MrMattBig

Sorry for your frustrations ? Just imagine if this behavior from other people affected your ability to earn a living, on top of the frustrations you have experienced. Every. Single. Day. #lifeofanescort

Kissing is an essential part of my existence.

Additionally, it opens up more possiblity for stalking. I have at least 2 people who I actively avoid in San Francisco who consistently hit me up with various usernames and numbers. They contacted me on RM messenger and when I tried to delete their message I had to click on it to delete it, which showed on their end that I read it and continued to harass me that day because of that until I blocked their profile completely, which is something I don't normally do.

I think for the most part your correct that providers seldom used the email option on RM. At the very least the notifications to alert us to new messages via personal email or text has always been flawed or slowed or non existent. What I have noticed though, is an uptick in contact via RM instant messenger, most likely because prospective clients think it's going to be more fluid and instant, but it's not unless I happen to have my laptop open and on the site, and the notifications seem to be even worse than the email system.

Haha no pictures of that. Never had a job moving furniture, was more because I had 3 different apartments at the same time at one point and was subletting them and was furnishing them and moving furniture in and out of each one.

Absolutely possible. I am an escort, but typically don't do pure massage appointments or advertise on massage websites because 60+ minutes of massage aggregates hand and wrist injures I have had in the past from sports and moving furniture.

Grr...fucking bitch$@@!!!$-# I didn't even realize they completely did away with email!!! I used the archive and send copy function to keep track of older messages and chat history because rentmen already stored limited messages over limited time or periodically deleted from their site....I blame sites like Grindr a4a and other design to be deleted dating apps tho as well...it's created the culture or the false pretenses at times to these developers that easy deletion/blocking is more important and desired than actual functionality of communication.

Sorry for the losses in your circle of loved ones brought on by drugs. And I agree symptoms of drug use, especially meth, are more obvious and specific. I just caution others to not be so quick to assume and draw conclusions. Take a minute and think: ok is this from drug use or can it be explained by something else? I have had people think I was on drugs before, before even trying the few that I have. And it is absolutely not fun and not cool to have people assume things that are far from the truth and then treat you differently because of it.

Going to observe how the auto update of travel/current location behaves after my next few destinations then send an email....but from past correspondence with them with issues in the past I am not hopeful.

Anonimity viewpoint: For those who will take issue to stock pictures used that are similar to the actual person, part of the influence to do so comes from the prevailing absolute need at times for those hiring to see a face picture. When I very first started, I did not show my face. I quickly found that to be difficult to say the least, even when saying I would be able to prove the pictures were me in person and posing the same way with the same furniture and bedding in the photos in person. Part of it is to see if the escort is "real", as if showing a picture of a face somehow verifies it's really my face I am sending you. Part of it is needing to be attracted to the escort. But here is the thing: if you are attracted to someone's body enough to actually contact them even though you don't see a face picture, your brain already overided your need of facial attraction in place of bodily attraction. But all this is not realized, and escorts start to feel the pressure to show facial pictures, and in turn to maintain Anonimity and discretion, will in turn use pictures that are similar, while still providing a good experience. Agencies: Agencies almost always use stock photos at various times. I don't know enough about agencies to comment further really, but have always known this to be true with males and females. *I don't condone using pictures that are not someone's own, I absolutely hate the practice. But I know it's sometimes a consequence of client behavior and agency operation, even when the escort may have no ill intention of deception and every intent to deliver a good experience.

Not sure of any specific medical facts, but from experience I have felt the effects of 100 mg of Sildenafil up to 2 days after. Not sure the extent in the bloodstream or measurable effects in tests though.

Yes, that is exactly the case. I just feel if my location is going to be auto updated from my travel schedule, it should not be based on a time zone with a 7 hour time difference outside of my home and travel country.

Unrelated to being down, with rentmen's new my location designation and auto update when traveling, comes with no consideration of a users current or destination time zone. For instance, at 5pm PST today my location auto changed from Vegas to Seattle, with me not intending to change my location till boarding my flight at 8am tomorrow. For all their effort to eliminate confusion with regards to location, they just create more for the client, and for an escort create the false reality that a browsing client wasn't paying attention. I wish rentmen would just get their act together.

This 100 percent. Also, transparency if you need to cancel or lost interest for whatever reason. And talk to an escort like a human being, same as you would a friend or family member, not like how one may think one should communicate with an escort, and not like a 'glorified prostitute'. Today I got a message stating " I want to fuck you", I retorted that he was overly explicit and not to expect an escort take a first message like that seriously, and then he went on to debate with me in full, thoughtful, intelligent even if ignorant, sentences the merits of the emotional and mental positives that can come from meeting an escort and insisting I am a glorified prostitute who just fucks to earn a living. Just baffling how some think they should talk to someone and treat them as something less than themselves just because they are a sex worker.

