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I haven't MET him in person. But he does hit me up on Grindr from time to time. I do have an interest in sub/DOM play with gay men, but this one always comes off as a weirdo. So.. "proceed with caution" would be my advice.

Maybe my experience is too different but maybe in the end we are all the same. Both my wife and I are bisexual. We married as friends, not "lovers". We decided to share a life together and raise children, but that didn't mean we don't still have strong physical urges to be with other people, especially indulging in a same sex partner. I think all relationships whether they be hetero or homosexual, are based primarily on TRUST. That means whatever your boundaries might be in an open relationship, they need to be AGREED upon and respected honestly. For US....a physical relationship with a professional, is one that doesn't include any romantic interludes. So, an erotic massage that's paid-for is viewed as a no-risk encounter. My wife on the other-hand has her Lesbian friends who she spends time, and occasionally that time becomes intimate. So in the end, I am the one who worries more about infidelity than my wife. It is very much that intimacy of an ongoing outside-relationship that leaves one wondering at what point the boredom of your day to day might draw your partner to the excitement of a new lover. My advice is to avoid the gray-area of romantic intimacy with more than one person. It always feels threatening to your partner and risks confusing your own heart.

Yiddish term. You hear it used in NYC a lot. ( Large and long-standing Eastern European Jewish population ) Usually uttered with a shrug of ambivalence.

Respectfully: I am responding to the member who is worried about side effects of Descovy. MY advice is that he should consider the side effect CAREFULLY as they don't all "just go away" after a week or two. If anyone is "veering" it's those who want their bareback sex so badly they willfully ignore the facts and pretend there aren't any side effects to Descovy ( or Truvada ). Everyone needs to choose their priorities. My singular comment about MY personal choice was just THAT. A singular opinion. But it was based on a Professional opinion. What I did not share is that it was also backed up by a second professional opinion of a very close friend of mine who is a leading PhD in Immunology and the head of research and funding at a pharmaceutical company who agrees with this point. It's a matter of your priorities, but long term use of either of these drugs has proven to be risky. No matter WHAT the pharmaceutical industry does to control the message by flooding the internet with online posts about how "safe and effective" it is. ( Which my INDUSTRY INSIDER friend confirmed is true ). There wouldn't be ads for MULTIPLE lawyers looking to SUE the pharmaceutical company on your behalf if these drugs were consistently "safe and effective". So just use a bit of logic and you'll see the "safety" of these drugs is marketing, not fact.

Ok. But the subject of the conversation thread is Decovy ( read the heading ) and that is also what I was discussing. Yes. Truvada is a related subject. But you asked me a question from a discussion about Descovy, not Truvada.

Well at least you can SUE for damages after your Truvada gives you liver failure and brittle bones..... https://www.youhavealawyer.com/hiv-drugs/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=ppc&utm_campaign=tdf&utm_term=truvada complications&gclid=Cj0KCQjwj7CZBhDHARIsAPPWv3dzc-iYVgpw8QVKkF7cOeNwxOUAsto70IrX-X3jmoxkGDyKGG_cBHgaAsuvEALw_wcB

Disrespecting my Doctor of many years, simply because you don't agree with him seems a bit immature doesn't it ? This is not some Jack-in-the-box GP from a walk-in-clinic. My G.P. is a highly respected doctor and has a long standing practice. I pay out of pocket for his services, because you don't get high quality practitioners from your insurance company these days. The most important fact here is that he is NOT one of these guys who's taking money on the side to prescribe medication. His holistic approach is "health first" and he is being reasonable in his evaluation of a drug that has a history of destructive side effects. I can certainly strap on a condom. I spent plenty of years when I was younger, using condoms because I didn't want any unexpected pregnancies with my female companions, I didn't want to catch HIV from my male companions and I didn't want any STD's from either. If bare-backing is SO important to you...then you do you. But don't bury your head in the sand and call people stupid for not joining you there. That's dangerous and irresponsible to your community.

