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Also, just pondered on the psychology of everything for a moment: to cum from receiving oral requires to give control over to the other person. Not necessarily a 'top' thing to do so there might be a psychological block, if only subconsciously, in the instances where you are looking for an oral top and they end up needing intercourse or jerk themselves.(instances where they are in control).

That explains my instance of wanting to stroke myself, even for a brief moment, as my preference in my personal sex life is to go back and forth with control. Your mouth can always gravitate to those balls in the moments it's not stuffed with cock!?

Happy hunting!

And in all honesty, that’s exactly what turns me off. I want that niche of provider that almost prefers oral service over anything and really gets off on turning his dick over to a cocksucker to be edged and drained. It really is a disappointment to get with a provider who has to kack himself off the Cum. To me it says that we weren’t a good match in the first place.

I get it. In all fairness though, someone can match what you are looking for to a tee, but for whatever reason the peg and hole don't match exactly. Similar but related, it's the same reason why your own hand will almost always feel better than someone else's hand. With me as an example, even if in that moment oral will make me cum, stroking myself even just for a few seconds before putting someone's mouth back on it will make me shoot out more cum then if I just left it alone.

When you contact someone say "Hi I am looking for someone who is into receiving oral to completion.

I have an extreme oral fixation, not looking for any intercourse or penetration. If it seems like we will be a good match, let me know when you are available and what your rates are for your time"

Keep in mind that because of sensitivity and sensations, it really maybe be hard to cum from oral. Sometimes that's me. But a good provider knows how to go back and forth between stroking themselves and putting your mouth back to work.

Not to be obtuse, but what does a straight guy do to a she-male that gay men dont do to each other?? ?

I don’t understand either and would be interested in the answer as well...

Speaking from personal experience, its more about being attracted to the female form, while still wanting a nice cock to play with. Also adds to the experience when wanting to be submissive to a woman...a real cock is always better than a strapon

Not validating anyone's point, just trying to lighten the moods, but I can't stop the goosebumps when my boy hugs me from behind and whispers to my ear "I'm gonna destroy your pussy" OMG! ?? When did sex talk become a 'so serious and politically correct' topic? It's supposed to be FUN, not boring!

While I agree, there is a difference between dirty talk, and making a generalizing statement about a behavior or action. It is interesting that one would choose to say 'chasing pussy' when chasing tail or chasing ass is a thing as well. Also, across all genders and sexuality, booty call is a term for a sexual encounter. So, in terms of m2m sex, it's just interesting to refer to pussy instead of ass when making the 'chasing' statement.

For me personally, I tend to use both in dirty talk but each in specific ways. But I understand within myself those reasons why.

Yes i guess i got caught up in my emotions when i first read the thread. It was late at night and I was PISSED. Not one person who posted took the time to message me to clarify what i meant in my ad. And you are 100% right about the limitations. As you can tell from most of my posts, I type a lot. Trying to fit everything into 1200 characters is not my forte. So i had to make it short and to the point. As far as a website, i have zero idea how to do that. I suppose I could look into it. It's never crossed my mind that so many of you were thinking this but never said anything. I've had numerous people message me about it and thought everyone would do that if they had questions. That is definitely my mistake. Thank you for pointing this out to me

Things to consider when having any presence online: People will always talk about you 'behind your back'. I wouldn't call this thread behind your back really though, because you can view these discussions. People may be talking more negatively about you in private messages to each other, who knows. But people will always talk about you rather then ask directly. Nature of the internet, even more so than death and taxes. Nothing personal, the tone you use to expect someone ask you directly, and get even more so offended at perceiving this as talk behind your back, and the tone of your defenses, sounds like you still need some life experience on human interaction. Nothing wrong with that, but use that as a humbling reality of the perception of your communication, the differing demands of escorting versus your medical schooling/career track, and the differences between a front facing versus back facing career in relation to interaction with people/patients.

The direction of this thread highlights the limitations of a platform like RM, as well as the difference between career escorting versus not and proactive measures as opposed to reactive measures. In the defense of Medjock, RM's character limit and censoring make it impossible to expand upon his status as recovered, the liklihood of reinfection, and the overall risks involved. Let alone the instances where in a general sense, more times then not someone will not even read the text in the ad. However, this is where personal websites come in, where you can expand on more things, as well as one of the many things that distinguish who treats escorting as a career, or one of their careers if they have multiple. Additionally, this would be a proactive measure, as opposed to reactive, which more times than not will come off as overly defensive.

