MrMattBig

No matter how progressive we become, narrow mindedness will always exist. In my experience, I have come across people from all genders who take the fact that I have sex with men to mean that I am gay. Completely discounting and ignoring that I have sex with everyone of all genders. It's like once I have sex with a guy nothing else about my sexual identity matters. Just like in your example, to the woman you haven't had sex till a penis goes into an oriface below the belt. Personally, I don't really consider myself as having come out as anything really. Not that I am in the closet, just I don't really care and put stock in what others think of me and my sexuality. If some asks, I'll try and describe it to them. To those less informed and I just describe myself as a sexual freak and leave the rest up to their imaginations.

Were you actually handcuffed? If you have ever been detained by PD before, real law enforcement issue handcuffs feel way different than bdsm/sex store handcuffs. Also, it's standard practice for law enforcement to at least have you interlock your fingers on your head and Pat you down, even if they just want to chat. If these things didn't happen most likely it was a complete scam. So sorry this happened to you:(

When it is the cracking/smacking sound specifially that irritating, it could be a form of misophonia. https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/320682.php

Looks like a good online store to me. Not quite sure what types of toys have your interest on there, but if it has moving parts most toys will malfunction or stop working at some point so just keep that in mind if thats your interest. And proper lube goes a long way in long lasting of a toys material. I might consider I few things from this site, if you want PM me and if its something that interests me I might test drive it for you!

Looks like a good online store to me. Not quite sure what types of toys have your interest on there, but if it has moving parts most toys will malfunction or stop working at some point so just keep that in mind if thats your interest. And proper lube goes a long way in long lasting of a toys material. I might consider I few things from this site, if you want PM me and if its something that interests me I might test drive it for you!

Interesting, because they could just charge/earn more for full escorting sessions.

Interesting, because they could just charge/earn more for full escorting sessions.

Just want to show appreciation for the gentlemen here who give accounts of actually reading an ad. Diamonds in the rough.

Just want to show appreciation for the gentlemen here who give accounts of actually reading an ad. Diamonds in the rough.

Its definitely a great idea to consider, would just be the right thing for only a select few or select circumstances. Personally, I would currently be open to a weekend or week per month with this type of co-op arrangement. I don't desire to be "taken off the market" by any means. But to be hired by a group for an agreed upon amount for several days each month.....so many bodies and body parts mmm:p:eek:

What can I say, I am brutally honest at times. I won't disclose a true average however, but on the low end when it seems the universe is against me a monthly income would be around $2000, not much different from an entry level job. The incentive would be stability and a guaranteed amount in mine, and most cases really. It would be amazing to be guaranteed even a stable $3,000/month really, but I would be giving up over triple that in potential. Personally I would be extremely hard pressed to do something like that unless there was other types of benefits accompanied that would aid in a long term benefit. And on the polyamory point as it would relate to the OP's suggestion of a co-op, all parties involved would have to be on a similar wavelength to a poly group, otherwise it could get real messy real fast, especially with money involved.

It would take a combination of an escort and the group of clients with the right frame of mind, circumstances, and expectations. Averages don't fully apply in this business, more ranges, and I can't speak for other escorts but for me the higher end of my income range is $12,000+ per month after flight and hotel expenses. I would't be opposed to a co-op type arrangement, but the total compensation would have to be close to that upper range of my potential earnings to close up shop so to say, or would be open to negotiation if certain networking opportunities could arise from the group for me. I view escorting as running a business however, others who are escorting as a means to an ends might have a different outlook on what terms would be acceptable to them.

I thought it could be some type of network issue. I just wanted to stay on top of it and see if it was anything on my end since I made improvements to the site today and don't want anyone to have viewing issues. Thanks!

So it was because the potential clients browser was outdated then?

A potential client sent me a screenshot last week showing that this was the message they got when they tried to view my personal website. They clicked on the link I sent them through Whatsapp on their iphone. Anyone know what would cause this error and message?

Leather flogger, but I do have that spiked paddle as well?

Interesting enough too when I asked that question I was thinking more clients would say they think a traveling escort would at least have 5 appointments in a day.

Keep in mind when someone is more open minded and versed in more things besides sex like myself, some of the appointments on the more than 3 days involve fetishes and bdsm that would have absolutely no impact on my ability and the quality of future appointments that day. In fact just got a new flogger at Folsom Fair for any who are interested??

In an even more non pro setting than other platforms, you will get anything ranging from $40/60 for gas, food, books, bills, all the way up to $300+ with costs for extras still in play.

Porn addiction is real. I personally ditched basically half of my senior year of high school because I could not stop watching porn and jacking off. Also had to make up a college course or two after missing writing assignments and going from typing to surfing porn and have been late to work in previous jobs. One of the reasons I choose to do sex work is because it's an outlet for all that horniness and I feel I can focus on school assignments and other priorities more than when porn occupied a lot of my time.

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Devils advocate for a second, trust does go both ways. If you are not going to trust him, he has little reason to trust you either. And I rebuttal of "your method being standard" in this instance would come off condescending and sarcastic, which is probably what triggered him to go off. Which is still no excuse and completely unacceptable from his end. I also prefer payment once a client arrives, so I don't have to worry about it becoming an issue and can fully concentrate on our time together. That being said I only request that from clients maybe 10% of the time. Its all about reading the room. If I suspect the client could be shady, ill ask them to put it out by the tv when they are undressing. Food for thought as well, if an escort is preoccupied with if they will get stiffed at the end of the session, how good of quality will the session play out? And asking to pay after before even showing up kind of puts that worry in the forefront. So its ends up being kind of a social justice issue so to speak in that escorts should do more to eliminate taking appointments with potential shady clients, and clients should do more to eliminate booking potentially shady escorts. Payment before/after would be less of an issue then.

Use public transit whenever possible. Saves on gas and maintenance of driving and for the most part eliminates traffic/accident delays. I would approach each time on a case by case basis, but would never charge more than 20/30 dollars extra, and I personally try to avoid traveling more time one way to an outcall than the time I will spend with the client. That being said I have traveled 2+hours and double the distance from SF to San Jose in Southern California for appointments. Most of the time for regulars and most of the time don't ask for reimbursement for travel time and costs. Those clients appreciate that I handle everything and they get to sip on a glass of wine and just wait with horny anticipation with no fuss.

It depends on your availability and when you are looking to meet. If it later that day maybe a couple hours. If you are planning on advance, at the end of the day or next morning. Just make sure your message is concise, don't have too much expectations for a reply back to a "Hi, how are you" message.

I get that. I only have done one day twice. Once my second time in Philadelphia still trying to feel it out. And this in trip in Boston, although I am going back for a second 1 day at the tail end of my trip tomorrow. Only reason I did it this trip is because freaking Boston's hotel costs can be higher than even NYC sometimes. I rather plan 1 day and stick to it than cancel a 2 or 3 day trip because regulars are out of town or I don't have a lot of prebookings with higher travel/stay costs. When I say I go, I go?