A quick online search will confirm my statement. To answer your question: my GP told me. "Descovy can sometimes cause severe and even life threatening liver problems. Symptoms of a liver problem can include: yellowing of your skin or whites of your eyes. nausea and vomiting."

"My truth". I think he meant his viewpoint. The "truth" is that he knew as a public figure his "100% consensual" activity on an adult site is not compatible with being a representative of a daily news outlet. Times have changed and his status as an openly gay man did not prevent him from being employed. But he was deliberately pushing the envelope and he lost. Consent has nothing to do with the decision to replace him.

When I asked MY doctor about anti-HIV medications his response is: "wear a condom". Lots of side effects and long range damage to my liver - or - forego bareback sex ? I will stick with the condom.

Is ANYONE really straight 😉

I only learned about prostate massage around ten years ago while initially reading an article about prostate cancer. The original thread was how prostate massage can reduce risk of cancer cells building up...and it then veered into a discussion about orgasms. My researched turned up quite a few practicioners from India and Thailand where this seems to be more of a common treatment. I finally hired a Thai fellow who was very talented and would have me cumming buckets without even touching my cock. I was about 40 at the time.

One of the articles I read yesterday quoted him as being a "victim of not only homophobia but racism" because (#1) they didn't give him a pass being the first college graduate from a poor Latino family. (#2) He's just a "sex positive" homosexual doing what all gay men do...(all of this is Monday Morning Quarterbacking of course ). If I remember where I found it, I will post it later.

I've seen this same apartment in the background of other masseur ads.

"Sex positive" ? I've been a very sexual person my entire adult life. But I also know to keep my ass off camera if I don't want my clients, parents and/ or kids getting a peek at my private sex life. This guy's got some emotional problems if he is somehow confused about being fired. He had the privilege of being given a opportunity as an openly gay man and he wasted it by pushing the envelope of how much a public figure can get away with. He crossed the line and is now crying racism to get away from his poor judgement.

I think Michael was (is ) just a very sexual person. I had a regular thing going with him 20 years ago when he lived down the block from me. I had no idea he was a porn star until one of my gay friends saw him with me. I guess I should feel privileged I was getting it for free. I could understand someone paying him a lot. He was quite good looking and a lot of fun.

Well.... I mean...we all know the allure of "risky behavior". But when you risk your job knowingly you can't be serious when you're indignant about being fired for risking your job. You plant turnip seeds - you get turnips..

Sorry. Haven't ever seen the ad before so gonna assume this is a very a new listing. And yeah...$120 for an in call in NYC is not "expensive"...so some sarcasm is bound to hit you on the way out with that comment. Limited photos of young Asian men DO seem to always be a red flag.

When I was in my 20's everyone wanted to fuck me. By the time I was 40 everyone wanted me to fuck them. Go with the flow.

At least Capitalism gives you choices. You can work hard/ take risks / reap the rewards or you can sit on your ass while someone takes care of you. But you're always better off with choices. For my part, I'd like to be able to decide IF I want to fuck an escort for $ 1000 than to know I will never have that much disposable income in my entire life.

I was thinking the same thing about these pictures. Some of them from my childhood. 😉😝

So handsome. Seems almost too good to be true. As they say: "What's the catch" ? 🤔

If some people are wealthy enough to spend $ 300,000.00 on an Hermes bag, I am assuming $ 1K to fuck your favorite porn star is pocket change in comparison. Not everyone is on a budget. And not every provider is a public servant committed to making their ass available to the masses.

I've traveled extensively throughout Brazil. I've always had very positive experiences with Brazilian people in general. It's a big country with different cultures in different regions but there is always a joyfulness in Brazilans no matter which part of the country you find yourself in. So doesn't surprise me you'd have a good experience with most Brazilain providers.

An oft-discussed subject. The conclusion is: DON'T DO IT!