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MrMattBig

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  1. Depends on the provider. I can do 3 times 3 days in a row before needing a day of rest. But a night time appointment would be just as fulfilling, but just just not as much "stock" to give.
  2. I would venture to say that it might be hard to find a masseur who will kiss and cum. Those things fall more into the escort realm, and if they did everything they would most likely be escorts and not masseurs. If you are looking for a massage to evolve into something where kissing and cumming will occur, I would suggest find a masseur who also escorts, and expect to pay an upcharge. Or, hire an escort who will start with a massage and evolve it from there.
  3. MrMattBig

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    Ultimately, this is a failure and perpetuation of problems on Rentmen and other platforms behalf. Bisexuality has been stigmatized in the past as said person being truly gay, I truly wish Pan-sexual was an option as well. As someone who truly is pan-sexual, I feel I am under represented and mislabeled in terms of someone's general opinion by having to chose bisexual. Also, I wish there were such options as 'hetro-flexible' or 'mostly straight'. There is more flexibility in choosing position (vers/top, vers/bottom, top, bottom, versatile) and that should be parallel with orientation as well.
  4. Vegas is definitely a transient town. My clientele in Vegas is currently made up of approximately 50% random travelers, 40% travelers I have met in other cities, and 10% locals. In my experience local hiring income and clients expectations of rates goes right along with general cost of living in the city as well, so in Vegas it will be lower than say Los Angeles. My suggestion would be to try out traveling to Los Angeles since it is close and cultivate clientele there as well.
  5. Cumming dildos have been around for at least 8+ years actually. Technology and the realistic experience have progressed over the years though. I remember seeing recipes that resembled a simple syrup mixture, others include milk or yogurt. There are also lubes that are designed to mimic cum in look and viscosity
  6. On the other end I have declined accepting appointments based off the area/hotel choice of a client as well. And I explained why as well (the hotel always had pimps and drug dealers around). Escorts deal with stalkers and law enforcement issues, so even the most courteous and professional escorts may not feel comfortable giving the hotel specifics out so much in advance. I would couple your question with stating that you have had bad experiences with lower tier hotels and arriving in unsavory or dangerous conditions. That way the provider with have a better sense of your concerns and where you are coming from.
  7. I have had an instance where someone booked, flaked and played lookie loo and played stalker and voyeur in the hotel lobby for several hours. So I would have to slightly disagree with giving out hotel information days before/early. I will say there is no reason not to give out cross streets, train station stops your near etc, to the same points you mentioned.
  8. There are profiles on RM that have been viewing page for years with no contact or have been confirmed as flakes. I don't block them. Personally just makes me chuckle and have appreciation for all the regulars that I do have. I will ignore or triage messages accordingly to those that have viewed excessively, because at the very least it shows they may be hesitant. And to me, excessively isn't the amount of times someone views me, but the total time period that this happens across (i.e. months, years).
  9. Most, if they are busy and maintain good business and get consistent inquires, would probably not entertain this idea. It depends on their business model however, so you never know. Quickies are definitely a business model with some female escorts. Some would even just text their rate and their hotel address and told you to call when you're there, at least in the Craigslist and Backpage era. One might think, hey it's still money going into the escorts pocket when it wouldn't be there anyways. But, would an escort possibly be telling a client that they are unavailable for a full rate appointment or longer because they now took the quickie appointment? Absolutely possible. Your best bet for a quickie rate and situation would probably be Grindr, or at the very least if you approach an escort with this, ask when they are not busy so you don't interfer with other appointments.
  10. If you didn't feel rushed, I wouldn't write a review in your shoes. This exact situation is why I try my hardest to maintain a 2 hour rule in between end time of one appointment and beginning of the next. It just seems to me like it was bad scheduling on his part. I think reviews should be for really good or really bad experiences. Shorted time but will see him again, I would hold off reviewing till after the next session, and review on the shorted time happening twice if it happens again, or review on how he knocked your socks off!
