MrMattBig

Question to clients: When asking for or wanting recent pictures, how recent are you asking for?

The red flags to me are he is new to RM and visiting, as well as the briefness of his ad. NOT the error in a drop down menu selection.

I'm under 28:( Experiment with different kinds, as well as different lubes. Personally, if my dick is not well lubricated before the condom, it causes discomfort as goes soft, so that could be a reason as well.

Keep in mind maturity has nothing to do with age.

I agree, I am a client myself from time to time. You should be able to know what the person you want to hire looks like. If there is enough pictures to do so, I think asking for any type of picture is a poorly formed question. Because in the case of the OP, the real question is "are you going to be the same person in the pictures?" If you just ask for more pictures, no matter the type, their are so many possibilities as to the why behind that. And an escorts response will be shaped considering those other possibilities as well, and you possibly will get an erroneous answer in regards to the actual reason why you asked that. It's like in statistics, you learn that the way sometime questions are asked and data is collected can produce a biased or flawed result. Asking for a picture is no different. Just simply ask the question behind the reason why you are asking for a picture and go from there. If the method to prove the person is real requires a picture, so be it. But at least you will be receiving a more pure and genuine response.

He clearly self describes as Canadian American in text in his ad headline, so obviously the Latin is a selection mistake on the drop down menu (Latin is one below Caucasian). As for pics, he was probably super annoyed about the three fingers selfie. Is is a distasteful way to ask if someone is "real". And also dangerous, because if he is real, his point of view could be that if he produces this picture, now someone can send it when anyone else asks for a 3 finger selfie, making a fake using his pictures more enabled to pull it off. You want to ensure he is real. I get it. I hire too. DONT ASK FOR MORE PICS IF HE ALREADY HAS SOME UP. IInstead ask..." You are really hot, I want to be sure that you are really the person in the pics, and not someone usually a models pics on social media" One of three things will happen, he will verbally assure you in an affirmative and gratitious way, offer to send you a picture or video chat on his own volition, or ghost you completely.

Jeopardy answer to this question... What is Fosta/Sesta?

On the other hand, because this is not a vanilla job, it's not exactly typical to hire a secretary to answer calls and set appointments. Therefore escorts should become accustomed to act as their own secretary as part of the job description. At least they should become an average one at best. I would personally grade myself an A in scheduling but a B in responding to new inquires. Personally, as with others on both sides of the fence, messages end up getting triaged. A detailed message that already states interests and well as availability will usually get responded to promptly. Messages that just say hey, saw your ad, will usually be responded to last, and depending on the volume of incoming texts, run the risk of being overlooked on accident. Be concise out there!

As with most in life, you should never offer blind trust at a face value assessment. What will do you well diving into hiring is developing a strong sense of investigation, learning subtle clues of offerings as well as red flags, and being knowledgeable of exactly what you hope to get out of your time with an escort.

Thanks for your input! My time is limited by family and school obligations, but I definitely have the energy to accommodate everyone! I am very knowledgeable of my body, energy levels, and capabilities. I feel that I am at a perfect equilibrium with pricing, number of appointments and income, and don't plan to raise my rates until at least next year when I am able to put on more muscle. My question is not so much looking for advice as to try and ascertain what clients opinions and expectations are when it comes to price and time/activities.

I agree with you 1000 percent!!! However, money is for "time spent together", and I believe in hammering that ideal home to would be clients instead of having some saying " Will you take 100, I just want to suck you". Those responses I ignore out right. And I do have a basement price that I won't bother to get ready for anything less than said price. Also, to the person that just said no thanks, I politely responded, "no worries, let me know when you are able to save up your funds, but keep in mind I do have a busy schedule so don't wait too long. Hope to meet in the future". Kill them with kindness

Absolutely! I am business minded when it comes to pricing, I have my rate at 240, to allow room to take 200 on a super selective case by case basis. Anything less that is offered to me, in my eyes is not sufficient negotiation if you are going to offer someone more than 20% less than what they are asking for. In those instances I offer a 30 minute appointment. I view things from both sides of the fence as I hire occasionally as well. I just want to get a sense on what someone sees just on the hiring side as I am not impartial because I see both sides.

Question to clients... What is your typical price range and how much time and how "detailed" do you expect that time to be in accordance with your price range? I ask because I just had some inquire about my rates. I reponded with my hourly rate of 240. They proceeded to say it was outside their range. Not wanting this person to miss out on a great experience, I asked them what their budget was. They said 140, to which I said I could meet them for 30 minutes for that amount. Their response was "thanks, but I will pass". Did I respond to them with a reasonable offer?

All this just goes to show, it's not a generational phenomenon that accounts for a lack of communication. I have perused many threads that insinuate it's a Millennial thing. It stems simply from one party caring more about their immediate needs than the other. This can happen at any demographic imaginable at any time.

It is a turn off and a deal killer when a client inquiries for a "student discount" or a "VGL" discount.

If you are talking about facial geometry and symmetry, you are correct. However, looks are still not 100% objective. There is always some degree of subjectiveness. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder after all.

Sometimes a "client's" vocabulary consists of only five words/questions. 1. Avail? 2. Into? 3. Address? 4. Rates? 5. Pics?

No!!!

If clients are explicit, expect an escort to ask for a face picture to ensure someone else doesn't show up and bust them.

Squeaky clean outside doesn't mean the same inside. He could have been gassy, constipated, etc.

With that being said, if the added difficulty of connecting through advertising and back office type work results in more costs and time spent for escorts, prices will go up.

This really could not have been said any better. There is no change in supply and demand,but rather the enabling vehicle. Prices will neither go up or down in an overall sense. Rather, there will be experimentation sporadically accross the board to adjust for the added difficulty of connecting consumer with provider.

Appointment quantity limits, lube, toys, travel (gas, rental car flights) rent/morgage, testing, risk of exposure etc

You would be surprised at the number of inquires I get asking if I am still in town in cities I haven't visited in almost a year. The possibility of this happening and it actually happening is what can lead to an escort feeling awkward about someone asking to save your number, because we will feel apprehensive that you will waste our time when you do contact us. What I say is not indicative of you, or anyone specifically. It's more like a preemptive PSA. Because there are some bad apples in every bunch.

Case in point. I have a new prospective client contacting me right now on RM. His profile is all filled out detailing the type of experience he would like to have. He asks me to check out his profile so I can have an idea of what he is looking for. I check it out and reply that what he described sounds hot and that we will have a great time together. He then proceeds to verify that I will do specific acts after this response (nothing to explicit, can I be dominate, verbal, kink friendly etc). In my experience this more times than not leads to more explicit play by play questions and usually is either a fantasy sexter looking to get off, or probing law enforcement. Was my initial response not adequate from a client's prospective? Should I be cautious and not proceed further? Should I continue to answer all his questions and take an assumed risk of having my time wasted or encountering law enforcement? A penny for your thoughts gentlemen?