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He's been 32 since before the pandemic.

For psychotherapy to work you need to take the therapist OUT of your "privacy" concerns. You would get nowhere without 100% honest exposure. A professional therapist doesn't judge. I've worked with a therapist for a few years who's heterosexual yet extremely understanding, professional and even "kind" and amusingly curious about the ins and outs of my very wild and sometimes over the top sexual histories. It's very comforting to work with someone you trust 100% to be understanding and supportive of every quirk. It's not a priest. They don't judge you.

I'm sure that experience has marked your sexual life in significant ways. Have you navigated that alone of reached out for professional guidance ? I was never molested as a child but have lived a fairly unconventional life, was raped twice as an adult and maintained a very unconventional sex life for decades. I never thought much about any if it, and just kept moving forward in life. I suppose my successes in other areas provided enough positive comfort that I could always table any lingering baggage. By 40 I decided I needed to sort out some of the emotional remnants of never having dealt with confused feelings and hired a psychotherapist to help navigate various conflicts and unreasonable impulses that I felt might now be disruptive to my (at that time, recent) marriage.

An escort typically charges a relatively high fee already for an hour of his time...so I don't feel obligated to tip unless he went above and beyond in his efforts. Then it's 20% to 25% . A masseur is charging less and sometimes adds more intimate services that aren't included in his fee...so definitely owed a tip...sometimes even a significant amount if the session goes from massage to full escort. In that case minimum $100 additional.

Very sorry to hear that. How old were you ?

My doctor told me to never brush my teeth before oral sex. You increase the chance of infection significantly if you've opened up a bleeding gum tissue with a vigorous brushing. Use mouthwash BEFORE your hook up in lieu of brushing.

Never wish away a good experience. Think of it this way. Life is like a good book. We turn the pages, enjoy their content and put the book on a shelf. Sometimes we read the book again and sometimes we don't. But we always remember reading it.

I don't know if I'd want to EAT him as much as I'd like to just suck the cream filling .😋

@boinllanview I assume we are only asking about "providers" of sexual services? Not masseurs ?

I assume you mean you want a happy ending (erotic) massage ? It would be helpful to tell us the type of person you are attracted to if you want productive recommendations.

When I was younger it was a birthday tradition for my friends to give the birthday boy some T and go out partying until it really kicked in and the we'd head to a bathhouse or sex club. I remember one year it was my birthday. I must have fucked 30 people that night. I was a sexual power house. But that's because I only did it once a year. People who get addicted to meth develop seriously bad emotional problems and get to a point where they constantly WANT sex but can't perform. It's all very sad. Time to move on and pray for your friend to seek recovery.

Yes. Need to. Doesn't mean they do. Most people in industries where income is cash heavy, they report a nominal amount to establish legitimacy were they to be audited by the IRS. When factoring income I would calculate tax on 50% of their income, not all of it.

Who works 7 days a week ? Like @Jamie21 said...that's gonna burn you out pretty fast.

Yes. He's always traveling. Very laid back and pleasant personality. Well worth waiting around for a return tour of NYC.

Well...with that body, I'm sure he gets plenty of takers who don't really care if he can provide a massage.

Do you realize how many old people die from influenza and other respiratory conditions? We all die from something. If you read the data correctly. Covid is only a contributing factor to the NORMAL death rate of the planet. People die. You cant stop that.

At a starting price of $350, I tend to doubt that he's an actual masseur.

So then he looks 43 in person?

I am reading some of the public commentary from this news article. Doesn't look good for UHC. The vitriol couldn't be more pungent in the air.

I mean...it says he was there for two hours....but still. I hope he came more than once for that price. 😉

There are lots of people who use Grindr as an additional platform for escorting. I've had more than one handsome fellow hit me up on Grindr. The routine is always the same. Calling me "daddy" and telling me how hot I am...then when you suggest a meet, the price list gets posted.

Which pix ? 🤔 Looks 33 in his first and 43 in his second.

$700 ??

I wasn't endorsing Sitges as being anything resembling what it once was. For many tourist destinations: its success is also its downfall.

Certain providers ask for photos of the client, same way clients ask for photos of the provider. The provider sets the rate according to how do-able you are.