His first message yesterday was in my opinion perfectly fine; every message after that has been a shot in the foot over and over and over. If you really want to clap back, you have to learn how to do it in one motion. Anything else will start to have the opposite effect.

Maybe this is the intended result, to foster a obnoxious, masculine jock image. If it is, more power to you @Medjock

If it's not, then be mindful of the obnoxious perception that is brewing by your responses.

The old saying "you get what you pay for" comes to mind. for something that will be used alot, you dont want to scrimp on price and have it break down in the middle of your self-satisfaction session.... That would be like hiring an escort that cant get hard.

Lol so true!?

I was surprised to see how many guys on Chaturbate are using those "self fuck" dildo machines.... although I don't bottom, it certainly can be used for an Oral officianado that likes to be "face fucked". But damn, those machines are expensive.....

You can find some for under 100 on Amazon.

Amazon has done wonders for some sex toy items.

I remember paying 180 for the Magic wand when it first went cordless/rechargeable. Now it's 99.

As far as toys that vibrate or have moving parts, just depends on what you want to spend, but things are way more affordable then they were several years ago.

To eliminate the potential of mess as much as possible, I would clean out.

Additionally, that will be the best course of action towards easy cleaning of said toys afterwards.

Happy pleasures!?

no, you hating on others preferences in life is racist dear. have a blessed day

No, it called being critical. Whether that criticism is fair, that's neither here nor there for the topic of this thread.

I'll chime in on both aspects of your post, Matt. First, about travel in the Northeast, it's good that you're monitoring local conditions. Massachusetts may have peaked the past few days. There are fewer new hospital admissions for corona, but the hospitals and ancillary health care centers are at their capacity to handle the cases they have. Pockets around Boston are reporting a surge in cases. Most of the state is on lock down. I'm not sure what restrictions may exist on hotel occupancy or air bnb arrangements. At one point, there was talk of using vacant hotels to house overflow patients and homeless people during the crisis. Then one of the convention centers was employed for those purposes, so it may have let the hotels off the hook. Local transit is likely to still be limited through much of May. New York, Mass. and NJ are among the hardest hit states, and it seems Connecticut is becoming a hot spot as well.

 

Second, about potentially having caught and recovered from corona. During the first week of March, I had a three day period of running a temp and experiencing the chills. No other symptoms at the time other than a slightly scratchy throat. My temp never went above 102 F, and returned to normal within 3 days. I self-quarantined for three weeks without symptoms or recurrence, and have largely remained in isolation except for a few brief trips to pick up groceries. I was particularly sensitive about the risks when I had the short patch of fever because my nephew and his wife were set to deliver their second child later that week. By then, however, the hospital wouldn't allow visitors anyway and they were given strict guidelines to follow upon bringing their newborn home. I have had a few days where I've sneezed a couple of times, but those are almost certainly seasonal allergies. I'm allergic to everything that grows or walks (except dog hair).

 

So, that's a long response, but the net is travel in the Northeast will likely be tentative at best throughout May and perhaps beyond.

Well glad to see you have apparently recovered, whatever the illness may have been.

I have seasonal allergies and scratchy throat with bananas and tomatoes on rare occasions.

I have you beat though on being allergic to the most inescapable thing of all, especially in Vegas: the sun!

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK109193/

I doubt it.

 

Wishful thinking is dangerous medicine.

Agree. Not going to let that suspicion (a small one at that) influence decisions or relax precautions.

Yors sounds like classic food poisoning..

 

We all had fever, sore lungs, cough, chills, sore throat, aches & stiffness to varying degrees. One is mid-30’s runner, high altitude hike/camper, the other is late 30’s daily gym attender, benches 3 multiples of his weight, and me, old, fat and lazy.

 

It got us all differently. I thought I was going to be the ambulance driver a couple of times.

Yeah, I suspect it still was food poisoning either from wine or pizza.

Glad you didn't have to be the ambulance driver after all.