  11. If someone filed an order of protection against you and is contacting you by WHATEVER method THEY are in violation of the order. If there is still a court date pending, bring evidence of the correspondence to the hearing, almost guaranteed the judge with denial the permanent order. Speaking from first hand experience from past roommate situations.
  12. If it's a VoiP number, it's many escorts will use such numbers, it's actually not that off the odds for that number to then be grabbed up by another provider. This would explain the results related to a different person.
  13. My 2 cents on community college versus a 4 year starting out as a freshman: pros and cons to each and depends on the areas and systems. At least in Southern California regarding online courses, a lot of community college professors are adjunct professors that teach at the major regional 4 year universities. So you end up getting the same education, and the systems are set up to be as smooth a transition as possible.
  14. Hey guys, this day has me a bit rattled with the stupidity and psychotic behavior us escorts have to deal with sometimes. Which made me contemplate getting back into porn. I've only done 3 scenes and am reluctant to do more. If I do I would want it to be on my terms coupled with the onlyfans type of angle as well as studios. My question is though, what type of porn gets you guys going? Would you be turned off by a porn star doing all types (gay bi straight trans etc)? Is there certain body types and acts in porn that you gravitate to or steer away from? I would still be escorting so I would want to make sure that whatever types of scenes I may do only heighten my client stream and not deminish it.
  15. This is a scam, I know because one girl that I tried to coach a year or so back would do this on Tinder and OkCupid. They are just trying to get "suckers" to send them money. When the girl wouldn't stop, I stopped associating with her. Sad because she had real potential ?
  16. Complicated and tough. My opinion teenagers should start learning how to function as responsible independent adults at 16 or so to prepare them for the "real world". If he is going to be ultimately cut off from his family financially, he should defer enrollment to get himself grounded and stable and go him against the world the next year.
  17. Agree! As another input, it's always refreshing when there is not the added pressure to perform at 110% within an hour time and to let things flow organically. As escorts, we are still human. Drinks + appetizers + sexual tension, count me in!?
  18. I think this is hot? But for deterring/avoiding law enforcement in my opinion is tacky and antiquated. For arguments sake, what if it does end up being a law enforcement official with award winning acting and a stone cold poker face?!
  19. It would definitely be a safer bet to have a great experience!! As far as law enforcement, just don't be overly explicit, for example "I just want to suck your cock is 200 ok?" Or " so for 250 will you top me?" Just avoid drawing a link between money and sex acts and you will be 99.9999% fine.
  20. It's always possible. Are you talking in general or is there a specific ad that you are skeptical about?
  21. Thanks @Monarchy79 that's a perfect explanation. The whole "yass" "bitch" "gurl" thing can definitely be toxic as you described it at times. I don't think it is in most cases, but I think it is important to recognize that it can be, and important to realize this amongst those who talk this way as well. I still don't feel one should need to be repulsed by it
  22. I have no problem with you stating your honest mind. Honesty is how people should communicate under most circumstances. I am simple pointing out how the use of such strong connotative language can affect the impact of how something is interpreted. You say it doesn't make sense and is stupid. I can have a related sentiment in that those who use that language in my experience tend to be accompanied with more drama. Not all the time but just my experiences. To say there is a repulsion to that language, well now that takes the meaning of what you are says to a different place. That's all.
  23. At least for me, the issue is with you using such hatefully connotative language such as "rather repulsive". Its just slang/cultural language. If it doesn't make sense to you or is stupid, that's fine, but no need to feel repulsed by it. Not to say your homophobic, but to me that's the same type of mental processing that leads to homophobia and other prejudices in our culture as a whole.
  24. This highlights sometimes the difference between porn and reality and how porn can distort ones view on reality. I've been hired by several couples for this type of scene (cuckold). And while most others as well as myself would probably characterize myself as neutral in terms of masculinity/femininity, they chose me instead of an Uber masculine type of guy. Part of the reason is that they wanted someone to fuck their wife better than the husband, as well as be sensitive and aware to both of their comfortability levels. And they ultimately felt that that would best achieved with someone who does not embody the stereotypical agressive assertiveness that comes with "masculinity".
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