MrMattBig

Anyone have any success/help/advice disputing a a false negative review?

This person left a false review, no email or IM contact on RM platform, only 2 views and a map me, doesn't show this user clicked to see my phone number even....yet RM webmaster is maintaining this person got my number, must have used Do Not Track Me option, and that constitutes enough proof to publish the review

Alright I will counter with reasonable offers but there's some escort that overcharge or vary price for different people. One person hit them up 400,another 500, another 450 . They are taking advantage of their physical beauty to manipulate people. They don't have a fix price . But I will counter with a reasonable price

Well you yourself said you were going to charge 400 if you escort so...???‍♂️

Lol yeah won't ask but I might ask to pay the last fee I paid regularly since I'm gonna be a regular

Escorts hear the promise of "give me a good deal, I'll be a regular" all.the.time....especially when starting out as people think they can take advantage of someone new.

Stop devaluing someone's time like this.

If you want a hire to take you seriously, don't ask for a discount.

If the rate is outside your budget simply say so or counter with a reasonable offer.

Never use the words discount or deal in conversation with an escort

Ugh

If your client asked you what you wanted for Christmas, what would that be?

10 person orgy, the client and me included, with 8 other providers of their choosing to surprise me (2 male, 2 female, 2 mtf trans, 2 ftm trans)?

Watersports, in particular tasting, drinking it, is exactly like wine or beer. Lots of possible tastes and flavors depending on the preparer lol. I particularly have regimen to get in my opinion the best tasting from my tap, 8n fact drinking right now in prep for an appointment!

I love these Newbies that always come to the rescue of criticized escorts.

They always remain young Newbies/Novices/Apprentices, frozen in time, even if years pass.

Don't forget the abundance of superlatives in the delivery of erotic novel prose as well

I mean if your hot, It will be easier, people love young, hot, muscular ,sensual man . I would do it for a time until I reach my goal then quit

Some on here like quite the opposite of each of those qualities at times...maybe 35/40 yo+...maybe bears or twinks...maybe a rough machine type fuck versus sensual...your home base and market maybe be skewed towards looking for similar to you or different, maybe its already saturated...these are things that need to be considered, also as well as balanced with a realistic timeline to reach whatever goal you have, especially during the age of Covid

I've been talking to some escorts and othe people and I feel like I want to become en escort for the money because you guys make alot . An escort I know made 10k in two month and if he wanted could make more . I would charge 400 and bottom and would do oral but no kissing ?

Escorts absolutely do NOT make a lot...we have the POTENTIAL to, make a lot. Understanding that difference, and being able to actualize potential, on top of numerous other factors, is key.

Not sure how many of you watch or follow hetero porn...but this is all very annoying and hypocritical in response to the criticism Pornhub has received...considering probably their most popular videos, (produced by various affiliated studios to them), happen to be of the faux incest variety

SHIT IS RIDICULOUS!!!! ....just went to my bookmarks after a hot session with a client to get off a third time...now the title was "MDMA PMV"...but besides the title was just a hot porn music video compilation to edm/rave type music over an hour long...literally nothing even remotly suggestive of anything illegal for the length of the entire video...my free time now is going to be consumed with downloading all my other bookmarks before they are censored ugh

Why are people shortening the word escorts by one letter? Scorts sounds like some kind of weird clothing hybrid not a sexy dude you hire to spend time with.

Shows disrespect to our providers...

Some tend to view providers of an experience, as providers of a lesser than service; I would supect akin to a car wash or dry cleaners. Of course, one also has to take into account that some may think they just simply sound cool and edgy by saying 'scort.

That's a whole other psychological profile to unpack.

If any abbreviation is to be used, it should be SWer...for sex worker.

Absolutely loved it! Always appreciated chess, now have so much more respect for the strategy and flow of the game

@littlenut – You make a good point about trust. The nature of the deposit in escorting seems to be that some providers come with a built-in suspicion that all clients are flakes.

This is actually the only way to survive escorting from a mental health aspect.

*Not to mention manage scheduling and income expectations against flakey, scamming, and potentially s

dangerous clients.

The trick is to manage those suspicions in a healthy realistic way, as well as very cognitively honing your critical thinking skills for each individual client and interaction separately.

Even regulars can turn bad sometimes.

But those suspicions should never be allowed to take over or get in your own way.

Don't fake it, embrace it?

Anybody else can’t find the phone numbers of providers at Masseurfinder? Or just me?

https://www.congress.gov/bill/116th-congress/senate-bill/3165/text

Because if this law many websites have censored or changed the information they host to not potentially get in trouble.

One of these actions is Masseurfinder hiding numbers 'after hours', because one could possibly infer nefarious sexual actives only occur after hours for a fee and not massages.

Thank your government!!?

DoubeList is kind of the curr version of Craigslist or Backpage.

They have gotten aggressive with banning same as Grindr...both I am banned and making a new account does not work...fuck sexual censorship

Bng-blow n go

BL-really supposed to be craigslist...which over the years had an erotic services section...then eliminated that and had personals and massage services, to now eliminating personals and massage services.

BP-backpage...was set up similarly to Craigslist in the sections it had but was basically for finding escorts till if was shutdown all together

That all makes sense. Maybe, for a shorter visit, it'd just be the male escort only fellates the client but saves the juice for other, longer and more profitable, appointments.

I do have an oral fixation?

Unfortunately, probably close to 75% of 30 minute or quick inquires start with me receiving "just want to blow you and swallow your load"...maybe for me it's skewed because of certain, um features, but who knows lol?

