MrMattBig

Darn I missed my free taco To the OP, sorry you had two lame experiences. As a former fast food worker, I can honestly say experiences come down to location and shifts. If I partake in ordering fast food, I tend to only go to locations during certain days/shifts that I have gotten a good impression from the workers. When I used to work at Jack in the Box, I would have customers complain to me about other workers on other shifts, and was scheduled for weekend graveyard shifts because I was one of the only workers who could handle those conditions. As a customer if you just go to a fast food place out of the blue/spur of the moment more times than not it's going to be mediocre or worse. Black Friday is definitely overrated...I have done it twice more to hang out with friends than to shop and that made it fun, but I would never do it just for shopping.

Every aspect happens all the time. Personally, I find it rather distasteful when another escort just assumes I'll be into them and fuck them for free, without even asking if I have any plans or appointments later. Common courtesy and respect please. But the overall answer is yes. @hypothetically is spot on!

Congrats to the Raptors for a war of a series, but damn! When the injury bug hits it's an infection! Klay went down with what is a torn ACL and potentially out all of next year just like KD ((

Similar situation years ago...learned to go to the DMV and get a replacement for a lost ID/DL (even though not lost) to have a back up. Replacement fee is involved, but a relatively easy solution to have "secondary" identification that will be accepted by all.

Game 5 win, and utter heartbreak.

Just the culture now as well. When I occasionally try to hook up just for fun, from guys, girls, and tgirls, they will initiate contact first, then when I try to gauge their availability and location, next thing they message is "pics?" In a working capacity it's worse. I can understand if someone is concerned with me being them same person in the pics, but articulate please. Across the board, more and more people seem to need pics to validate their interest in anything.

I know it's different between massage and escorting, but as a provider I am more likely to give less priority to a "are you available for a massage". Any version of "available"or "rates" are the types of messages that get lumped in. If I was the provider in question, I would respond well to, "Hi, hope you are doing well. I saw you a few months ago and I will be back in town visiting. Would love to see you (xyz day during xyz time of day for an xyz length of time. Would that work for you or what other times are you available?"

I don't like to be rude back, but if I had been in your shoes I would have finished the text you were typing, and then followed with "If that's going to be your attitude then I will have to end up passing sorry"

I definitely agree to an extent with what you mentioned about "trying", regarding both femininity and masculinity. Probably stems from the fact that our society is so judgemental and so binary, that we adopt sometimes certain tendencies of the crowd, consciously and unconsciously to identify with the group that seems more accepting of us. That's why this topic is so interesting to me. There's talk about oh this person is too effeminate for me or not masculine enough. Where is there room for someone to just be "normal"? If a person is not the right fit of femininity or masculinity for you, where's the talk of just saying "not sure if we would click"? It's always a pressure of fitting a prototype of a level of masculinity, and that pressure can make certain individuals insecure enough to over emphasize one way or the other.

Hopefully we get KD back and Iggy hangs in there too. Tough game 1 loss

You are right, we all know what characteristics we would normally characterize as masculine or feminine. There's nothing wrong in sharing ideas or examples of what we "already know". And it's also especially important to point out and acknowledge there are exceptions outside the norm like you just mentioned. To draw a conclusion from what you said about outside the norm, not everything that "we know" is really what we know.

Was just trying to create some dialogue... And it's interesting to consider does the absence of either confirm in truth the alternative? Does not necessary masculine default to being effeminate? Does not being effeminate default to being masculine?

To add another layer that I'm curious about: What characteristics identify someone as masculine or effeminate? Overall appearance, facial expressions, wardrobe, mannerisms, tone of voice? Thoughts?

Even then, you only have to do that once to have the designation. It does show the date of it though. For example, my profile says I was photo verified 21 April, 2016. But that picture can just be deleted afterwards and someone can go back to using entirely fake pictures afterwards.

All RM requires is a picture of you holding your ID to be on file. In no way does that have any bearing on the pictures an advertiser posts. But it looks good for optics.

If the second guy is adding a travel fee and wants to guarantee you are real, offer to call him an Uber to your place.

13 inch dick!

It's is definitely plausible and I implore a practice that's both similar but very different. I like to maintain the possibility of both topping and bottoming for every session, so I like to spread my appointments out to ensure my capabilities to do so. If someone inquires for a date or time that I know my abilities might be questionable, I reply back that I am unavailable or booked for that day and either suggest a different date and time or ask them what other availability they have in their schedule.

Could be not into you, or could be taking only tops so he won't have to worry about getting it up for one more client after a weekend of doing so. Could be both, who knows. Either way he went about it very distastefully in my opinion.

To be good at orally pleasuring a woman, it takes a talented tongue as well as being atuned to her responses. In my opinion, that's probably the biggest thing that carries over to a good m2m rimming.

Absolutely not. A definitive yes is needed and reconfirm at 2.5-3hours before you drive 2 hours and get a room.

The nostalgia *sigh*

@Unicorn My condolences to you and your family. I think you shouldn't worry too much about information being used for nefarious reasons, but focus on what would bring you to a point of peace and closure. It also seems that posting an obituary would help do that for your sister as well, so that's something to consider as well. Also, would any unwanted individuals come out of the wood work by doing so? Coming to terms with a loss and celebrating their life can be a sensitive time, I think ultimately you should do whatever feels right in both those regards.

I have had a client before with a similar looking penis. They had said it was a botched circumcision for theirs. I did not mind, still was very hard and tasty!

I see, was slightly confused on what you meant by your last post lol That's exactly my point for trying to not discuss rates, especially as the very first message. -"How much?" -"240/hr" That just seems way too callous to create a great genuine intimate interaction.