MrMattBig

Actually, if one sends a picture through rentmen that is not anywhere else online using a fake dedicated email to login, keep conversation on rentmen only, and uses VPN/makes their location private through rentmen settings, it's actually not really possible to trace the source of where the photo was sent. I'll concede that someone really malicious can still find means to use the picture to blackmail. But tracing the source should not become an issue especially because someone that concerned should educate themselves on how to protect themselves before proceeding to hire.

This is true, but when confronted with fear, common sense and mental toughness rarely prevail.

Sorry, nothing against you, partially fueled by other interactions I am having today but.... can we all start acting like adults and be upfront and transparent? Don't continue to add to the ghosting culture and not respond...you don't want to send pic, say so. if you are looking for certain interests, say so. If you changed you mind or can't make it say so...even if it is a made up excuse. Stop ghosting and not responding!! rant over.

More importantly, a cop would be less likely to have the patience to send a pic and go along with other intricacies of setting an appointment. It will be more them asking if a provider does certain acts for certain amounts, or asking any number of sexual questions. That's why it is better, as a prospective client, to just say what YOU are into (similar to a I like walk on the beach statement) and then ask if you guys are a match when available etc. Asking for a pic is a slight, super slight way to deter law enforcement, and a lame one at that.

I find that throughout all methods of interaction we as Americans behave similarly to what @hypothetically mentions. But I find it's not from a point of insecurity or privacy necessarily. We just rather get information about others than reveal any about ourselves, especially first. I believe sometimes valid concerns about privacy have influenced us as a collective whole to be reluctant to reveal info, whether subconsciously or actively. I posted a thread before about if others on here either state what they are into or ask a provider first, because I then have to navigate believability by saying everything, worry about turning someone off by saying something too outlandish, or construct a reply that would satisfy the person asking. It really baffles me that, as someone who contacts a provider, why more can't/won't state what they are looking for before or concurrently asking what the provider is into.

It would be maybe too much, but there should be 1. Home location 2. Cities of interest 3. Scheduled travels And have current location auto update with scheduled travels and revert back to home location. Automatically when there are none.

"Not sure if I feel comfortable doing that, as some providers use that tactic to discriminate or only see attractive clients." Or "I can/have sent you my stats. Not sure about sending a pic, may I ask why you are asking for one?" Factor their response into your decision to proceed or not.

@Daniel84 is there any particular phrasing or punctuation that he used or particular way he introduced himself in the beginning? Disclosing info that this could be helpful. I have avoided a few stalker like people by paying attention to things like this as they have tried to use different numbers. When it comes to loonies and scammers, there is almost always some kind of tell or gimmick that they use over and over again.

Semantics really. Based off browsing his profile real quick, I would suspect what could be meant is his face is airbrushed with a photo editor or that his body may be slimer in the pictures. Just means I'm someway shape or form he doesn't look exactly like his pictures. Smallest thing or really major.

Rates could be higher simply by how they value themselves, from a mindset of "if you pay me xxx I'll do abc". Knowledge of going rates may or may not be there. Giving advice is always a gamble as you never know how someone will respond. Especially if advice was not asked for. Instead of going an advice route for someone you haven't met yet, phrase things in a different way. "That's a bit out of range for me. Guys here usually charge xyz give or take a $20 or two, and that is what I was prepared to contribute. If you can accommodate this then let's move forward." Yes it would be a counteroffer scenario, but you are giving the context or market rates and what others charge as well within that.

Lol, starting this thread will serve as my last comment regarding that subject ?

There is definitely something to say about the uniform. When I was younger I took an EMT training course. We had to wear training uniforms just like other first responder training, I felt sexy and horny just from wearing my uniform, let alone seeing everyone else!

I would say to some extent. There are wide numbers of men in macho or masculine roles who feel they still maintain their masculinity by refraining from kissing with m/m sexual interactions.

Should it be allowed? Just thinking out loud...

Could help with energy could not, at the very least it with have emotional and mental impacts, I know I live some warm sun on by cheeks at least. Personally, it's irresponsible and negligent to just blatantly support this as a wellness benefit. We benefit with Vitamin D from the sun, but a lot of folks have to still avoid direct sun like the plague for other health concerns.

While I can't comment on direct experience or encounter, I am familiar with one of the reviewers handles on his RM profile, and would trust their review and consider him real, accompanied with his decently thoughtful ad copy and volume of pictures.

It's a different strokes thing really. Just as there are multiple types of escorts ( top, bottom, gay, straight, Dom, sub, fem, masculine, etc.) there is just as many types of clients when it comes to scheduling and contact behavior( available now?, Available this weekend?, Available next month?) It just becomes a preference on which type of clientele you want to attract and preference on scheduling tactics. To your point specifically about traveling clients, clients who contact me while they are traveling are split pretty evenly between trying to schedule the same day and inquiring in advance.

My opinion and part experience is "no expectations" means they want to reserve the right to make it into whatever they are feeling once you walk in the door. Escorting I have had guys be like " if I'm not feeling how you look when you get here is it ok if I just leave" . I would imagine a no expectation line in a dating profile of theirs. I have also been turned down by a hot Russian female model once on adult Friend finder for being shorter than she thought once she came to my place. Also had no expectation hookups turn into brief relationships. Just a curt way of saying I may change my motive behind meeting you and be cool with that.

My opinion and part experience is "no expectations" means they want to reserve the right to make it into whatever they are feeling once you walk in the door. Escorting I have had guys be like " if I'm not feeling how you look when you get here is it ok if I just leave" . I would imagine a no expectation line in a dating profile of theirs. I have also been turned down by a hot Russian female model once on adult Friend finder for being shorter than she thought once she came to my place. Also had no expectation hookups turn into brief relationships. Just a curt way of saying I may change my motive behind meeting you and be cool with that.

For me fairly often when I am not busy with appointments. With women I love curvy girls and older women, and with men a thick cut cock. With both I value entertaining certain kinks. It's so annoying to me when people focus so much on looks especially facially. Yeah, a hot face is always nice to look at when cumming, but a steamy encounter and intense orgasm is so much more than staring at someone's face.

For me fairly often when I am not busy with appointments. With women I love curvy girls and older women, and with men a thick cut cock. With both I value entertaining certain kinks. It's so annoying to me when people focus so much on looks especially facially. Yeah, a hot face is always nice to look at when cumming, but a steamy encounter and intense orgasm is so much more than staring at someone's face.

Lol I am not holding on, nor letting go. Simply making factual points while being entertained sipping on some wine. Seems like your the ones worked up. I'm chill af right now ?

The WAY you are defending yourself is.

You may have reviews, but your attitude is far from professional.

Where is the receipt on me saying he is beloved to me? Nothing against gman, but don't draw false assumptions just because I am making you feel some way for calling you out that you don't have proof.