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I think she was just annoyed a Protestant kid was in their neighborhood. I can't hide my waspiness being all blue eyed and blond hair. I had walked all the way from Atlantic city along the boardwalk and was hungry. What little German-American boy doesn't love a good pastry ? 😋

and l'chaim 🍷

I get messages at least once a week on Grindr from an account with a photo of an attractive Asian man who is "looking for a relationship." I always just tell whomever is sending me these messages that I'm not gay, I just like fucking guys and that always ends the conversation. 😂

When I was a kid living in traditional central PA it was always pumpkin pie and apple pie, for those who didn't like pumpkin. I of course, always had both ..with vanilla ice cream on top 😋

You have two choices on the holidays. Follow the tradition or don't. You don't like turkey ..then make what ever you do like. Doesn't matter at that point.

I have no interest in Astrology or any beliefs in supernatural forces. That said....I am supposedly a Pisces on the Cusp of Aquarius. The description of my personality based on my birth date is almost exactly my personality The description of my "love match" with my wife's sign is identical to our relationship. Scary how that works.

What about boxer shorts and a white t shirt ? That's my go-to when I'm alone on business.

I DO love a good rugelach. ❤️ I remember the first time I discovered them..I was at a bakery in a Jewish neighborhood in Margate NJ. The lady at the bakery seemed annoyed that me...the little goyim ..couldn't pronounce it after three tries. Delicious no matter how you struggle with the "cccch" sound.

My muay-thai trainer owns a fitness club in Dubai. We've chatted quite a bit about the place and yes...totally uninteresting. Like a gigantic shopping mall. But they are all there for the MONEY. It's apparently a very superficial society and physical beauty is king when it comes to the social scene. Pretty pepe get connections and are paid tremendous sums just to show up at the right parties. Those who escort can make substantial sums for one weekend with the right closet-case oil sheik.

Pretty sure if the thought of marrying a woman makes you want to commit suicide, you're definitely not "bisexual".

So you're openly admitting Christmas is better without the coloreds and you prefer an all-white environment ? 🤔 ( Sorry for the politically incorrect humor ) but it was just sitting there for the taking .😜

Thank you "Nikky T" for signing up with a new profile, just in time to refute the bad reviews at Grandee. Your contribution is understandable, but unfortunately the community here is not so GULLIBLE !

I agree. He's a handsome fella. But if I'm paying for company, I want more than average in the muscle category, so accurate pix gets me closer to booking an appointment.

I used to see a Thai Masseur, who after several sessions became more sensual and eventually ...sexual. In-between massage sessions, I would also see him socially; taking him out for lunch and would go back to his place for a hour or two to fuck his brains out. None of this was "on the clock". He just thought I was "really hot". But of course Asian guys seem to have more appreciation for a man in his 40's than do American gays who are very inebriated on youth culture.

I think you're assuming a saturation point based on your small town experience. Larger cities have proportionally more gay and bisexual men, so the client base is exponentially larger. You also find more bisexual men ( like myself ) who are married and not afraid to engage in same-sex activity outside of their marriage. This is my opinion, but I would ask others to share their opinion too...but I don't think there is a significant saturation of male escorts in any major city that it goes beyond the demand. Particularly in places that are tourist destinations, like Miami, New York, San Francisco and LA. You don't need to live IN the big city, just nearby enough that you can make a quick trip to meet up with a client.

You may be on to something. That would indeed, cure the problem of seeing fake branches. 👍

He's a sexy guy. BUT your comment about "matching the pix" has to be about it being the same guy in the pix. I remember chatting with him four years ago, and these are the same pix from four years ago. I don't think when you're over thirty you need to post monthly, but a lot can change in your body's appearance after two years of pandemic shut downs.

I think you're just a victim of cumulative anger. You may have been the straw that broke his camel's back of frustration.

The time frame for how long to live in an area is equivalent to the level of satisfaction you're getting from living in the area. You stated yourself that larger cities have more competition, but that's because they also have more customers. It's ok to be the "only game in town", but if there isn't a lot of activity, then that doesn't really carry much of a benefit, when the customer base is limited. You should also consider that if business is drying up, it could be about YOU and not the area. As we age, we need to change our strategies for meeting people. When I moved to NYC, as a single guy I could have pretty much gotten whatever I wanted in terms of hooking up. I was young and cute, with a bubble butt and everyone wanted to fuck me. As I aged, I got more muscular and more masculine looking; everyone wanted me to fuck THEM. As I grow into my 50's and my hair starts to gray and I pick up a wrinkle or two ..I don't get as many people randomly trying to meet me. And sometimes I end up online hiring, when I want the same kind of sexy men I used to get for free. So things, change and we need to adapt. Point being, how you market yourself and WHO you market yourself to, are not constants. You have to think about where more people are going to find your services appealing. Small cities are nice, but people tend to settle down and take a partner because the social scene is limited. Big cities have tons of tourists passing through and lots of different kinds of people with different kinds of tastes living there. So it might suit you better to find a small town adjacent to a large city where you have a larger and more diverse client base.

Except, now you're breathing in methylisothiazolinone, PEGs, and VOCs with your pine scent. No thanks. There's enough stuff out there that causes cancer. I'm not spraying toxic chemicals around my house.

Which is why I keep cautioning people about posting comments about sex for money. It's always: "I hired this guy (for his time or for a massage). Any discussion of sexual connection shouldn't be part of what you paid for. You can hire a plumber to fix your pipes and then have sex with the plumber after he did your pipes, but you can't hire the plumber to have sex with you and clean your pipes.

I think you're simply going about this backwards. You should be inquiring about bottom-bunk escorts who also do a good massage. Gets you more directly to what you're after.

Same. I had CK briefs that lasted me for nearly 15 years before the elastic eventually dried out. As I started replacing them with new ones I noticed the newer models tear apart at the seams and the elastic gives up after a few dozen washes.

Probably because they're models, not masseurs .

San Jose is not in the nice part of Costa Rica. It's up in the mountains and away from the resorts. Basically a ghetto in downtown. They literally have road signs warning people they are entering a "Distrito Marginal" (slum).