On some of the platforms where female escorts advertise, some list "quickie," "quick visit," "blow-and-go" or "BNG" option visits and rates. I'm surprised that I don't see those kinds of appointments advertised by male escorts too.

Would you be the top or bottom in this situation?

As @keroscenefire mentioned some of us offer 30 minutes...I myself do if asked. I do not advertise it, and also depends on my schedule for the day, both personal and work. If in this situation the person wants to blow me, I decline or don't offer 30 minutes. Why waste a load and effect possiblity of overall performance, when someone could easily come through and pay a full hour instead. If I'm really really slow, and really horny, it's a possibility. However, while in 30 minute circumstances I offer a rate at a competitive proportion to the hour, I find most who ask for 30 minutes are either: looking for something way less still, too hesitant to part with their funds even at a less than advertised rate, or too really short on time sneaking around a partner/spouse, on break or before/after work or Uber discreet to actually come through.

So there is virtually no incentive to offer quick visits.

As impressive as that sounds, one has to wonder whether it was accurate information. While I acknowledge that an employee might be accessing different data than what's available to customers via a website, I went to Target recently to buy an ink jet cartridge which was listed as "last one left" at my nearest store. I got there and there were several of them.

 

I've had the reverse experience as well, leaving disappointed because the item I wanted that was supposedly in stock was nowhere to be found.

With Target with your particular experience of being more product then what was listed online, most likely the Logistics or Receiving team missed scanning that box into the inventory system when the shipment truck arrived. I worked at target once for nearly 3 months before being fired for a lunch break violation because I was always having to deal with our own stores super surplus inventory after our grand opening,

My twitter feed is inundated by retweets from hot guys using a variation of “worship me f@ggot and give me your money”.

 

I don’t get the whole findom thing, but how is this acceptable? Why is it okay for the former school bullies to now charge for this as a service?

If they are retweets from others keep in mind also that that is a form of mutual promotion of fellow sex workers. Findom as well as other forms of domination on the large from a 'brand' perspective can be heavy on degradation and humiliation at times. From advertising and a platform perspective, 'dom' providers are constantly pressured to be the 'most of' but default innate personality. Unfortunately as well, and for your feelings too, the default to communicate this are the tweets your are referring to, as opposed to a more creative manifestation or broader repertoire to communicate the same sentiment.

I always wonder about the "work" excuse. Prospective clients that never pan out too often say they are working when trying to figure out mutual availability, especially when I am traveling. Is it because after work they have to go home to a relationship? Is it because they are legitimately too tired after work for sex? Is it just laziness to put in the effort? If it is a veiled way to say they are in a relationship, just better to say a need to be discreet and can't get away. If it's not, we are all adults, we all work, yet we all find time to do things in life besides just working, it's a weak excuse. And personally I have had some of the best sex of my life after a long day or night at work.

Selfish is the key word. That's what majority of the people there are. I just had an "argument" with a guy from an app I've met last month. For one, it took a whole year to actually meet (didn't live in same town, but only an hour out).

 

Now that we have met and had a hot time and he even seemed up to meet again, he has made 0 effort to try and get us in the same place. Always claims to be working, or being invited to different parties and get togethers... yet has not 1 time asked or invited me to go. Just says he can't invite anyone.

 

I finally called him out on it today. I'm not fixing to be wasting my time on someone who clearly can't be bothered to involve me in anything they do. He seems to have various excuses about how it's private, or he can't invite anybody, and doesn't want to have to worry about someone. Whatever the fuck that means. But yet he says he does want to meet again, and it wasn't a 1 time thing. blah blah blah

 

Just fucking say you don't want to bring me because you feel some shame or don't think I'll feel welcomed. Guys be having 100 excuses. Idk why they try to hold onto something that they know they're not invested in anyway. I'm smart enough to pull the plug if I have to.

Jarrod - don't take it as a negative reaction towards you. It sounds like the guy is in a relationship and can't invite you for that reason. It seems as if he enjoyed his hot time with you and wants to do it again.

 

 

I'm just like, it's 2020. Why are gays still thinking and operating like it's 1950...when our straight counterparts are dating, getting married, and having interracial kids together...

I think part of the reason is because gays have been discriminated against for so long as well, collectively a stereotype and reality exists to have their own clique exclusionary to others that ends up being 1950's -ish. I once was in Puerto Vallarta on a trip there with a client I had an semi long term arrangement with during the holidays. It just so happens all of San Francisco gay scene basically migrates there for the holidays as well. At dinner one night the conversation with another gay couple visiting turned so derogatory and insensitive towards trans individuals from the couples end...I am so happy that I am a happy drunk and the wine mellowed me out and numbed me to the nonsense and disgusting things I heard. I am pansexual and never have "came out"...I live my life though as openly being a freak...so whether your male, female, trans, cis, bi, straight, gay....if I feel an attraction towards you I am going to make that known...whether on a sexual level, emotional level, or both. But, I have never felt a need to come out, or moreover a want to come out particularly because of how prejudice and judgmental the gay male community and 'scene' can be at times.

The Last Jedi

Nothing is ever so clear cut. Outside can possibly and most likely be less of a risk, still depending on spacing. What about public restroom use, handrail use for stairs, promoting carefree behavior to share/trade beverages, supplies, etc.

It's also illogical. Or perhaps, being generous, very inconsistent with the logic.

If benign enough without bias, to my point about conditions and situations related to and around outdoor public venues, I think people are fine with, and unfortunately only thinking if A-B, B-C, then A-C, instead of the possibility and reality of an entire alphabet of possibilities and causes and effects.

However I do think a wide variety of people choose purposefully to only look at things only through their biased view.