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Well .....at least you're not in the" grandpa" category. Transactional relationships can be complicated. You pay for a fantasy that isn't going to be fun when you start believing the fairy tale and then get slapped in the face with the truth. Prince Charming is an escort. He's there because you pay him. Escorts will choose the man who pays the most and annoys them the least ( until that dynamic changes ). DIS-inviting him and complaining to him turned your relationship into something different. It's no longer the easy alternative to old grandpa.

Oh ? Well that's not the impression you gave me. Maybe that's not the impression you had given this young man (who wasn't the favorite). Maybe you'd like to share more details about the problem as it occurred ?

He looks good for 40. But my homosexual tendencies revolve around my inability to figure out how to get boys in College.....so 40 is WAY too old for me. That would help explain why he did nothing for me, in spite of being a pleasant sort of fellow.

Cathexis: def. The investment of energy in an object, idea, or person is known as cathexis. Since the id does not distinguish between a mental image and reality, it may not lead to direct action to satisfy a need. Instead, the id may simply form an image of the desired object that is satisfying in the short term but does not fulfill the need in the long term. For example, a person who is hungry may create a mental image of a desired food rather than actually eating.

Jeezus. You really are lost, aren't you ? Now I understand why you got yourself in this pickle.

Well considering 20% of the black community doesn't have a job..."sedentary" is not unfamiliar. People of all colors who don't work and live off food stamps are typically obese.

Which makes it even MORE bizarre that you aren't aware of how much that hurts the one who's NOT "the favorite".

I fucked his husband a few times....but yeah Justin is just 🤢 . I don't understand the attraction.

The term "head sugar baby" is the equivalent of your mom saying your brother is "her favorite" .☹️

I don't mind body art, as long as it's not plastered all over the body ( and face ).

Cute guy in the pic...but only ONE pic ? Seems sketchy.

Just keep finding the comments "funny". Everyone has their type....and everyone has things they don't care for. So it's all a meat market here. You have beautiful eyes.

Interesting that he's included two pics from his younger/pretty-boy days.

Smells fake.

We ALL suffer from anxiety ! I believe the increase in prescription medication is merely a move from self medicating to professional medicating. For centuries, people self medicated with alcohol. More recently, it's marijuana, and/or a wide array of mood altering drugs like meth. Although I DO agree: parental coddling has created a generation of weak-kneed adults with more limited ability to handle anxiety ( and/or depression ) through traditional methods of exercise, positive relationships, and a satisfying sex life.

Another handsome guy with a great body who went too far with the body art. So distracting.

"Head Sugar Baby" ? Am I naive or does this seem like a formula for hurt feelings ? I have more experience dating women, than I do men, but I'm pretty sure that jealousy runs through everyone is varying proportions. Bad move.

He's been 26 for a long time.

I thought the consensus on SEEKING was that everyone was a con-artist, looking to milk lonely old men out of their retirement savings 🤔 . It was before Covid, but I seem to remember a thread about the frustration people had finding anyone who genuinely wanted to perform as a steady companion.

Weekending, I guess. When I checked on Friday it said Virginia Beach

Agreed. I have a gay friend who had lived there for many years and had now moved to Hong Kong for these reasons you stated.

Keeping in mind there is no universal definition of "hot". In my case he's just not anywhere near what I personally would call "hot". That's not to say he's not a pleasant looking fellow. As I said before. He's decent looking and gives a decent massage I didn't repeat.

Now in New York. https://rentmasseur.com/BrandonDoors

The exhibit ( a retrospective of a wide time-line in his career ) was interesting to see because of the many varied aspects of his work beyond the familiar minimalist oil paintings of light and shadow. I think the most surprising was the very fine illustration work he did for magazine covers. The exhibit includes his pen and ink, charcoal & watercolor work which all help you to understand his evolution toward painting with a heavy emphasis on light and space.

On my way to the exhibit today.