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I say it's NO progress. I live in NYC and I have friends of every ethnic background, political stripe, social group and sexual persuasion. My wife and I are both bisexual and open minded. Yet, I find the environment here on site often to be like a game of Jumanji where you never know what freaky insanity is going to jump out at you for making a "wrong move". Where did the humor go ? I remember years on Fire Island with gay friends in the 90s where we'd say the most outrageous things about people and everyone would just laugh. Where did that go ? Why so bitter now ?

When I was in my 20's I really enjoyed the "bitchy humor" of a lot of the gay men who I knew and befriended. I am missing that fun, I used to have with those guys ( many who has since passed ). Every time I make a joke here, there always seems to be someone lurking around waiting to "be offended" for what was OBVIOUSLY meant to be humorous. Why is that ? Did gay men lose their sense of humor over the years ?

When I was younger, I enjoyed the company of some older gay men who were always so much fun joking about things with a witty style of "bitchy humor". Cracking jokes, often with a whiff of inappropriateness that used to be regarded as a sharpness that was understood as someone who's lived life and finds humor in life's various irony. Now, the minute you crack a joke, there seems to be a crazed Social Justice Warrior laying in the grass just waiting to judge you for your lack of sensitivity. Did all gay men turn into Lesbians ? I remember gay men being FUN, joyful and humorous. Now, the responses I get here are nasty, judgemental and full of bile for stepping out of line and not being sensitive to everyone's overly fragile egos.

More and more I am finding it difficult to crack a joke without some triggered member claiming some horrible injustice of racism, sexism or some other "-ism". I remember when I was younger and I had some older gay friends. They were always good for a laugh, poking fun at life and the various predictable behaviors of various people and social groups. NOW, if you even begin to make a joke about anything, some crazed child abuse victim immediately shuts you down and calls you some sort of "-ist". My question to this Forum is when did gay men stop being fun ?

I meant, WHY would you PAY to SLEEP with someone if you're going to sleep alone and away from them ? I find that totally bizarre.

It's a tough room here with all the emotionally fragile Lesbians who populate the site ready to pounce on the most minute slight of politically correct behavior.

Can barely see the human under all that artwork. Looks like he might have been otherwise attractive if you could have seen him.

Where does a Jewish boy get the time to be a "jock" in athletics with all that studying to be a top doctor or lawyer ? 😉

Tony definitely contributed to my same sex attraction.

That is an interesting perspective. Also bi, here. Married with kids. Only went with girls / women all through high school and first few years of college. But I've found I like my lines drawn pretty clearly. I like curvy women who look like women and muscular men who are masculine obvious men. I've been around the block and fucked trans men / trans women / twinks etc. And although I had a good time with many different people my preferences run pretty standard issue when it comes to men vs. women. Twinks are never my preference.

I'm not sure if I would cum enough for an extra $100. 😉🤣

Aren't both of those the whole point of an "overnight" ?

Now here's a boy that could make me leave my wife& kids and go gay . ( Just kidding ) But...🤩 wow.

😈sounds like a good time

Some of the photos look 23 but others more like 33. So I'm guessing he's age shaving...so your concerns are probably not an issue in reality.

Who ever that is, has the assets to make it in porn or escorting assuming he isn't here to promote his OnlyFans

Thanks. He looks mighty fine in those photos. Good to know some of these guys on Rentmen arent just Photoshop beautiful. He quoted me $350 for an in call. That doesn't sound expensive in today's weak-dollar economy.

Another Instagram special. Will disappear in two days

It was my AMEX. AMEX is great for fraud...but they can't mitigate other mistakes in billing. You have to first try and sort it out with the vendor

And who's "perch" would you like me to speak from ? I only know what I know. Why don't you share the parts I missed instead of just making bitchy comments ? Be my teacher .

Money 💰

That comment didn't make any sense.

The worst sexual encounter I've never had with a man was also the most beautiful man I've ever hooked up with. I used to work at Calvin Klein and during fashion week I was smitten with a striking model from Brazil. We crossed paths again at the after party and I struck up a conversation with him (in my broken Portuguese). He was bored with the party and suggested we go back to my place to fuck. ( I checked to see if I was hallucinating). We get back to my place and strip down..he lays on the bed. Absolutely beautiful man. His body was beyond perfect. Unfortunately "laying there" was the extent of his sexual repertoire. I don't know if I was meant to just service him and be happy or what. But the experience was borderline necrophilia as he barely moved and his participation was negligible. I jerked off on his chest and called it a night.

Exactly. Fantasies aren't reality. Only Disney ( and most guys on Rentmasseur) guarantee a happy ending.

Are we looking at the same guy ?? 🤔