Actually, a private memorial service was held earlier this month. This was just as much still for Kobe and his family, as an entire sports community and the city of LA. Kobe was a public figure, and Vanessa helped put together something that appealed in that regard. With that being said, I thought Christina Aguilera and Alicia Keys made more sense and were much more poignant and personal.

Just add "not looking for anyone who does pnp. Being with someone under the influence makes me extremely uncomfortable, and prefer someone who is fully there mentally as well as physically. I added @hypothetically 's post because some 'signs' can be explained with benign causes. I for one am almost always 10 minutes late, run warm from caffeine consumption and genetics, am a night time teeth grinder and have found myself doing it when stressed, and I dont pnp.

Being 'platinum' on rentmen is $1 per hour, minimum 12 hours, or can convert to per day and cover 30 days for $540. This is on top of the 79.99 or the 39.99 if you have been advertising before the price increase and not lapse in payment. Being platinum puts you on top, which can pay off huge, or with relatively no change in client acquisition. Advertising is psychology, always being on top with platinum is appealing to the psychology of certain groups and mindsets of browsers. This is in addition to target level of inquires for an advertiser. Reviews is psychology, in terms of what triggers someone to leave a review, regardless of the experience they had, and the convenience and usefulness of leaving one. In terms of reviews as well consider these scenarios: Someone could be leaving positive reviews for a mediocre performance if they feel they could use that as leverage to get discounts and take advantage. Someone could also leave a bad review that just had an ax to grind and is more indicative of an ill tempered client than the escorts performance.

Thank you for pointing out the discretion part. I had a checking account closed after only being overdrawn 83 dollars for about 5 business days several years ago, because of bank discretion. They opened a "second chance" account for me which they again closed within the first month, due to bank discretion. While for the laws and regulations mentioned 'structuring' is the more relevant issue, most people really don't realize how much an employee or individuals discretion on a matter circumvents the letter of the rule being followed.

I agree that technology has played a part in this. Those that might have been escorts see a better trade off posting content rather than having to have sex with someone they might not normally be attracted to. And those that would have been clients see a better trade off paying less money to still see those they would have had sex with, even if only digitally. I also think, the same as with sexuality and racism, while generally there is a more accepting social norm to sex work/escorting, sexual identity, and racial equality, the ends of the spectrum have become very polarized. Meaning, there is still way to big a sigma attached to "having sex for money". For example, its almost always more easily received having/being a sugar daddy rather then being/hiring an escort. Take that stance, combine it with social media and technology, and Onlyfans instead is where we end up. Just this week since changing my social media names and RM name, even though I haven't really posted anything new, I have had the only 2 DMs on Twitter and Instagram ask if i did private pics for purchase, rather than ask about meeting, and a fellow escort in Vegas ask if I would be interested in shooting content with him.

To answer the OP... If a male escort is usually a textapp/burner number, because a lot of escorts (both male and female do), and since there is naturally more female escorts than male escorts (hetero clients vs gay clients) There is actually a fairly good probability that a male escort will get a number that has been used by female escort in the past. The slight red flag (the same that exists among clients in the eyes of an escort) is how often a number is changed or the presence of other red flags now coupled with the ease to switch numbers and avoid accountability.

I appreciate the nod @BabyBoomer I am not networked with any female escorts to do duos with currently But working on fixing that in the next several months

Funny that you say if only there was some SOP for client-provider communications......your quote above is typically standard for human-human communications. I have found that true in non "working " hookups, selling/buying items, finding roommates, and other scenarios. I just expect this as the norm now whenever communicating digitally with anyone (text, email, even voice calls sometimes) and then pleasantly surprised and emotionally/intellectually turned on when someone communicates with well rounded responses.

Hi there everyone. Happy Valentine's Day! Just switched to a new url for my website and changed my Rentmen ad to match. If we have met before here's the new info so you don't lose me. And if we haven't met before, here's the new info so you can find me, lol https://www.meetmattanthony.com/ https://rent.men/MattAnthony

Lol, I remember when I first found out there was another USC (University of South Carolina). Being from southern California, I only knew University of Southern California. I felt so silly. What I overheard was directions from the Galen Center in Southern California

Also, while keeping in mind everyone likes things to feel organic, fun, and spontaneous, as escorts we get pulled along with endless questions everyday, so if you don't have a certain level of conciseness, you might blend into those time wasters. Also, carrying on a conversation too long might lead to someone else swooping in and booking that time before you. Whatever you do, don't reply "avail?" Or "rates?" Or "looking" or "into?" These one word messages I am sure have had a many a escort throw their phone in disgust too many times to count. Happy hunting!