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Hes totally my type...but i do agree the body art isnt flattering at all. I am guessing once you contact him he steers you toward his content.

Unless things have changed a lot in the last decades I can say that rimming was always a so do/some don't - kind of sexual interest. Anecdotally, when I was single and extremely sexually active with hundreds of new people, my observation would be that it was rather a 50/50 split amongst the many gay (and bi) men I hooked up with. For me its a case by case. I can totally get into it with a fresh young guy with a nice bubble but, however slightly older guys with a hairy ass would NOT be exciting for me to bury my face in there.

No, its not. Its breach of contract. You clearly consented to being beat up. You werent violated by someone who beat you up randomly.

He is either bullshitting you or lacks experience. There are loads of people who don't want to lick an asshole. There is never anything "weird" about any sexual preferences. You do you. Don't let someone else tell you what you should and shouldn't enjoy.

I tend to agree with @KensingtonHomo here. Although ChatGPT may conflate the two, it is as KensingtonHomo stated: a "technical" definition. I feel the same way about women who claim "sexual assault" when someone made them feel uncomfortable in their company. ACTUAL sexual assault is a matter of sex with NO consent. Tricking an escort into having sex with you for money and then not paying or taking the money back is breach of contract. The sex was completely consensual in this arrangement. No one was feeling assaulted during the session.

Noticed this yummy morsel today, but his services are restricted to "modeling" and doing videos. Are OnlyFans models now advertising on Rent.men ? If you're shopping for a hot fuck are you seriously going to be satisfied paying $20 a month to jerk-off to some guys videos ? 🤔 Sebastianclarck - Male Escort, Gay massage - New York City | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Sebastianclarck Gay Escort in New York City, New York, available for Modeling,Available for videos. | Find...

No. I meant $7,500 a MONTH @Vegas_Millennial has the math correct.

Where are you shopping ? I know a few straight-presenting providers. Can't speak to their actual lifestyle but that their personal presentation is such that my "gaydar" would not have picked them out of a crowd for being into man2man action. Most are strictly oral-top only.

Hes a nice looking man. But my impression remains the same. This is marketing for therapeutic and will likely BE therapeutic inspite of the eye candy aspects.

Exactly. He sounds very skilled at his profession. Don't confuse expert marketing with real affection. I'm sure you're a nice enough fellow that he DID genuinely choose you as easy job..so an experienced professional like himself is going to do his best to keep you coming back. Including spotting you a freebie, to make you feel special. Enjoy the fantasy, but dont mistake the business arrangement for anything else.

The gays all think 7 inches is average while in reality, most men aren't bigger than 5" to 6" erect. So I would say socialigically, when shopping around the gay hookup sites and escort apps youre gonna have many guys afraid to say they are less than 7 inches. I find that many, many men list 8 inches on their profile yet I upon meeting them, the question comes to mind...8 inches from WHERE ? Your asshole to the tip ? 🤔

Yup. showing off his various modalities and not his dick or ass.

One should never be surprised that scientific data and personal experience don't align. No one has THAT many friends who tell you all about their HIV infections.

I am married, yes. I dont think my situation regarding the apps is at all affected by being married with kids. I travel a lot for work and find myself alone in a hotel room quite frequently. Grindr RARELY gets me any results when I can host for a last minute hook up. Its a complete waste of time. Haven't even looked at it recently. Hiring is SO much more satisfying.

I have a few young attractive gay male friends who struggle to land a date on Grindr. It seems to be full of weirdos. Many years ago when I would be on the apps ( Manhunt, Adam4Adam, etc)..it was SO easy. I'd have a guy at my door every night within the hour. But my younger friends say that recent years have turned the online hook up culture into a bizarre circus of insecure time wasters , sitting at home jerking off, instead of actually meeting up. Hiring gets you what you want /when you want. (Mostly). I cant imagine wanting to dredge through Grindr at my age now.

Exactly correct. If it weren't for escorts, unattractive people would never get laid. Most skilled providers are accustomed to overweight customers. As far as those with an actual fat-fetish, it may be a good idea to look for providers who are also out of shape. They will find obesity to be more of a normal state and will focus more on your personality.

I found him to be adorable in "Crashing". (Also watched before Bridgerton) so was one of the main reasons I chose to tune in to the Bridgerton series.

Ive had $200 erotic massages sessions that went full escort without me planning that transition. If I'm open to the offer then my "tip" is in line with an escort's pricing. Doesnt matter how hot 🔥 the provider may think I am. This is how he makes a living, not his private sex life.. So I would never accept a freebie from a provider.

There are multiple attractive young men who escort but are not well suited to having sex with men who they are not genuinely attracted to. Sounds like your fellow is attracted to your money, but not YOU. If the sex isn't exciting enough to bring him to orgasm, then thats not gonna improve over time. The pressure to perform will only worsen the situation. If you enjoy his company and like his looks, you could accept this as a one sided attraction, and take what you get until you find better. I am personally on-board with what you are saying. I really don't enjoy being with someone if they arent enjoying too and cumming proves that point. Saying goodbye isn't difficult. You've already stated your frustration about the situation, so the "thanks for all the fun, but its time to move on" speech is not going to be received as unkind or unexpected.

Truly. I had wanted to meet Allen when he was in NYC but only found his profile right before he moved. So missed the opportunity to enjoy the company of this sweetheart .

"This guy" might makes more sense if you identify who "this guy" might be.

I follow him on Instagram. He IS an actual, working fashion and art-portrait model...so the efforts are probably mandatory to keep himself in the game..

Noticed the new ad recently while searching for a Thai-massage provider. I don't remember the: "I'm straight" heading when I peeked at the listing before. I also question the inclusion of a 4hands massage as an offering if you aren't going for an erotic experience. Not to mention, the $200/hr. price for a one-on-one session of therapeutic only.

Ah! Arby's ! I'm old enough to remember when they served edible food.

Yes, you should always be upfront. Some providers are very good at completely ignoring physical attributes and other are NOT. So full disclosure is very much appreciated when booking intimate services. There are definitely people out there who are kind and considerate and will make you feel comfortable. Just don't try getting that from any of the beauty-queen-Instagram-influencer types.