My two roommates And I compared notes on the last illness that went through our household in December. We are beginning to suspect we all had ‘Rona move in with us.

 

They are young & healthy. I’m old, diet managed diabetic, obese by definition, and use a CPAP.

 

Maybe we will all test positive for ‘Rona?

What were your symptoms?

While still cautious, I suspect there's a possibility I was sick with it in early/mid January. I attributed it to a bad bottle of wine, but as I recall had fever, vomiting, diarrhea, sweats, chills, fatigue over about 5 days, felt better for about 5 days, then again sick but a bit worse for 5 days more.

Could still be the wine but who knows?‍♂️.

I know most of us are currently taking a hiatus from hiring in light of the COVID-19 pandemic. Just curious about when you will consider hiring again? For me, I am not sure I would wait for the vaccine as that could be a year or more away. But I might meet up again once it looks like there is a very low transmission rate happening in my community and there is a lot more testing happening so we know it's real. Still feel like that is a while away too.

 

When would you consider contacting your regulars again?

I'm curious as well to hear others thoughts. I currently have tentative plans for travel in June and July that are easily movable or cancelable. I am going to seriously monitor how things are everywhere the next few weeks up to May 18, when the bus service I use for Intercity travel on the Northeast and west coast is scheduled to resume service, as well as others levels of comfort.

Also, skeptical of antibody tests being scams or lacking reliability; hopefully over the next few weeks that gets ironed out as well

By all accounts online though it seems a porn career will be through only fans, and other self produced content, not with any major studios.

Though I'm sure some will inevitably approach him.

If your going with Naoko Takeuchi's work then I will go with her husband Hiatus Master Yoshihiro Togashi manga/anime adaption Yu Yu Hakusho another iconic 90s anime.

 

English Dubbed Intro

 

Japanese Intro

Anime vibe

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NgtQiUN6vjQ

If your going with Naoko Takeuchi's work then I will go with her husband Hiatus Master Yoshihiro Togashi manga/anime adaption Yu Yu Hakusho another iconic 90s anime.

 

English Dubbed Intro

 

Japanese Intro

Anime vibe

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NgtQiUN6vjQ

I was already in love with latinos. Oprah just made it worse

 

Keeping with the suave theme

I was already in love with latinos. Oprah just made it worse

 

Keeping with the suave theme

I'm avoiding Walmart for now, but see on their site they are now going to start making the aisles one way. Lot's of complaints on their facebook page about it. Biggest complaint is if people have to pass you but I'd rather have someone pass me with their cart then face someone coming in the opposite direction stopping their cart when mine is stopped. I see they are also requiring their employees to wear mask but only asking, and not requiring customers to wear one.

 

The farmers market and the local grocery store I like to go to have had one way traffic for a while and also require customers to enter and exit through opposite doors and I think it's a smart move, only problem is you have people that don't pay attention and do what they want.

I always try to avoid Walmart in any situation, prefer target over Walmart.

Sadly, it's Walmart that is in walking distance from me, not target. Additionally my property management messed up my online pay portal, and I dont have checks, so Walmart is the most convenient option for a money order.

I'm avoiding Walmart for now, but see on their site they are now going to start making the aisles one way. Lot's of complaints on their facebook page about it. Biggest complaint is if people have to pass you but I'd rather have someone pass me with their cart then face someone coming in the opposite direction stopping their cart when mine is stopped. I see they are also requiring their employees to wear mask but only asking, and not requiring customers to wear one.

 

The farmers market and the local grocery store I like to go to have had one way traffic for a while and also require customers to enter and exit through opposite doors and I think it's a smart move, only problem is you have people that don't pay attention and do what they want.

I always try to avoid Walmart in any situation, prefer target over Walmart.

Sadly, it's Walmart that is in walking distance from me, not target. Additionally my property management messed up my online pay portal, and I dont have checks, so Walmart is the most convenient option for a money order.

Ugh, ?? Fingers crossed you get through it, self-employed should still be getting benefits. You’re a “pro” ???

To have complete transparency at least here, I frame my income as sourced from gambling related situations so it's especially annoying coming from Vegas.

Fingers crossed too. Not life or death yet, but it would help cover the thousands of dollars I've lost over the weeks