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My muay-thai trainer owns a fitness club in Dubai. We've chatted quite a bit about the place and yes...totally uninteresting. Like a gigantic shopping mall. But they are all there for the MONEY. It's apparently a very superficial society and physical beauty is king when it comes to the social scene. Pretty pepe get connections and are paid tremendous sums just to show up at the right parties. Those who escort can make substantial sums for one weekend with the right closet-case oil sheik.

Pretty sure if the thought of marrying a woman makes you want to commit suicide, you're definitely not "bisexual".

So you're openly admitting Christmas is better without the coloreds and you prefer an all-white environment ? 🤔 ( Sorry for the politically incorrect humor ) but it was just sitting there for the taking .😜

Thank you "Nikky T" for signing up with a new profile, just in time to refute the bad reviews at Grandee. Your contribution is understandable, but unfortunately the community here is not so GULLIBLE !

I agree. He's a handsome fella. But if I'm paying for company, I want more than average in the muscle category, so accurate pix gets me closer to booking an appointment.

I used to see a Thai Masseur, who after several sessions became more sensual and eventually ...sexual. In-between massage sessions, I would also see him socially; taking him out for lunch and would go back to his place for a hour or two to fuck his brains out. None of this was "on the clock". He just thought I was "really hot". But of course Asian guys seem to have more appreciation for a man in his 40's than do American gays who are very inebriated on youth culture.

I think you're assuming a saturation point based on your small town experience. Larger cities have proportionally more gay and bisexual men, so the client base is exponentially larger. You also find more bisexual men ( like myself ) who are married and not afraid to engage in same-sex activity outside of their marriage. This is my opinion, but I would ask others to share their opinion too...but I don't think there is a significant saturation of male escorts in any major city that it goes beyond the demand. Particularly in places that are tourist destinations, like Miami, New York, San Francisco and LA. You don't need to live IN the big city, just nearby enough that you can make a quick trip to meet up with a client.

You may be on to something. That would indeed, cure the problem of seeing fake branches. 👍

He's a sexy guy. BUT your comment about "matching the pix" has to be about it being the same guy in the pix. I remember chatting with him four years ago, and these are the same pix from four years ago. I don't think when you're over thirty you need to post monthly, but a lot can change in your body's appearance after two years of pandemic shut downs.

I think you're just a victim of cumulative anger. You may have been the straw that broke his camel's back of frustration.

The time frame for how long to live in an area is equivalent to the level of satisfaction you're getting from living in the area. You stated yourself that larger cities have more competition, but that's because they also have more customers. It's ok to be the "only game in town", but if there isn't a lot of activity, then that doesn't really carry much of a benefit, when the customer base is limited. You should also consider that if business is drying up, it could be about YOU and not the area. As we age, we need to change our strategies for meeting people. When I moved to NYC, as a single guy I could have pretty much gotten whatever I wanted in terms of hooking up. I was young and cute, with a bubble butt and everyone wanted to fuck me. As I aged, I got more muscular and more masculine looking; everyone wanted me to fuck THEM. As I grow into my 50's and my hair starts to gray and I pick up a wrinkle or two ..I don't get as many people randomly trying to meet me. And sometimes I end up online hiring, when I want the same kind of sexy men I used to get for free. So things, change and we need to adapt. Point being, how you market yourself and WHO you market yourself to, are not constants. You have to think about where more people are going to find your services appealing. Small cities are nice, but people tend to settle down and take a partner because the social scene is limited. Big cities have tons of tourists passing through and lots of different kinds of people with different kinds of tastes living there. So it might suit you better to find a small town adjacent to a large city where you have a larger and more diverse client base.

Except, now you're breathing in methylisothiazolinone, PEGs, and VOCs with your pine scent. No thanks. There's enough stuff out there that causes cancer. I'm not spraying toxic chemicals around my house.

Which is why I keep cautioning people about posting comments about sex for money. It's always: "I hired this guy (for his time or for a massage). Any discussion of sexual connection shouldn't be part of what you paid for. You can hire a plumber to fix your pipes and then have sex with the plumber after he did your pipes, but you can't hire the plumber to have sex with you and clean your pipes.

I think you're simply going about this backwards. You should be inquiring about bottom-bunk escorts who also do a good massage. Gets you more directly to what you're after.

Same. I had CK briefs that lasted me for nearly 15 years before the elastic eventually dried out. As I started replacing them with new ones I noticed the newer models tear apart at the seams and the elastic gives up after a few dozen washes.

Probably because they're models, not masseurs .

San Jose is not in the nice part of Costa Rica. It's up in the mountains and away from the resorts. Basically a ghetto in downtown. They literally have road signs warning people they are entering a "Distrito Marginal" (slum).

Pictures of a very pretty model. Reminds me of the boys in Instanbul. Seriously doubting he's the guy posting this profile. The text sounds like somebody's mom wrote it 🤣 !

There used to be a tall, athletic young Chinese fellow named Phil who was working his way around the spas in midtown prior to Covid. He was a little too eager to please and would be banned from places for going to far with customers. Sounds like the same guy. Very sweet. Used to have my number and would let me know where he landed next. Nice kid, nice massage, good release but I can't tell you anything about his other services. I never took him up on the offer.

If they have a public profile with their name published, you're not "revealing" their name. They are. We also don't know that profile #2 has his real name anyway. So still not understanding the problem with cross referencing public profiles. People cross reference between rent.men and rentmasseur and/or masseuefinder all the time. Why is this example different ?

Thanks I am curious what the protocol is here Maybe a moderator has the answer ?

Met him on Grindr several years ago. Great ass on that kid. Can't speak to his massage skills...but he's got the submissive bottom performance down to a science.

Good guess ...but it's Lenny Kragba. A favorite of mine who I follow on Instagram. Gorgeous man. https://www.instagram.com/lennykragba/

I've had the pleasure of meeting many young, handsome and INTERESTING people through the massage industry. I pay upfront, in cash, when I arrive , because I have too often lost myself in pleasant conversation with my provider after the session and totally forgot that this was a professional encounter and not time spent with a buddy.

Twitter isn't going anywhere. Musk has only discovered that the site can be maintained with 400 employees, instead of 7000. It won't take many more monitors to respond to any encroaching "hate speech" if hate speech is defined appropriately and not broadly painted as anything that disagrees with Leftie Group-Think.