despite him telling me he had training and his manner wasn't welcoming.  He did offer a happy ending but once he got started it was like he wanted me to cum in 3 minutes.  I had to finish myself off but the encounter wasn't the best.  I will never go back to him again and I noticed that he took his ad down a week later.  I don't think he had it in him to continue providing that kind of service.  He told me that the business wasn't that good and that his safety was compromised with a couple of guys that he had to call the cops on.  He told me that he would get calls in the middle of the night from men that were high and wanted to be seen and would harass him if he refused.  He told me about having a guy steal from him and having to pull a gun on another guy to get him to leave.  He told me he doesn't see men of color because of his past experiences with them and that he's refused someone at the door once he sees them.  The real kicker is that he is only one of the many stories these men tell me.  While there was a time I thought about going into the business myself I had to ask myself why and what were my expectations of the money and reward for being desirable.  I decided it wasn't for me.  The job I have now provides me a sense of being in that business, I work in healthcare, but at the end of the day I'm emotionally exhausted and want to be in cocoon away from others so I can recharge.  It takes a special type of soul to be in the business, if you have what it takes then give it a try.

After being a client with this long term I would say this, what are your true intentions?  Are you just trying to make extra money for a side hustle or are you interested in delving into side of sexuality of being desired and being payed for it.  There are a lot of men that are unskilled in both massage and emotional intelligence and once they get into this type of work they become emotional drained, more apprehensive about gay men in general, and jaded with the business of providing a service that is extremely personal to a complete stranger.  For example, the last guy I hired for a massage was very apprehensive about meeting me and wanted various things up front before the encounter such as payment with cash.  The appointment was in his home, which was in a very bad side of town, and I could tell that he wasn't even comfortable with me being there until he realized I was not a threat.  His body was amazing and he was somewhat personable but very stand offish.  He was unskilled despite him telling me he had training and his manner wasn't welcoming.  He did offer a happy ending but once he got started it was like he wanted me to cum in 3 minutes.  I had to finish myself off but the encounter wasn't the best.  I will never go back to him again and I noticed that he took his ad down a week later.  I don't think he had it in him to continue providing that kind of service.  He told me that the business wasn't that good and that his safety was compromised with a couple of guys that he had to call the cops on.  He told me that he would get calls in the middle of the night from men that were high and wanted to be seen and would harass him if he refused.  He told me about having a guy steal from him and having to pull a gun on another guy to get him to leave.  He told me he doesn't see men of color because of his past experiences with them and that he's refused someone at the door once he sees them.  The real kicker is that he is only one of the many stories these men tell me.  While there was a time I thought about going into the business myself I had to ask myself why and what were my expectations of the money and reward for being desirable.  I decided it wasn't for me.  The job I have now provides me a sense of being in that business, I work in healthcare, but at the end of the day I'm emotionally exhausted and want to be in cocoon away from others so I can recharge.  It takes a special type of soul to be in the business, if you have what it takes then give it a try.

I gave up on masseurfinder years ago and as soon as guys starting charging outrageous fees without any type of skill I went to a local guy.  He’s gay friendly and married but has thrown hints…I don’t let it go to far because he’s the type to back away and tell me he doesn’t want me  as a client if it goes to far.   Usually book an hour and a half it’s almost a steal. The massage is pretty good and I don’t feel ripped off because I don’t expect anything more.  Going to the other sites however, I end up paying more and might get some playtime with someone who isn’t trained but I expect more due to the overt advertising of erotic or sensual. Sometimes it’s anything but that.  Glad I found a regular guy that is reasonable.