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I think you're just a victim of cumulative anger. You may have been the straw that broke his camel's back of frustration.

The time frame for how long to live in an area is equivalent to the level of satisfaction you're getting from living in the area. You stated yourself that larger cities have more competition, but that's because they also have more customers. It's ok to be the "only game in town", but if there isn't a lot of activity, then that doesn't really carry much of a benefit, when the customer base is limited. You should also consider that if business is drying up, it could be about YOU and not the area. As we age, we need to change our strategies for meeting people. When I moved to NYC, as a single guy I could have pretty much gotten whatever I wanted in terms of hooking up. I was young and cute, with a bubble butt and everyone wanted to fuck me. As I aged, I got more muscular and more masculine looking; everyone wanted me to fuck THEM. As I grow into my 50's and my hair starts to gray and I pick up a wrinkle or two ..I don't get as many people randomly trying to meet me. And sometimes I end up online hiring, when I want the same kind of sexy men I used to get for free. So things, change and we need to adapt. Point being, how you market yourself and WHO you market yourself to, are not constants. You have to think about where more people are going to find your services appealing. Small cities are nice, but people tend to settle down and take a partner because the social scene is limited. Big cities have tons of tourists passing through and lots of different kinds of people with different kinds of tastes living there. So it might suit you better to find a small town adjacent to a large city where you have a larger and more diverse client base.

Except, now you're breathing in methylisothiazolinone, PEGs, and VOCs with your pine scent. No thanks. There's enough stuff out there that causes cancer. I'm not spraying toxic chemicals around my house.

Which is why I keep cautioning people about posting comments about sex for money. It's always: "I hired this guy (for his time or for a massage). Any discussion of sexual connection shouldn't be part of what you paid for. You can hire a plumber to fix your pipes and then have sex with the plumber after he did your pipes, but you can't hire the plumber to have sex with you and clean your pipes.

I think you're simply going about this backwards. You should be inquiring about bottom-bunk escorts who also do a good massage. Gets you more directly to what you're after.

Same. I had CK briefs that lasted me for nearly 15 years before the elastic eventually dried out. As I started replacing them with new ones I noticed the newer models tear apart at the seams and the elastic gives up after a few dozen washes.

Probably because they're models, not masseurs .

San Jose is not in the nice part of Costa Rica. It's up in the mountains and away from the resorts. Basically a ghetto in downtown. They literally have road signs warning people they are entering a "Distrito Marginal" (slum).

Pictures of a very pretty model. Reminds me of the boys in Instanbul. Seriously doubting he's the guy posting this profile. The text sounds like somebody's mom wrote it 🤣 !

There used to be a tall, athletic young Chinese fellow named Phil who was working his way around the spas in midtown prior to Covid. He was a little too eager to please and would be banned from places for going to far with customers. Sounds like the same guy. Very sweet. Used to have my number and would let me know where he landed next. Nice kid, nice massage, good release but I can't tell you anything about his other services. I never took him up on the offer.

If they have a public profile with their name published, you're not "revealing" their name. They are. We also don't know that profile #2 has his real name anyway. So still not understanding the problem with cross referencing public profiles. People cross reference between rent.men and rentmasseur and/or masseuefinder all the time. Why is this example different ?

Thanks I am curious what the protocol is here Maybe a moderator has the answer ?

Met him on Grindr several years ago. Great ass on that kid. Can't speak to his massage skills...but he's got the submissive bottom performance down to a science.

Good guess ...but it's Lenny Kragba. A favorite of mine who I follow on Instagram. Gorgeous man. https://www.instagram.com/lennykragba/

I've had the pleasure of meeting many young, handsome and INTERESTING people through the massage industry. I pay upfront, in cash, when I arrive , because I have too often lost myself in pleasant conversation with my provider after the session and totally forgot that this was a professional encounter and not time spent with a buddy.

Twitter isn't going anywhere. Musk has only discovered that the site can be maintained with 400 employees, instead of 7000. It won't take many more monitors to respond to any encroaching "hate speech" if hate speech is defined appropriately and not broadly painted as anything that disagrees with Leftie Group-Think.

Although I find it sad that people still need to "come out"...I do enjoy the public realization that gay men are not always effeminate cross dressers. I myself struggled with my same-sex attraction in high school and college. I never felt any connection with the "gay community". I had gay friends and would hang out with them in gay bars...but was always felt myself an outsider because I was a testosterone charged sporty kind of guy with no effeminate tendencies. THIS was the assumption of what a gay man was. I am glad to see that people's perceptions are being challenged.

Why ? It's clearly the same guy. Am I unaware of some professional protocol about using different professional names ?

When I was younger I had several retail jobs and over those years, worked in several states. In every instance it was ILLEGAL to "try on" underwear, for hygienic reasons. I am therefore curious where these occurrences of dressing room try-ons were taking place 🤔 It was always my assumption ( maybe wrong) that this was a natural standard throughout the garment industry.

If you compare NYC's history of "decriminalizing" vice.. you'll find that the laws can still be applied. Just because they don't "go after you" doesn't mean they can't prosecute when they "just happens to bump into you" breaking the law .

If you're at a spa, the provider only gets part of the fee so tipping for good service is expected. If you're meeting a masseur at their own home tipping for basic service is optional because they already get all the funds from the fee. BUT ...any optional services or treating you special is also a reason to tip even when your provider isn't working at a spa. Your provider is suffering from inflation too. If you can afford to tip then you need to stretch out your sessions to fewer times a year so you can.

Sounds like his new bearded-bro look isn't bringing in as much business as his fresh twunk-look used to do. 🤔

Always a real tree. The SMELL is important to me. I love the scent of fresh pine in the house. Each year we buy two new ornaments to remember the season. Little by little the colored balls we started with when we first married are being replaced by little decorative happy memories. Sometimes we pick up a few in our travels. As we decorate the tree we discuss when and where they were bought. Keeps the fond memories fresh. ( Although I would like to forget 2020 ! ) 😆

Althought you're right...many gays are snobs and hooking up is a game of *I can do better*. But that doesn't mean everyone is like that. I worked for a year at Calin Klein when I was in my 20s. Although I was lucky enough to have been born to a beautiful mother and handsome father I was nice looking but I was not fashion model stunning. What I was, was nice looking, friendly and approachable. I probably fucked half the models who came through those doors. All of them technically out of my league. But I never let that stop me from trying and it paid off more often than not. I have no idea where YOU stand in terms of your looks but in my experience you are never barred from trying to "trade up" a few points. If you're back of the bus than you need to be aware of your social status and consider paying to get what you want from the front row.

I agree. I remember seeing these when I was a teenager 😂 ( j k .) But yeah...these pix are ancient.