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MrMattBig

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  1. Not sure I quite understand your reply, but I am just commenting on the hypocrisy that can be interpreted when the shoe is on the other foot.
  2. It is not awkward, but please try to book in advance, if you don't, don't be surprised or upset when you finally do try to schedule something that said escort is already booked or unavailable. It becomes awkward and uncomfortable when a prospective client becomes upset when this happens after they saved your number for future reference. It makes us feel guilty and helpless because we can't control who booked when and how long before you contacted us.
  3. Anytime someone pesters anyone in this industry for more explicit details after a initial response has been given, CAUTION/AVOID Interesting enough, that seems to be the sentiment here, but I was damn near persecuted for taking the same precautions when I first joined this site.
  4. I would venture to say a service provider's overhead costs (i.e. massage table, oils, lotion, training, travel costs, furnishings, etc.) are a greater drive for market prices.
  5. "What I am into" is indicative of describing interests, which in turn is describing attributes of oneself. This is no different than listing stats. What crosses the line of sexual acts or implied sexual acts would be listing a "menu" or "services". RM does give the option to list "boyfriend experience" under "available for". This is probably the most substantial thing that can get RM in trouble.
  6. This is actually a very valid point. Politicians across the board probably considered the better PR move, rather than make an actual informed vote. As an escort, image is crucial, and for government officials it is no exception. That's extremely worrisome, isn't the government supposed to be by the people, for the people, rather than look at what looks good for reelection? How the news outlets are covering this is worrisome as well. They are completely make it seem that it's just about sex trafficking, and it's law enforcement that is telling news outlets this in such a way. With Trump blasting fake news all the time, it's hard to see that sometimes information is beyond just simply real or fake. News is always has the potential to be biased, incomplete, or not 100 percent true. I have actually witnessed this first hand. There was a police involved shooting over a domestic dispute at the local courthouse where I used to live a few years back. The guy had a knife and the police shot and killed him. What the news reported is that the knife welding man was rushed to the hospital and died there, what actually happened is that they shot him and he died right where they shot him outside the courthouse. Only one ambulance came for the domestic voilence victim for knife wounds, and when I made my way out, I could see his body on the ground, and stood on site for 30-45 minutes after trying to see if I could get my car out from the police baracade, and they never rushed the attacker to the hospital. Always consider what someone else says or does even reporters, as possibly flawed. Once this bill was born, possibly as a political PR move or personal vendetta, it was always going to pass. Like Gman said, who would vote against stopping sex trafficking?
  7. We are on the path that pretty soon nsa hookups will be assumed as containing a transaction. (
  8. Not to go into the whole issue here, but if you are stating you feel the emphasis is to crackdown on underage prostitution and those forced into it, wouldn't that apply to investigation for such cases on RentMen and gay sites full of adult males as well? Identification can be faked.
  9. No fluffer job title, but plenty of cross over roles to fulfill that task!
  10. Yours truly is the newest featured model on Menonedge.com Current shooting location for my scene was based in Las Vegas
  11. Most banks actually have a cash deposit limit amount per month. The government gets alerted to possible money laundering through this process.
  12. I have taken a check before only from someone I trusted and knew was good for the check. Familiarity and trust are key if you are looking to pay using non-cash methods.
  13. Cash app is awesome as it is the same as Square. Venmo is a branch of PayPal now, so I only use Venmo as a secondary option considering PayPal's history amongst sex workers.
  14. I (as well as a few other professional escorts) will take electronic payments via Cash.me and other mediary payment apps for clients we have seen in the past.
  15. 1. Have you had a chance to view my website? It will describe more about me, and the type of experience we could have together. 2. If you are asking me to describe myself, I would consider myself equally versatile 3. I come prepared to every meeting ready to handle any situation. To speak more broadly, if you speak in terms of describing yourself, there is no harm in that. For example, you state as a client " I am a power bottom into fisting". My reply would be " oh, sounds like we would get along great together". The problem would be if we talk about actively doing that act together. If you said " I am a bottom, are you able to fuck me and cum in my mouth?" If I said yes, that is agreeing to a sex act, and when money is involved, that is prostitution. Also, if my profile and website say I am vers and a switch, do I inherently have to be more top or bottom? If I am into both, but you are only looking to top or bottom, is that a turn off to some?
  16. I agree 1000 percent!!! I think it very important to never discuss sexual acts when inquiring or arranging a meeting. The problem is that most inquires demand that they verify you will do XYZ if they are to pay you x dollars. This is why the idea of the disclaimer emerged to try and protect both parties. Not to mention, law enforcement tends to pick targets to investigate for human trafficking and prostitution, so having a disclaimer helps communicate "I am not falling for your tricks"
  17. Preference in marketing vernacular.
  18. I agree, the mention of no money of sexual acts proceeding the consenting adults phrase is what suggests that is what the consenting adults are doing: sex. If disclaimers read "Money exchanged is a donation to help with living costs. Anything that occurs during our time together is between two consenting adults", without the mention of sex, everything would be better. The mere mention of sex when money is involved is the real culprit that makes disclaimers faulty.
  19. I am taking appointments:D Tell me what's on your mind...
  20. You just stole my heart!! Might have to schedule a visit to Seattle soon!:p
  21. It's simply this: Insinuating sex acts with money involved for a set amount of time together Vs Helping someone become a better version of themselves through health improvements with money involved for a set amount of time together.
  22. All rates and fees stated and discussed are for my time only, with the purpose and intent of serving as your personal enrichment guide. I accomplish this using the knowledge I have acquired as a self-taught alternative sex-positive therapist; aiding in the improvement of sexual and psychological health, happiness, competence, and emotional and spiritual well-being. As such, the only services I provide are consulting, counseling, coaching, and therapeutic introspection training. No quid pro quo exists in regards to my time or services. " The OP's example insinuates a sex act is taking place by the phrase "consenting adults". Furthermore, this phrase is ancient and worn, so much so that law enforcement knows how to get around that disclaimer/defense so easily. Throw them a curve ball, they won't know what to do with it.
  23. I find this generic disclaimer useless. Like all things in life, growth, evolution, and ingenuity lead to betterment. This is my current disclaimer on my website. "All rates and fees stated and discussed are for my time only, with the purpose and intent of serving as your personal enrichment guide. I accomplish this using the knowledge I have acquired as a self-taught alternative sex-positive therapist; aiding in the improvement of sexual and psychological health, happiness, competence, and emotional and spiritual well-being. As such, the only services I provide are consulting, counseling, coaching, and therapeutic introspection training. No quid pro quo exists in regards to my time or services. "
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